Originally posted by: Renee.Clare
Thank you!! Your description makes me to see things in more depth.
He did go against his mom seeing her flawed when she was talking about Ushna being dancer's daughter and he even gave good explanation to her defending Ushna. So he does have that rational mindset but gets blinded by his mother's hold on him?
difficult to explain but he does idolize her a bit too much. so yes, he is willing to push back against her when it doesn't suit him because he is not the quiet type personality. but at the same time, he has blinders on him. this means he sees what he wants to see. in his mind, his mom is lovely person who loves him and wants the best for him. this means that even when things are obviously off to other people like ushna and zainab, he will not accept.
anytime there is unhealhty idolization -- whether it is husband, children, job or whatever -- basicallly the balance is off. like you mentioned in your first post, the guy needs balance in his life. he was incredibly unhappy before when naima was the centre of his life to the exclusion of everyone else. as a result, he kept getting angry and was rather rude. that frustration went away some with ushna's entry into his life but it hasn't gone away in full.
everything has a place and that includes relationships. it is like sweet box, if it is has too many sweets of one flavour, then it is not necessarily good. but instead you give something namkeen (salty) along with sweet, then it is a better gift. but for that shehroze needs to make room in his heart -- it shouldn't be a naima vs ushna at all. instead, why not have room for all -- wahab, zainab, ushna and naima -- they are a family no?
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