I have always believed Dhara is indeed the centre of the universe for Shiva, and nothing can match the beauty, purity and love of their bond. Shiva had always been tethered to Dhara in a way that no one can match. It’s a journey they both take. She is tied to Shiva even before she became Gaumbi’s wife. I have written essays about them and still find them the most endearing when they are around each other.There’s no Dhara Vs Raavi because both share very different bonds and places in Shiva’s heart.
One has Haq on him, the other one his Haq
One is his light, the other his shiddat
One his Puja, another is his entire obsession.
TheIr equations and dynamics are very different.
If we see Shira hugs, they are mostly about coddling Shiva by Dhara or Shiva clinging onto her like a petulant child. They are beautiful. Like a nurturer and a doe eyed boy who could move mountains for her.
Also, does the age difference change feelings or nurture? Does wearing a backless blouse anyway indicative of changed feelings? Dhara looks good in her dresses, and no woman needs to be shamed for it.
Coming to Shivi, their hugs have the most interesting journey. From Day 1, Raavi hugs him without a care in the world and Shiva is always hesitant. That’s their equation. He would look at his hands and slowly give in to the temptation for caressing her back. The moments are so minutely embedded in their journey. Shiva is a pile of emotions when it comes to Raavi and their complicated nuances make them special. Their love isn’t
the Typical ‘run-of-the-mill’ romance. That's what I still like about them. The day they start behaving like ordinary romantic couples is the day I would probably lose interest. Their journey is so beautifully decorated with every possible spice.
Unpopular opinion, but I love the Shiva-Dhara bond and shall always do so. The show is written Chiefly from their point of view.
Shiva-Raavi are a couple, while Shira is a platonic and familial bond. It's like comparing apples to oranges! 😳
The show may be foolish most of The time but it's heartwarming to watch it from day 1. I have watched it each day; I may have stopped coming here, but I love the show and all its characters, some not so favourite, some okay. But, the show has heart!