Ghum Hai Kisikey Pyaar Meiin Spoilers Thread #14 - Page 26

Originally posted by: mysticriver

I wish they show a parallel track of Shruti by reversing roles to give V a taste of his own medicine & there shouldn't be any trace of seperation of the pair in next 5-6 months atleast after this long prolonged seperation of 5 months.

The thing is they are never separated too...i mean aar ya paar karo. They remain together, but are not together too and it's frustrating with all the stretching that goes around.

So true about V not acknowledging Sais pain. They are making it seem like she deserved it all. As if she did the rigorous tapasya for her own deeds so she is getting the fruits now. NO! She did things out of love, out of concern. She put aside her ego to be the bigger person. She apologized for a LOT more than what she was at fault for. She took the onus or the responsibility on herself for things she didn't do/were not in her control. And at the end of it all, she feels like an orphan- she distanced herself from calling herself part of Vs family. That was telling. But V has acknowledged nothing!

And worse, when BK is badmouthing Sai it os mohit who got mote agitated than V - her husband! The way he said biwi hai, give her haq of bahu was exceedingly polite and a request. It lacked impact. Mohit sounded more annoyed than V to hear about how Sai was being bad mouthed .

And whats that smile when BK says she should be bahu, not an officer! Firstly i dont understand what that means - are they trying to say she bosses them around? and the fact that V is smiling as if it's a joke and is going back to seeing bk as just having banters with Sai and not as being problematic is not sitting well with me. Its like he turns a blind eye to his family and how horrible they are.

I am glad V didn't hug pp or move to do so. He can hug K because that bond is platonic. He need not initiate any physical contact with a woman like pp who is lusty, obsessive and utterly inconsiderate towards her husband. Hadh hai. She cant force herself to love Sam but she can stop cheating him. Just get lost if you dont like being his wife. But no, she will stay to obsess over the person who is not her husband.

The only good line was where he thanked pullu for standing by Sai when no one else did. But its too little.

V is not worthy of Sai's unconditional love. V has zero growth, no genuine reflection. Learns nothing. Repeats mistakes, doesn't show any maturity/wisdom. He is utterly lack luster.

Originally posted by: nikita05

The thing is they are never separated too...i mean aar ya paar karo. They remain together, but are not together too and it's frustrating with all the stretching that goes around.

Exactly. Last 2 months they were living together but weren't together just like anniversary. The only time they reconciled quickly was post ousting.

Originally posted by: Nja91

So true about V not acknowledging Sais pain. They are making it seem like she deserved it all. As if she did the rigorous tapasya for her own deeds so she is getting the fruits now. NO! She did things out of love, out of concern. She put aside her ego to be the bigger person. She apologized for a LOT more than what she was at fault for. She took the onus or the responsibility on herself for things she didn't do/were not in her control. And at the end of it all, she feels like an orphan- she distanced herself from calling herself part of Vs family. That was telling. But V has acknowledged nothing!

And worse, when BK is badmouthing Sai it os mohit who got mote agitated than V - her husband! The way he said biwi hai, give her haq of bahu was exceedingly polite and a request. It lacked impact. Mohit sounded more annoyed than V to hear about how Sai was being bad mouthed .

And whats that smile when BK says she should be bahu, not an officer! Firstly i dont understand what that means - are they trying to say she bosses them around? and the fact that V is smiling as if it's a joke and is going back to seeing bk as just having banters with Sai and not as being problematic is not sitting well with me. Its like he turns a blind eye to his family and how horrible they are.

I am glad V didn't hug pp or move to do so. He can hug K because that bond is platonic. He need not initiate any physical contact with a woman like pp who is lusty, obsessive and utterly inconsiderate towards her husband. Hadh hai. She cant force herself to love Sam but she can stop cheating him. Just get lost if you dont like being his wife. But no, she will stay to obsess over the person who is not her husband.

The only good line was where he thanked pullu for standing by Sai when no one else did. But its too little.

V is not worthy of Sai's unconditional love. V has zero growth, no genuine reflection. Learns nothing. Repeats mistakes, doesn't show any maturity/wisdom. He is utterly lack luster.

He gets Sai too easily everytime. This time it should've been a seperation for him to suffer without Sai when he'd want her but makers love for their ML is too much.

Yes he gets Sai easily … that’s the catch .. we all know it’s not perfect .. so we cannot switch off .. we know it’s not happily ever after for sai .. this guy is no prince as sai imagines him to be ..

He’s got feet of clay .. and will make more demands on her once he has her completely as his wife .

It can also be issues like .. drop your internship for a year .. let’s plan a baby

Makers are afraid to show Virat suffering, they never show proper angst. I so enjoy the episodes where sai is in her element, the Sai Joshi but that happens only for an episode or two, after which it is always a lackluster track or episodes. They have all the time in the world to highlight Virat's so called self inflicted pain, but never do they show Sai's pain and perspective. Worst is when more than anyone else, she starts blaming herself for mistakes she never did

Originally posted by: msin

Yes he gets Sai easily … that’s the catch .. we all know it’s not perfect .. so we cannot switch off .. we know it’s not happily ever after for sai .. this guy is no prince as sai imagines him to be ..

He’s got feet of clay .. and will make more demands on her once he has her completely as his wife .

It can also be issues like .. drop your internship for a year .. let’s plan a baby

Do you think he might go slight Rono way in these matters?

Originally posted by: msin

Yes he gets Sai easily … that’s the catch .. we all know it’s not perfect .. so we cannot switch off .. we know it’s not happily ever after for sai .. this guy is no prince as sai imagines him to be ..

He’s got feet of clay .. and will make more demands on her once he has her completely as his wife .

It can also be issues like .. drop your internship for a year .. let’s plan a baby

Who would he prefer if he has to choose b/w moving out with Sai or staying with his family. I wish to see a phase where he's on bad terms with family & good with Sai but we won't ever get that.

Makers of the show think only making FLs suffer bring TRPs 😳

True. It’s all about everyone’s pain and suffering is addressed and Sai is not worthy of any such consideration. She is also human all all of them.

V fails at empathy. He can only relate to people in their physical pain, because that is there to see. But he has failed to see the pain and suffering at emotional level. He is restricted to himself there. People atleast connect when they go through similar experiences. But V is becomes vey self absorbed there with no consideration for others. Sai is that ways very sensitive to others. Yes he doesn’t deserve her for the jack*** he is. But then thats why there are together too. Complementing. V would have been lost and miserable without her. Or probably led a life foreboding the wild side of his.

Like u, I didn’t like the response to BK’s statement. But I read the scene a lil differetly. Though the bottom line remains the same. BK wanted to agree to Sai becoming part of the family again. There was enough already to consider. And like I wrote, in her heart she knows and agrees to Sai’s goodness. Whats stopping her is her insecurity, her obsession with power. And she is again a proud and egoistic woman. So she will not give away like she has been beaten. So she passed such statements to show that she is half heartedly forced to agree. But the fact still remains that how Sai is nicknamed and abused is in ver bad taste. And V needs to call out each one out for it. Her respect should be his priority as well.