Imlie's Saviour Complex

PenguinBaby thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 6
Posted: 3 years ago
#1

I genuinely believe that Imlie has a severe saviour complex, it's not a bad thing per se but can be annoying after a point. I think she feels the inherent need to save everyone around her, be it the Ts (from their million problems), be it the Rathores (by getting married to ASR to save Nirmala and Arpi), be it Aryan (Arvind's case) and now on to Arpi (by raising the topic of her re-marriage).


Maybe her upbringing moulded her this way; there was hardly anyone to protect and save her and Meethi from the many obstacles they faced in Pagdandiya, so Imlie took it upon herself to save themselves. It was a bold choice, she's still hardly 20 years and still feels like the burden of the world is on her shoulders. I know she can do anything but I hope Aryan makes her realise that it's okay to let things happen and not feel the need to do anything about something, that it's okay to enjoy your life for yourself and not feel responsible for everything and everyone.


Strictly my opinion, what do you guys think?


-Sanya

Created

Last reply

Replies

16

Views

1.8k

Users

8

Likes

59

Frequent Posters

Param-Sundari thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#2

She does have an annoying savour complex and so does Aryan (the wedding drama).

That's a typical ITV ML/FL trait, so I'm not holding my breath for that to change any soon for any of them.

Edited by SundariP - 3 years ago
Shabia1 thumbnail
Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail 5th Anniversary Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 3 years ago
#3

Agreed.


She does have a severe savior complex. Though it's not the only one she has. Plus she is super overconfident and thinks she's always right because she's doing it for the greater goodđŸ€Șand makers celebrate her character after these stunts.


But the problem is that it comes off nasty and distasteful most of the times. Because although her intentions are noble, she basically makes it her life mission and shoves her idealogy down people's throats.


And with that her methods are also questionable. And when she is so focused, she becomes insensitive. Like that room cleaning scene and now the way she's pushing Arpi like that. This needs to stop. I hope Aryan gives her a reality check again.

Lethamukund thumbnail
4th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 3 years ago
#4
I feel it is not only a problem with Imlie. you will find similar behaviour pattern in other shows FL as well. they are written like mission oriented (take up one after another missions and can't live without it), super powerful, extremely sacrificing and family can not solve anything without them. Other family members and ML mostly agrees with them in most of their missions. we can not expect different here also. otherwise TRP will not come
Shravani95 thumbnail
Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 3 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: Shabia1

Agreed.


She does have a severe savior complex. Though it's not the only one she has. Plus she is super overconfident and thinks she's always right because she's doing it for the greater goodđŸ€Șand makers celebrate her character after these stunts.


But the problem is that it comes off nasty and distasteful most of the times. Because although her intentions are noble, she basically makes it her life mission and shoves her idealogy down people's throats.


And with that her methods are also questionable. And when she is so focused, she becomes insensitive. Like that room cleaning scene and now the way she's pushing Arpi like that. This needs to stop. I hope Aryan gives her a reality check again.

@bold 1 hope we don't get jhaaduwala promo 2.0đŸ€ž

@bold 2 need for the hour😐

Wanderbug thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 3 years ago
#6

If she didn’t have this complex she will not be the lead of the show. Its not saviour complex. It mahanta complex. U have to be mahan in any given situation. The first drama today with Bm leaving was ok. But thr second time round. She could gave simply stated all that equality thing. But no she had go and wipe BM’scface drap phool pati n maje her fall on the floor. I get that it had to dramatic but this was equivalent to throwing water on beauty contestants. Why do u think its ok to touch anyone without their permission imlaiya

bips thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 500 Thumbnail + 8
Posted: 3 years ago
#7

More than saviour complex i feel she has a self-righteousness complex..


... So it makes anyone trying to talk her deeply frustrating bec she is do sure that she is right..

Like someone said last week - imlie college jao

Shravani95 thumbnail
Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 3 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: bips

More than saviour complex i feel she has a self-righteousness complex..


... So it makes anyone trying to talk her deeply frustrating bec she is do sure that she is right..

Like someone said last week - imlie college jao

For all complexes 👉Mental attention needed⚠ for imlie...

Shabia1 thumbnail
Visit Streak 90 Thumbnail 5th Anniversary Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 3 years ago
#9

Originally posted by: Shravani95

For all complexes 👉Mental attention needed⚠ for imlie...

Arry no yaar.


Mental complexities, traumas and disorders are for feeble minded real people like us. There is no such thing in ITV landđŸ€Ș


Especially our imliya is a super womaniya. How can she be weak enough to have a complex????

Kaa baat karat ho???


In imlie land, there's no such thing as depression or mental complexities. Only certain specific traumas more like fear of fire, death of Loved one etc. And those are easy to cure. Simply put yourself in that situation again. And bamm you're cured😃



Easy peasy lemon squeasy😛

TeriMalang thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 7
Posted: 3 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: SundariP

She does have an annoying savour complex and so does Aryan (the wedding drama).

That's a typical ITV ML/FL trait, so I'm not holding my breath for that to change any soon for any of them.

I don't think Aru has savior complex. The wedding thing was his fear . Fear of losing her. He didn't want to loose her yet doesn't want to name his feelings .

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".