Abhimanyu is disappointing!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Life_Is_Dutiful

We know everything that Abhimanyu does is at extreme level. His love as well as hatred are at extreme levels. Right now he is angry with both the sisters. He is angry with one as she hit his mom with her car even though it was unknowingly. He is angry with the other one because he thinks she hid the truth to protect her sister. But as he loves Akshara he still wants to marry her. He thinks Aarohi creates trouble in Akshara's life and Akshara goes way too blind in her love so he's slowly taking steps to keep Akshara away from Aarohi. Banning her from marriage may be or may not be a wrong step but he has no choice. He never had any trust on Aarohi and right now his trust on Akshara too is faltering. Though I know he won't succeed for longer as I do feel Aarohi will still be part of the wedding.

Originally posted by: sugikar

His problem was not akshara confessing its just that it's about arohi. He just can't stand her because he feels akshara loves her equally as him. He can't digest that fact that he is not her priority always. The truth is he cannot feel and understand akshara. She does. Love him that bit more than anyone else but. She doesn't emphasis and show it

Originally posted by: Susi26

Whatever, This condition of Abhimanyu will create more kaands by Aarohi, I just shared an ig link on the previous page.. Aarohi is now going to target Neil, have a fake relationship with him and try to keep him away from Abhimanyu just the way he is doing now with her.. I seriously don’t want this news to be true, Neirohi is fine as long as it’s a genuine relationship.. but not this way. I hope it’s a fake news.

Where is Aarohi's accountability in all of this? And why should Abhi be blamed for wanting to protect Akshu? I'm not denying that he is insecure because of Akshu-Aarohi's relationship and that initial rejection triggered his childhood insecurities regarding marriage, relationships, and prioritizing one's partners. He has a lot of unaddressed wounds from his past that intensify his insecurities and lead him to believe that Akshu always chooses family over him, which is not the case at all.

But, he also sees Harsh-Manjari's relationship in Aarohi-Akshu. He sees that Akshu would literally die for Aarohi, but all Aarohi has given Akshu is pain. He has witnessed it first hand multiple times by now. He sees her true colors, even if Akshu's trauma does not enable her to see it.

What is so wrong in wanting to protect your partner? Abhi is loud, impulsive, and clouded by anger. The way he presents himself can be wrong, but his intentions and sentiments are not. And, I would argue, that when it comes to Aarohi, his demeanor isn't wrong either.

Just look at even yesterday. Aarohi didn't even have the guts to speak up. Akshu told her truth. She stood strong. And, despite Akshu taking the blame for her, Aarohi stood there silently. Letting her go to jail. Of course Abhi will be extremely pissed off and hurt by this. He cannot see Akshu suffering, that too, because of someone who doesn't give a shit about her.

Hello even I'm a neutral fan n don't watch the show for Pranali too.

I feel both Abhira had fluctuation in their character sketch may it be Akshu taking Aarohi's blame of almost hitting someone, or Abhimanyu taking proposal for Aarohi.🤡

Th only stagnant character is Aarohi, from day 1 she wanted everything for herself n be safe my pushing all problems towards Akshu. Lets start from manipulating her for Abhi, Emotionally pressurizing her to celebrate all the wedding festivities, then running away at first place n giving ultimatum to Akshu as if her marriage breaks its on Akshu.

Further hit n run, fire fiasco, etc, etc...

It doesn't end so for me she's the only character that has never disappointed me she was selfish from beginning n Eureka she's still the same.

So the never disappointing character is Aarohi Goenkas, others keep on taking turn in disappointing me

Originally posted by: tptwi

Whenever Aarohi creates a kaand, Abhi somehow ends up being blamed for it. He was blamed for warning her during tilak 3, and he was blamed for blasting her during the mandir after which she stole drugs, drove under the influence, and exhibited both morally wrong and criminal behavior.

Where is Aarohi's accountability in all of this? And why should Abhi be blamed for wanting to protect Akshu? I'm not denying that he is insecure because of Akshu-Aarohi's relationship and that initial rejection triggered his childhood insecurities regarding marriage, relationships, and prioritizing one's partners. He has a lot of unaddressed wounds from his past that intensify his insecurities and lead him to believe that Akshu always chooses family over him, which is not the case at all.

But, he also sees Harsh-Manjari's relationship in Aarohi-Akshu. He sees that Akshu would literally die for Aarohi, but all Aarohi has given Akshu is pain. He has witnessed it first hand multiple times by now. He sees her true colors, even if Akshu's trauma does not enable her to see it.

What is so wrong in wanting to protect your partner? Abhi is loud, impulsive, and clouded by anger. The way he presents himself can be wrong, but his intentions and sentiments are not. And, I would argue, that when it comes to Aarohi, his demeanor isn't wrong either.

Just look at even yesterday. Aarohi didn't even have the guts to speak up. Akshu told her truth. She stood strong. And, despite Akshu taking the blame for her, Aarohi stood there silently. Letting her go to jail. Of course Abhi will be extremely pissed off and hurt by this. He cannot see Akshu suffering, that too, because of someone who doesn't give a shit about her.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Whenever Aarohi creates a kaand, Abhi somehow ends up being blamed for it. He was blamed for warning her during tilak 3, and he was blamed for blasting her during the mandir after which she stole drugs, drove under the influence, and exhibited both morally wrong and criminal behavior.

Where is Aarohi's accountability in all of this? And why should Abhi be blamed for wanting to protect Akshu? I'm not denying that he is insecure because of Akshu-Aarohi's relationship and that initial rejection triggered his childhood insecurities regarding marriage, relationships, and prioritizing one's partners. He has a lot of unaddressed wounds from his past that intensify his insecurities and lead him to believe that Akshu always chooses family over him, which is not the case at all.

But, he also sees Harsh-Manjari's relationship in Aarohi-Akshu. He sees that Akshu would literally die for Aarohi, but all Aarohi has given Akshu is pain. He has witnessed it first hand multiple times by now. He sees her true colors, even if Akshu's trauma does not enable her to see it.

What is so wrong in wanting to protect your partner? Abhi is loud, impulsive, and clouded by anger. The way he presents himself can be wrong, but his intentions and sentiments are not. And, I would argue, that when it comes to Aarohi, his demeanor isn't wrong either.

Just look at even yesterday. Aarohi didn't even have the guts to speak up. Akshu told her truth. She stood strong. And, despite Akshu taking the blame for her, Aarohi stood there silently. Letting her go to jail. Of course Abhi will be extremely pissed off and hurt by this. He cannot see Akshu suffering, that too, because of someone who doesn't give a shit about her.

arohi has never been held accountable for any of the mistakes or crimes neither by goenkas or by anyone else, and abhi after looking at her real face wants akshara to stay away from arohi he is justified. Yes he nas insecurities despite that he accepted her but this time she made akshara partner in crime and then didnt even let her speak, tempered with evidences and when akshu took her blame she was quite. So its better not to have sister like that and abhi is justified compeltely

Originally posted by: aishapl013

Hello even I'm a neutral fan n don't watch the show for Pranali too.

I feel both Abhira had fluctuation in their character sketch may it be Akshu taking Aarohi's blame of almost hitting someone, or Abhimanyu taking proposal for Aarohi.🤡

Th only stagnant character is Aarohi, from day 1 she wanted everything for herself n be safe my pushing all problems towards Akshu. Lets start from manipulating her for Abhi, Emotionally pressurizing her to celebrate all the wedding festivities, then running away at first place n giving ultimatum to Akshu as if her marriage breaks its on Akshu.

Further hit n run, fire fiasco, etc, etc...

It doesn't end so for me she's the only character that has never disappointed me she was selfish from beginning n Eureka she's still the same.

So the never disappointing character is Aarohi Goenkas, others keep on taking turn in disappointing me

Originally posted by: Susi26

Why should he protect Akshara from Aarohi? Aarohi is not some random person from outside.. They are sisters, actually Step sisters who don’t gel up and has a sour relationship. but Whatever relation they have is between them. Arey Akshara is a well grown up girl who stayed away from family for few years, she might have handled many things on her own.. Akshara loves her as a sister no matter how mean she is to her. That’s her choice.. if she wants to condemn her wrongdoings she will do it.. She even corrected Aarohi many times.. It’s just that Abhimanyu should give her some space.. he can explain to her in a nicer way instead of trying to break their relationship..If she complains to him about Aarohi, then he has full right to interfere and take care of the issues.

akshara loves her sister but he cant see her destryinh her life in thr love and thats wht a righy partnet will do always

Originally posted by: Susi26

I see a little change in Akshara and Aarohi’s characterization.. unlike Sirat’s death, Aarohi did not solely blame Akshara for the accident or cook up stories. She apologised and just stayed mum, and even realising Akshara’s love towards her. Akshara on the other hand trying to balance the relationships.. many are saying she is not giving importance to Abhimanyu, and not loving him back to the same extent. But, what will she do? If he is not understanding her other family ties.??

Now what concerns me is Abhimanyu.. He hasn’t changed even a little. There is no character growth in him. He is still that possessive and obsessive lover trying to control her. He is hurt for Akshara not confessing about the truth which is right, but he is not able to understand and think even a sec from her side. When she said she confessed it in the hospital, what happened to his trust.. why he is not able to think and trust her in that matter. And he is putting a condition for the marriage that Aarohi shouldn’t attend the rituals.

What kind of condition is that? What right he has to commend someone from his in-laws family? I will definitely not marry the person who tries to dictate me or keep me away from my family relationships.

P.S :- I’m a neutral fan, neither anyone’s supporter. Just watching the show for HC.

Originally posted by: Susi26

Why should he protect Akshara from Aarohi? Aarohi is not some random person from outside.. They are sisters, actually Step sisters who don’t gel up and has a sour relationship. but Whatever relation they have is between them. Arey Akshara is a well grown up girl who stayed away from family for few years, she might have handled many things on her own.. Akshara loves her as a sister no matter how mean she is to her. That’s her choice.. if she wants to condemn her wrongdoings she will do it.. She even corrected Aarohi many times.. It’s just that Abhimanyu should give her some space.. he can explain to her in a nicer way instead of trying to break their relationship..If she complains to him about Aarohi, then he has full right to interfere and take care of the issues.

Just because they are related and "family" does not mean that their relationship isn't toxic.

It's not only children who have trauma. Adults can have trauma too.

Lastly, more than love, Akshu is burdened by Aarohi's responsibility and the promise her step-mother took from a CHILD. Akshu has a heart of gold, and she would have surrendered herself to the police for any other family member too yesterday. But, her relationship to Aarohi cannot be described as one of love. It is one of abuse, trauma, and nothing else. Love is not something that makes you feel scared, guilty, and unsteady all the time...and that is exactly how Akshu feels with Aarohi.