Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #182 - Page 80

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Back in the days whenever something used to be posted here we used to get a reaction from Kdice or karan instantly

Har baar tu coincidence nahi hota so we were damn sure they come here and read the discussion on IF 😆

Awwwwwiiiieeee.

I hope they don't see what we do on DTs. 😆

Originally posted by: firsttimehere

Sorry for such a long post above. I have been in close vicinities of Dharas and Rishitas and also have been a part of such family circus. Both are correct and justified . Both are just human.

About Dhara overhearing Kalyani's words . My heart went out for her . In the society we live in it's difficult to be childless and more so when the woman wants but can't have ..it's a miserable place to be in . Hearing such insensitive words from others just kills the person from the inside . Her haphazard way of drinking bhaang like a person who lost everything - it was heartbreaking . To smile through the taunts is not easy . No woman should be subjected to that .

Dhara shouldn't have been subjected to such insensitivity . She doesn't deserve that .

Vani, don’t feel sorry for the post. I love reading your thoughts. I completely understand Dhara and relate to her in this track, My own sister has gone through this, so it’s very close to home.

I would have gone through the same thing too (as I had my first child after 3 years of marriage) if I lived in India, but God was kind on enough to send me packing to another country where nobody talked about such things. The best part was the support I received from my husband and my in-laws. My MIL would talk for me in somebody asked her about it in family functions which she would share with me when I called weekly to talk to her.

As for your other post, I am going to write a response to it little later as it deserves a heartfelt reply.

About Dhara and Rishita tension, made this a while ago, about 25 EDTs ago. Going forward will tag you if I write something on them that is if I can tag you, as it works only sometimes for me.?

The way Shiva stopped in the instance when Raavi turned in the mirror sequence was just out of the world! He kept stammering and then in the spin of the moment, he got lost in her eyes.

Can we get more secenes where Shiva gets tripped by Raavi's eyes? Shiva being taken away by her eyes is always a treat to watch.

Originally posted by: Kfof

https://youtu.be/4K_NJOY9GUI

Ye kab jayega? Kuch bataya? Mujhe nhi dekhna koi bata do

Originally posted by: EuphoricDamsel.

Rait Zara Si? 🤡

No. It's their bgm I guess.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Vani, don’t feel sorry for the post. I love reading your thoughts. I completely understand Dhara and relate to her in this track, My own sister has gone through this, so it’s very close to home.

I would have gone through the same thing too (as I had my first child after 3 years of marriage) if I lived in India, but God was kind on enough to send me packing to another country where nobody talked about such things. The best part was the support I received from my husband and my in-laws. My MIL would talk for me in somebody asked her about it in family functions which she would share with me when I called weekly to talk to her.

As for your other post, I am going to write a response to it little later as it deserves a heartfelt reply.

About Dhara and Rishita tension, made this a while ago, about 25 EDTs ago. Going forward will tag you if I write something on them that is if I can tag you, as it works only sometimes for me.?

Big hugs to you and your sister . I am glad , god has been kind and you are past that phase of life.

I was subjected to the same thing ,Prema. 9 years of marriage, 1 miscarriage before I birthed my child . Insensitive words , gossip , fake sympathy , hypocrisy - have seen it all . Would have seen more had I lived in same city ..thankfully I lived in a different city and only rarely met relatives and extended family on very important functions . And to this add the hopelessness from all the doctor visits, and treatments . It was a terrible phase to be in . Am thankful to the almighty that I have passed that phase .

So what happens with Dhara here just brings back all of it . I couldn't get myself to watch both abortion track and the failed IVF . Don't have it in me to put myself through that. Written updates are enough to know what happened and who did what .

Originally posted by: Kfof

https://youtu.be/4K_NJOY9GUI

Interview wasn’t bad at all. Akshay talked about the current track - conflict between Dhara and Rishita, misunderstanding between them. Dev is also caught between his mother and wife.

Akshay said, “Dev is practical who will try to balance between both his mother and wife, he needs them both in his life”

He also talked about becoming a father in real life and in reel life as well. And finally said, bahut kuch drama aanewaala hai.

I agree with Akshay, Dev is more practical and Shiva is the one who is emotional ❤️

Akshay is like yahan bhi baap real mein bhi baap

Bahut baap banne wala hoon🤣❤️

He is young dad to be though

Originally posted by: ClumsyMe

No. It's their bgm I guess.

OHH Yeahhhh we love that ❤️

History repeating itself in Pandya brothers lives

Gautam - The confident one, became one when Dhara came into his life - How much ever Suman tried to get rid of Dhara pre-leap, was even on the verge of bringing another girl in his life, he cleverly thwarted all of Suman’s efforts without hurting her, at the same time makimg Dhara feel she is loved and wanted. His first and only misstep was when he did not support Dhara enough during Batwara kasnd and let her go. It is another thing that Dhara’s teen bandhars convinced their mother to let her stay.

Dev - The most practical of the brothers, it is offlate evident how he has began to support Rishita since the almost abortion track without hurting his family members. Just finished watching Akshay’s Ebuzz India interview, it is going to be interesting to see how Dev is going to balance between Suman amd Rishita

Shiva - The emotional one, who lives for his family. He is the one who has gone through the phase of choosing between his mother and his wife for the longest time - I would say since the 3rd angle track until the remarriage track. And most of the times he chose his mother, her kasam was important to him, hence agreed to get engaged to another girl while still married to Raavi, For the first time in many months, when Suman asked Shiva to choose between her and Raavi, he said, “samaj me nahi aa raha hai kya boloon” (episode# 370).

That said, a man should never be asked to choose between his mother and wife. It will be the most difficult decision of his life.

After Gautam and Shiva, it is now Dev’s turn to go through the phase.