Anupama pakhi relationship

I am very surprised that Pakhi hates her mother and is unhappy with her marriage and so old fashioned

And unlike what Shahs want us to believe that shes small and only 16 years. Honestly in 2022 16 years is 1980s 35 years of age. Because of exposure of internet, whatsapp, fb etc and TV kids are way more mature than kids born in 80s or 90s. So a 16 year old today knows what people in 80s came to know after 30 and in 90s after their 25 years. So i do not see pakhi as a kid at all. In another 2 years she can vote and decide who is minister of her state.

Bullying and making fun of a classmate whose father married again leaving her mother or mother is having second marriage is a reality of school and in lesser ways in college or office. People whose parents are divorced or died have more tough time in school bullied by both classmates and teachers. Especially if kid has no father or father not lving with mother than bullying is much more. So lets not act like no bullying happens in school or college or society just because kids parents are divorced or mom is widowed etc. It happens and its reality. Lets see how anupama and anuj help pakhi deal with her friends in school.

A daughter is very close to father as a kid no doubt about that. But once she reaches 14 or 16 years she starts getting close to mother. That is also because she needs mother to guide her regarding various changes in her life as she grows up. Who is helping Pakhi with her girlie issues does she talk to anupama or Baa. Kavya i doubt she will tell anything. Hence am surprised that Pakhi at 16 still hates her mom. As girls grow up they understand their mother more better and get closer to mother. They become best friends sharing everything health issues, growing u issues, any ragging issues etc. A mother reacts more maturely and calmly than a father or brother when it comes to issues like boy friend or harassment in school or college. Whom does Pakhi discuss all this with i not anupama?

And usually when father marries another woman its daughter who feel more betrayed than sons as daughter very close to father. Daughters take it to herat and refuse to forgive father compared to sons. I have a few friends whose father married again they stand up for their mothers rights and fight more than brothers. It should have been pahi taunting vanraj and kavya every day for betraying her mother and making their life miserable. Daughters do not forgive fathers betrayal as fast as sons. I have seen diorced family or divorced kids around daughters take it more unforgiving of fathers if they betray their mom.

Honestly i wish to see Pakhi becoming best friend to anupama, a friend whom anupama can speak her heart out too like she does to Devika. After all as daughters grow up they usually become best friends of their mothers and sisters. I do not see pakhi trying to even have a talk with anupama forget becoming friends. When mother gets old its daughters who take care of them if they are sick or admitted in hospital etc. Its not sons or son wife who does that usually in recent decades as family structure are changing. So should not pakhi try to become friends with anupama now at least?

Anuj should equally try to get close to pakhi. Because vanraj is not really a great father to pakhi. May be pakhi does not know what is a good father-daughter relationship? Once she experience a true fathers love and care from someone like anuj she will understand what is father love. Even anupama did not know what is soulmate love till anuj showed her. May be he should become dad to pakhi and show her true fathers love. How father take daughters to school or college, take them out on weekends or go shopping with them and just give their daughters a great time. May be pakhi does not know that she thinks money and loads of costly gift make a father noo. Unlike a son, daughters are not truly after money or property etc they require emotional love and care like spending time going on picnics or movies etc.

May be anuj can take her on a baby day out kind of day to zoo, than a movie than shopping and dinner. But i find anuj lacking in skills to deal with daughter actually. Because of how he handles Mukku, daughters are mini version of sisters only after all. If anuj could not deal with Mukku for 30 years would he be able to handle pakhi tantrums and become her father. Daughters and sisters are harder to please. With boys buy them cycle of hockey kit they get happy. But daughters are not that really. May be anupam acan help out here or a kinjal as shes daughter herself to guide anuj and pakhi. I truly want pakhi in team anuj or anuj to have a daughter of his own from anupama to understand how to deal with Mukku and pakhi etc