Gaonwalo! its daadi vs shadi🤡 - Page 7

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar0

exactly x 10000000. i justified this character for so long - blamed her parents, society, basically everything and everyone but her. i looked at her as a victim. my thing is at what point do you stop and decide what works for you and what doesnt? or do you just hold onto whatever mumma/papa teach you for life without ever questioning whether any of it makes sense? the irony of this all is that the PH is too scared to show a middle aged woman thinking for herself as they are in the same position. everyone is scared of the aunties. 🤣

She has clearly seen that “pleasing” 2 people hasn’t worked and never will. She made that very clear last holi too. So why not just move on? Didn’t her mother’s voice note on her birthday eve have the same message? Isn’t her babuji also saying the same thing? When she can give long bhashans, then why can’t she be the one following it? So basically to “please” these trp aunties, you are making a mockery of the story’s essence? I get the concept that it is difficult for a middle aged woman to think about herself but there’s always room to make them understand and her accepting the partnership or opening DA were good examples. So why not just follow the lead?

And I’m not even sure of their issue? These trp aunties (assuming they are in the same age range) would be mothers to teens so which means they are well aware of the issues (parents learn a lot from their kids these days) Will they like seeing their teen daughters becoming Anu? Or are they ones cheering for their son to be a regressive husband? It’s funny if you ask me.

Originally posted by: Arshi67

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a mahaan orat in possession of a good pallu, can never be in want of a reality check.”

😆

Edited: everyone I'd chun chun ke tagged, sab vyarth ho gaya 😭

Good pallu😕😕

Did I miss something

Ruchi I'm not so good in English so can you plzzz tell me if 'good pallu' actually means a pallu containing all the species of bacteria 😊

Originally posted by: shriz

Good pallu😕😕

Did I miss something

Ruchi I'm not so good in English so can you plzzz tell me if 'good pallu' actually means a pallu containing all the species of bacteria 😊

Rukiye, main Jane Austen ki aatma se consult karke aapko batati hoon 😆

Ab hame baa ke bhoot ko jhelna hoga jo baa ka bhoot anupama ki doli nahi uthane dengi

Originally posted by: ektag06

I blamed everything too in the beginning but then stopped soon after I realised that she liked being a “victim”. She did give glimpses of not being a doormat in the Vanya wedding scenes, stepping up for divorce, the morning after night out etc but all those were too little and extremely disconnected with the story.

She has clearly seen that “pleasing” 2 people hasn’t worked and never will. She made that very clear last holi too. So why not just move on? Didn’t her mother’s voice note on her birthday eve have the same message? Isn’t her babuji also saying the same thing? When she can give long bhashans, then why can’t she be the one following it? So basically to “please” these trp aunties, you are making a mockery of the story’s essence? I get the concept that it is difficult for a middle aged woman to think about herself but there’s always room to make them understand and her accepting the partnership or opening DA were good examples. So why not just follow the lead?

And I’m not even sure of their issue? These trp aunties (assuming they are in the same age range) would be mothers to teens so which means they are well aware of the issues (parents learn a lot from their kids these days) Will they like seeing their teen daughters becoming Anu? Or are they ones cheering for their son to be a regressive husband? It’s funny if you ask me.

One of the major issues is the disconnect they are showing in Anupama's character. Her long, fiery, righteous bhashans have changed the way she is now viewed by the audience. It's difficult to see her as a victim any longer. So she's lost that sympathy that she had in the earlier episodes. She's found a voice, she uses that voice, so then why is still taking all that nonsense and then justifying it as well, is a question that's rightly asked.

I agree there will be a hangover from her previous life in the way she interacts with the Shahs but not to this extent. Not when they are the people they are. And see nothing wrong with being the way they are!

i am already imagining toshu holding the rocket and fd lighting it🤣

iam living among few such regressive women,who feel its right to say yes for whatever a husband saysone was saying that we should not try to change the so called husband but wife has to change for him.🤪

i feel bad for anuj😭

what will she do if they do court marriage without her and laadka's knowledge,with kinjal,baapuji,gk and samar being tge witness

Gaon walo! I get what you're all saying, and a lot of it makes sense. She knows it's okay, at times she feels empowered, and she even gives bhashans, but i still think it's difficult to snap out of life long conditioning. It's not an on off switch and you need to be aware of the times that you're slipping back to problematic behaviour.

She surely surely needs therapy, whether she has bapuji with her or not, no matter how much Anuj tells her that she deserves more respect, a few months of him being around isn't enough to make a real difference.

She herself acknowledged that she doesn't want to be a bad partner, doubting Anuj when he works with other people and so on. We'll all be really happy if they actually get her to go, Infact it'll be such a great track to show how a conversation with a therapist can be.

Unfortunately the makers believe that asking kanhaji to help is as good as therapy 🤷🏾

Today they made GK overact because of their ott writing.

Vanraj will get away with everything once again. For him his ego is more important than someone's life and dignity. He and Baa are heartless but karma will never bite them.