Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
This is true. Priya is a puzzle that Ram will have to solve because she has built a strong castle around her , so that no one can ever harm her again in life. She doesnt like dependencies because when the person leaves then you just dont know how to do all those lil things or reminds you of those moments that was spent with them. Yesterday , she was warning herself to not move forward. I wont blame her for this because its primarily our experience that helps us in taking decisions. Her experience is filled with people cheating her and all these people are not strangers( Father and Sister ). Then Neeraj marrying her own sister.
Her statement that she trust Ram but the fact that he lied to her is also warning signal that is pulling her back. Its the second time that Ram has closed his laptop in her presence . The saree one she saw. She is bound to add the dots.
She wants to have a normal life like anyone else and probably dreamt of it even but its the hard reality of her life made her to change path . She needed that tough image for her own sanity and survival.
Where as Ram even after all that he went through , he still has the softer side because people whom he call as family are not his real family . They are some one who brought into his life by his dad - his step mother, step brother , step sister . In his heart he knows the truth and where he stands in their life but them not showing /at least not treating him badly is what making him believe that there is niceness in this society. Even when Vedika walked away he didnt blame her , he understood his financial status is what caused him to loose her.
Ram is cheated by strangers not his blood relatives but Priya was cheated by her own blood relatives. Thats where the so called Kadvahat comes in Priya. Its this experience that is making Priya thread carefully towards every relationship.
Episode 39 is another favorite of mine
Ram to Shashi - Kada kitna kadva hai par asar kar raha hai
Ram to Priya - Logon ko pehali rasoi mein meeta miltha hai par mujhe yeh kadva mila.
Shashi to Priya - You know Priya, pehali bar aisa hua hai ki Ram ne Vedika ke banaye cheese cake ke samne kisi aur cheez koh chuna ho.
Ram's expression - Realisation hit him hard.
This I feel is happening in the current track. She is tough person. Not very easy to handle but she will be good for Ram and his life. Vedika is like that Cheese cake and Priya is like kada . All the while he is going by what is shown to him (Like how people judge book by its cover) .When he knows the truth about Vedika. This realisation will hit him hard. Then starts the chase...ON WOOING PRIYA MISSIONš³āŗļø