I agree Ak is not Manjari but she is going the wrong way with the family jaap which isnt a good thing, she has this irritating quality in her that she wants people to like her just like what she did with aarohi is she going to do the same with her harsh? and if we are drawing parallels with shiv and sati or parvati, then sati too had been obsessed with her dad that he has to like shiva and when daksha disagreed she sacrificed herself... so now I can see where its going?
Ya its a lifelong struggle and suffering for Akshara with all the challenges in the Birla house.. She needs to mend each and every relationship there and thats her character.. She just strives and craves for the family due to the loss of her parents and her step mom.. So she cant never leave that basic trait in her as its Naani akshara and her mom Nairas blood in her.. who always wanted to keep the family united and together and can go any extent for achieving that purpose.. If it was Arohi she would have never suffered cause she doesnt care for such issues nor interested in keeping family together or striving for others happiness.. And her desires too she is very vocal loud and clear about it.. Nobody is attached to her other than Akshara and also she doesnt bring anybody closer to her. Lesser the attachments in life lesser the sufferings.. Her suffering is only due to her greed for fame and name and her jealousy towards abhira..
Drawing parallels to mythology too Sati suffered due to her attachments with her family.. Similary Akshara too due to her attachments with her family and since she has the tendency to bottle up emotions,, her trauma and grief will be more