Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #12 - Page 106

Love is not enough to live! Love wil fizzle out after few years, most marriages stay because of Stockholm Syndrome, Norm, for the children or habit.

People can be together without Love!

But respect, understanding, communication, transperancy, trust and companionship are indispensable! If you don't have them, you don't have a relationship, it's a sham!

Behen, I slept at 8pm and woke up at 8am. I was damn tired that even BALH2 couldnt conquer my sleep. Did I miss anything yesterday?

Originally posted by: welchyf

I remember those days 10 years ago Doodle. I enjoyed n waited for IP Redux . That group was fantastic and very active.

Oh thank you, thank you ji. We invested so much and became such good friends. Tant and I are still in touch and are good friends. Touchwood. 🤗

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Behen, I slept at 8pm and woke up at 8am. I was damn tired that even BALH2 couldnt conquer my sleep. Did I miss anything yesterday?

You did good. I was struggling with finite element analysis through night 🤣

Here the symbolism is that Ram had given a part of his to Vedika before, she had it for a brief moment but then she had to return it. That's why Akki questioned her. So both the kangans will reach the deserving one ie Priya. I dont think CVs are even thinking about symbolisms. They just add random scenes and kaands. So dont waste your time on it.

Originally posted by: Bana

True, I was shocked when I saw Vedika try on the Kangan - generally, ITV shows hv a lot of bakwas but draw the line at certain fundamentals, some things are sacred & not tampered with. Like for karwachauth no matter who does what chaal or how the relationship between leads is, only the hubby will gv water to the wife.

Those kangans as Akki said are suhaag ke kangan & shd hv gone untouched on Priya’s hand. I am not getting a good feeling about this coz it appears like Vedika will always have first claim on Ram even if she may have to concede in favor of the official wife - that was the unfortunate (intented?) symbolism to me. It has ruined the whole beautiful symbolism of Ram wanting to give a part of his core, of what he treasures most, to Priya.

The TV industry is so volatile that sometimes it doesn’t matter to the creatives which loops are closed, what symbolisms they meant in previous episodes, what metaphors they have hinted. Experiences have taught me to ignore many things:

As we figured, V wearing the kangan is foreshadowing something; Which may be true, but hardly do they stick to the concept. It will be tough for the makers to convince the audience that Ram will allow that in the future; When they didn’t get back together in the past ten years, they won’t be ever. They never entangled themselves in EMA then; why will Ram do it now? No audience will ever accept that. If they shove this idea down our throat, then they are fooling themselves. So I see the shop shut pretty soon if they go this route.

Secondly, I understand that the writers write thoughtfully. But when their TRP is down, they will immediately write a track to get the TRP back. In doing so, they will never think of the symbolism, metaphors, or other literary and rhetorical devices used. So, all those analyses good writing did actually goes in vain.

That’s why I suggest watching the show and enjoying the story and scenes they show. Don’t overthink and overindulge in it. If this doesn’t suit the platter, don’t eat it; order some other food.

You know how I wish that Neeraj would have recorded his conversation with V when she was boasting of Ram’s blind love towards her for the past 20 years and how she kept him pining for her.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Here the symbolism is that Ram had given a part of his to Vedika before, she had it for a brief moment but then she had to return it. That's why Akki questioned her. So both the kangans will reach the deserving one ie Priya. I dont think CVs are even thinking about symbolisms. They just add random scenes and kaands. So dont waste your time on it.

Exactly! They are just looking at TRPs and responses and creating the plots. There is no literary device in the story.

Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

Love is not enough to live! Love wil fizzle out after few years, most marriages stay because of Stockholm Syndrome, Norm, for the children or habit.

People can be together without Love!

But respect, understanding, communication, transperancy, trust and companionship are indispensable! If you don't have them, you don't have a relationship, it's a sham!

Agree

But that only happens when couples put an effort

Originally posted by: Mages

I don't watch with logics or my own perspective as i know my expectations can never be fulfilled as its an ITV

But i liked tdy epi in a neutral point of view. A small step has taken to amend their mistake,though PriRa call was not needed in at that point of time but it just made Priya to take a decision for a temporary moment and Ram has lead the way for her when talks abt friendship & he always supports the right. I wish Priya handed the proof but i guess its not the right time & moment. Shashi-MS are desperate to cover this issue now that MS is overconfident that video had been deleted both parties will cool down thats when Priya will strike again and this time it will lead her to more secrets. If Priya hands over the proofs just like that everything will be out and the show ends since Ram's father murder seem like core plot of the story & its Priya who is going to expose them out. Its not that Priya is out of the character they are just delaying the track at the moment as this track is link to Ram's father murder track. I feel Priya will retrieve the video soon from the recycle bin since both Shashi-MS has cool down now it can easily be expose but that will not end the track as MS will be bail out and this track will remain open as this leads to Ram's father death case

Priya does want to inform Ram abt the accident but than she fears his reaction and the biggest fear is loosing him thats because now feelings & equations are changed. During prawn incident she didn't had anything to loose she did what she feels it was right but when you are in love with the person that very thought of loosing that person makes you take some decisions that is totally out of your radar. Currently she is in that dilemma her feelings for Ram & the fear of loosing him and doing the right thing that she has been doing all her life. She is battling with her mind & heart as she don't want to loose Ram

This fear came into her heart because of bad experiences at the same lack of communication b/w PriRa thus the confusion and reaction

Yes its wrong of her not telling Ram but than before that she needs to muster the strength and courage to tell him the truth which she is not in her right frame of mind now. This is where friendship track comes in communication happens where you are friends with the person & open your heart out,this friendship b/w PriRa can muster the courage to tell him the truth and together they send MS to where he deserves,the jail

Priya has nothing to loose before but now she does,Ram this is why her monologues makes sense that she does not want to make Ram her weakness,its because of Ram being her weakness she could not be her oldself

I think you are on the right thought process. Wouldn't it be good when they both talk about V and the accident and their fear as to why they hesitated to tell earlier? I don't know but it is plausible. Since they talked about being BFF, how about playing truth and dare? Wishful thinking, I know.

Originally posted by: Doodle

I think you are on the right thought process. Wouldn't it be good when they both talk about V and accident and they fear why they hesitated to tell earlier? I don't know but it is plausible. Since they talked about being BFF, how about playing truth and dare? Wishful thinking, I know.

I am on the same chapter as yours

It can happen both talking their fears out at the same revealing what they were hiding from each other & why

It will be an amazing track that answers everyone questions of their actions at the same it starts the real journey of Ram-Priya from strangers-spouses-friends-lovers-soulmates❣️