A woman of my own ❤️‘S view …
Thank you for articulation of the pov’s of husband and wife.. looking around in my fam and friends , I found my mom and dad, uncles and aunts,elder cousins and their spouses doing the same.
It is specially true when it comes to emotions and feelings, but,
if it is about principle or value,it is a conversation that had to be had, fight it… face it, talk it,write it ,whatever but determine a common ground before moving on but never fly from it…this has always been the mantra between people at home, not just couples but also for us and even the kids….since this is daily normalcy, I find it a bit odd to explain to people as something extra ordinary… your post helped me realise it…
Though the current generation who are recently married are still finding ropes, the above two rules helped them immensely… ice and fire.. wonderful analogy! ❤️ , though very known, don’t know how it never crossed my mind
Also, can I link your post about RaYa above, to someone that I dabbled with on dm’s?🙏 only if you don’t mind… I know it is public forum, but contextualising it requires your consent and credit…
… she might understand it better than my posts which have been disjointly spread across edt’s….
…A dabble that made me so confused I had to get an opinion of forumwasis in a separate thread about being crass not loyal to single actor, hypocrisy, priya and rams actions and thoughts and individual povs…
and therefore I gave a huge public opinion on my stand😆