Originally posted by: sahapallavi
My opinion about the show
I think the main problem is the way makers tries to highlight one charactertrait of any characterso much so that audience strts losing interest why? becoz it becomes repeatitive let us assume this show revolves around devar bhabhi bond and to be more precise dhara - shiva bond
Coming to dhara what she did 10years ago was her choice and a wise decision no body asked her to do so she was jst 19then and decided not to conceive till all her devars become mature and responsible but was it the only reason ? my opinion is no and the reason why i called it to be wise decision becoz whole family was in debt then plus her MIL was totally paralysed which means they need to save for her treatment so solely pushing whole reason on devars that they were kids that's why she did not conceived is jst lame becoz family planning is big thing it requires lot of preparation specially from financial side where they were struggling to snd all three devars to school they jst can't take baacha like that and add one more family member
Even if i consider her case as sacrifice still the makers highlighted it too much like everytime some or the other character is reminding about her sacrifice then it no longer remains a sacrifice it becomes a tool to manipulate which she often uses by saying maine palla hai mere bacche hai meri parwarish etc etc no mother claims her child so much like she does becoz whole society knows what a mother do for their child makers need not to tell or rather i would say remind everytime what she had done
Now coming to shiva for me the sacrifice he did was the real one (i might sound bias ) but why i feel so becoz he never dhindorafied about his sacrifices not even to his closest he never revealed what he did for family, for raavi and why he did
But now the problem is his behaviour even though he divorced raavi for her betterment we all as shivi fans and neutral viewers got attached to him more becoz he truly loves his chipkali and he deliberetely never said sorry to raavi becoz he knew if he does so raavi will come back and have to live with him as compromise(which he believed so) even he went against dhara and gautam jst to free raavi from this compromised relation which was big thing for him going against his parental figures becoz of his love and this is shiva we all fell for who will stand for raavi even if situation requires against his own family
During disha kaand he never stood for raavi against his mother and even asked dhara to stay out of it becoz he wanted his saache ehsaas okay i understood this point too that he would make move only if raavi truly wanted to live with him
Finally he took the step in newyear to propose her for which i give credit but jst one misunderstanding and he forgot all her good deeds here lies the problem here his sacrifice makes no sense becoz the way he is behaving right now with her makes question his love for her (not talking about domestic violence case) but everything else like she jst saved herself from being trafficked and shiva rescused her jst to take her home and allege her even when he knew she was not in her senses plus throwing tomatoes (nobody does that if u proclaim love and even though u r angry) plus not allowing her to sit with family for dinner all this makes question his love for raavi and his sacrifice that he was doing for raavi jst only rescuing her from NDE and showcase your love only when she is even in slightest pain becomes all questionable
I don't know how makers gonna take this track if it shows shiva's anger issues like how it overpowers his love along with his redemption then that will definetly fetch then trps otherwise i don't know for how many days kdice off-screen chemistry will make me (and many more like me) to watch this show
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