Originally posted by: RainFire125
I understand komal. I again for once tried to peak into a writers mind and made these observations. If u ask me really, Anu in the real sense has not healed. She has just pushed things deep inside her and has this "I am responsible for everyone's lives " syndrome in her. And with this she is bound to make mistakes, stumble badly and maybe learn. Plus she has never been respected, never been loved, never had that sense of what sharing meant. So all this she has to learn yet. I am thinking hiding from Anuj her observations is her first mistake in this relation which both will pay in a way. She is sure to make more mistakes. Even Anuj's blind trust on Anu is a mistake. Having trust is good but not a blind one.
I am telling above based on the plots. You know I don't like this whole track and hence have stayed away from writing any analysis. I want to see how they build this up more illogically to confession. This is the most lazy, unwanted plot where they are almost destroying the essence of MaAn!!
@bold : what I love about you, your analysis..
Anu has made mistakes and she will but just like Vanraj she has never accepted her mistakes. So this time, I would like her to accept, repent and retrospect not a single sorry for formality.
Anuj too, will burn his hands for sure. And when she confess that time I would like both to acknowledge there mistakes and slow down. Fix yourself first before you commit yourself to eachother.
I read thrice to be sure. You are bang on its illogical build up to confession from hospital to DV and what we see now..
On separate note, now I wonder this serial has been like this from start. But viewers were TRP who never analysed much..
Anuj got this new set of viewers who literally think way more than writers ever do. Those parallels they can be just lazy copy paste but viewers appreciate.
Kavya faced molestation when Anu got her home. There was doubts then that she faked it to enter the home. It was never handled well, they used it for story. And then closed it real fast.
Somewhere this DV also I felt they just put to show Anuj as crippled, never intended for Anu. And never gave as much thought like earlier.
Both lady molest or DV are in general wary of men but yaha to dono chipak rahi hai. Anu bhi divorce ke bad bhi, allow him to touch her, getting into her personal space all the time.
Anu's character assassination, bhumi pujan... everything is drama done in a casual sense and they never ever intended to give any message.
Anu being friends with Vanraj for cafe, her partnership drama, mumbai trip, character assassination, baa wedding, hospital validation, friendly coffee chat in office - they took all those situations like TP. Not one issue left any mark on any character. We don't see any wounded soul, any character learning, growth.
So serial to shuru se aisa hi tha... problem to viewers ki hai jinhone sirf ek Anuj ke bad kuch aur hi unrealistic (non ITV) expectations kar li... isliye ab ye log Anuj ko bhi baki sab jaise bana rahe hai...
Same viewer's ne pehle bhi kitne serials dekhe hai aur itni asani se stop bhi kiya.. I too have seen and stopped so many serials within 50 episodes but here I am obsessed...
I try daily and fail to distance myself. Please note in advance, if you see me MIA it's only because I am trying to get over this addiction by going to rehab as in complete cut off. In rehab I will miss you lovely people and wait to meet you soon.. pata nahi wo din ab aayega, koshish jaari hai doston.
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