Why so much hate for abhi? - Page 4

Honestly, I have left this abhi vs akshu discussions now... Soon they will unite

For both of them it was their first love so they didn't know how to handle this situation..

Now they will make each other better . Abhi will also realise his mistakes and so would akshu...

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I was just reading through some posts. Why people are bashing abhi so much i do not really understand 🤓

Agar usne kuch galath kiya i will still agree but i really dont understand why bash him.

He expressed his love infront of everyone but still akshu insulted him.

He decided to move on because his mom wants him to move on and for him his mom is the only family left why a son cant fullfill ill mothers wish.

( kya ek ladki ke liye jo akhri pyar karne wali maa bachi hai usko bhi mardale kya)

He trusted arohi who is his akshu's sister he does not know sister's dynamics to understand that if she genuine or lying. ( he is not a superhero to see with closed eyes)

After getting rejected so many times and after seeing his moms condition if decided to marry anyone his father choses but that ended up to be arohi. He always been true to his words. He followed what he committed too.. ( agar yaha ye kisi aur ko chunta thab bhi problem hothi atleast mujhe coz anyways he is marrying for family's sake koi bhi ho kya fark padtha hai. Agar if he would have chosen some one else i really felt he is spoiling a good girls life.)

He even tried to make akshu realize but she was adamant and he lost all his hopes and now he decided to move on and go with the flow. ( why we have to again condemn him on this. A girl is not a god that guy has to ruin his life for her when girl herself so adamant on this)

Now when he got to know about fire incident i am damn sure he will go back to his love and try to understand the complete picture.

PS: i am not a abhi supporter as such but currently i do not find any fault in his character. He seems to be going with the flow. I dont wish him to be super human who can read her heart where as her mouth is just speaking utter lies. Please keep this thread clean 🙏 no bashing here you are free to put your point of view but dusron ke point of view par question karke counter attack math karo. As everyone have their own point of view. 😊

This is just my pov. 😊

I feel sorry for him. Circumstances have changed him from a kaabil doctor into sulking man. He is trying to become which he never was, indifferent towards akshara, but here again he fails everytime.. he may act tough, hurt her with his words, Still I find that guy better than every other character.. every character is flawed except Neil, but Abhimanyu as a person has undergone major changes from what he was earlier. His anger issues have flared up multiple fold but still cares for everyone around him... what to say, I can go on with what I feel but, I see changes are around the corner. Hope his pain eases this time..

It's easier to take sides, but I certainly cannot defend his behaviour with Akshara. I was raised to respect everybody irrespective of their status or gender, even the third one. So respect for me has no substitute. Abhimanyu failed when he forced akshara on his bike and brought her at his place without her consent and his behaviour at mehandi function was unrecognizable !! Well, Enough of them hurting each other. Hope both Akshara and abhimanyu have learnt their lessions. Anyways we'll get to see that tomorrow.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Honestly, I have left this abhi vs akshu discussions now... Soon they will unite

For both of them it was their first love so they didn't know how to handle this situation..

Now they will make each other better . Abhi will also realise his mistakes and so would akshu...

Yeah i too want to see an end to this hate game and everyone to give a fresh start to abhira than bashing and commenting on every move❤️

Originally posted by: atulya1

I feel sorry for him. Circumstances have changed him from a kaabil doctor into sulking man. He is trying to become which he never was, indifferent towards akshara, but here again he fails everytime.. he may act tough, hurt her with his words, Still I find that guy better than every other character.. every character is flawed except Neil, but Abhimanyu as a person has undergone major changes from what he was earlier. His anger issues have flared up multiple fold but still cares for everyone around him... what to say, I can go on with what I feel but, I see changes are around the corner. Hope his pain eases this time..

It's easier to take sides, but I certainly cannot defend his behaviour with Akshara. I was raised to respect everybody irrespective of their status or gender, even the third one. So respect for me has no substitute. Abhimanyu failed when he forced akshara on his bike and brought her at his place without her consent and his behaviour at mehandi function was unrecognizable !! Well, Enough of them hurting each other. Hope both Akshara and abhimanyu have learnt their lessions. Anyways we'll get to see that tomorrow.

I too see this issue its majorly influenced with two factors.

1. His anger issues.

2. Akshu is clearly running away from her feelings.

She was crying before engagement and sneak in to hide her mehandi. I would not deny that touching and pulling her without her approval is wrong.he made a mistake there. But the intent might not be to disrespect her rather to tell her to face reality than hiding it. But I really wished writers could have avoided it than adding those scenes as it did not made any impact on her

Originally posted by: borntorule12

Honestly, I have left this abhi vs akshu discussions now... Soon they will unite

For both of them it was their first love so they didn't know how to handle this situation..

Now they will make each other better . Abhi will also realise his mistakes and so would akshu...

He has to, to lead a love filled peaceful life.. Infact he has realised and that is y he is in guilt

Originally posted by: atulya1

It's easier to take sides, but I certainly cannot defend his behaviour with Akshara. I was raised to respect everybody irrespective of their status or gender, even the third one. So respect for me has no substitute. Abhimanyu failed when he forced akshara on his bike and brought her at his place without her consent and his behaviour at mehandi function was unrecognizable !! Well, Enough of them hurting each other. Hope both Akshara and abhimanyu have learnt their lessions. Anyways we'll get to see that tomorrow.

right. I don't wanna defend his behavior with akshu either. It was wrong , the way he behaved with her several times ..I hope the writers were sensitive enuf to not go this way..

Having said that , he never intended to hurt akshara or torture her . If someone can differentiate between the way harsh behaves with majari and abhimanyu with akshara , they will know what I mean . He never intended to torture her..if this was so, he wouldn't be so disturbed when she went missing and when she was in the hospital icu...

The thing is , he is someone with a clean heart..he was hurting , he was burning from inside and what's inside him , he was showing the same to the outside world ..akshu was also hurting from inside but she never showed it...women are champion at hiding their emotions while men can't

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

Let me quickly tell you something that I am sure you already know. 😆🤗

Because we don't see a reason for a character to get trolled/bashed/questioned doesn't mean that nobody else can.

I believe, perceptions are heavily based on our own experiences in life so everyone looks at a particular thing from a point of view that we can't always understand.

I am fine with whoever trolls whoever long as it stays limited to the characters. It's bound to happen. ⭐️

You sound like abir.

Originally posted by: ViSions

You sound like abir.

Dammit! Do I? 😆

I miss watching him though. Undeniably one of the sweetest male protagonists, I have come across.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

But akshu very well knows abhi loves her. Do you think a sister would not stop her sister marrying some one who hardly loves her back.

He never let arohi call him abhi. Nor let her sit on his bike. Akshu has seen this too. Why akshu cant stop this marriage is my question( probably his question too)

He does not know arohi hates akshu. For him they both love each other. Akshu's silence is actually spoiling both abhi and arohi's life.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

Everyone are responsible for tilak fiasco. Akshu very well know abhi used to call her and talk to her. But she kept her mouth closed on that day which looked more like abhi was playing with both the girls. Which is equally wrong. Abhis intention was never to marry arohi in the first place. He said which ever girl you choose i am ready. Harsh chosen arohi. If he denies to this then it would more like abhi is going against his own words.

Abhi still have some hope that akshu loves him.

I really dont under akshu's decision.

Abhi and kairav asked her to not to come to birla mansion she still went their

Abhi asked her to not to join birla hospital. As he knows its too hard for him to work. But she still has to join it. Why?

She herself is making its difficult for him by taking some decisions which kind of makes him feel that she still wants to be with him.

He forced her to join engagement because just silently crying at home and cursing her fate will not make her strong. If she has chosen this path. She should very well face reality.

No matter what he was there for akshu whenever she was in trouble eventhough she has broken his hearts into million pieces. Thats what i like about him.

He never tortured her to the extent that its being exaggerated. He just wants her to be stick to her decision and stop hiding from reality. Agar torture karna hotha toh martha peet tha. But he only asked her to behave according to her decision

1. To stay away from him.

2. To celebrate in the marriage by eating sweets.

3. To participate in each and every functions.

4. Remove his thoughts from her mind by forcing her to remove her mehandi.

This is my pov. I do not really feel he is torturing her. He is just showing her the mirror. Which she needs to see.