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I want to know what are you supposed to do if you fall in love with someone as a married person? You can’t control your feelings obviously so what are you supposed to do? What Abhay did? Definitely not what Vikrant did and he was always in love so screw him🤢 What vinayak did? Or smth else?
Is it EMA if you tell your partner you love smb else and leave them?
Originally posted by: SONIA441
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I want to know what are you supposed to do if you fall in love with someone as a married person? You can’t control your feelings obviously so what are you supposed to do? What Abhay did? Definitely not what Vikrant did and he was always in love so screw him🤢 What vinayak did? Or smth else?
Is it EMA if you tell your partner you love smb else and leave them?
No, you can fall out of love with your spouse and develop feelings for someone else, but you shouldn't hide things from your spouse. Abhay did the correct sequence of events by breaking up first then confessing his feelings (as per the precap). It becomes an affair when people get involved outside a marriage, whether it's a physical or emotional affair. The respectful thing to do is when you realize you have feelings (or both people have feelings for each other) is to keep distance until the marriage has been dissolved. Vinayak did cheat on Girija I believe. Vikrant is attempting to by trying to get close to Deepika and both are hiding his condition from Aditi, which is her right to know as a wife. Once you start giving others rights that should belong to your spouse it might as well be an affair.
Originally posted by: ShinyMishka
No, you can fall out of love with your spouse and develop feelings for someone else, but you shouldn't hide things from your spouse. Abhay did the correct sequence of events by breaking up first then confessing his feelings (as per the precap). It becomes an affair when people get involved outside a marriage, whether it's a physical or emotional affair. The respectful things to do is keep distance until the marriage has been dissolved. Vinayak did cheat on Girija I believe. Vikrant is attempting to by trying to get close to Deepika and both are hiding his condition from Aditi, which is her right to know as a wife. Once you start giving others rights that should belong to your spouse it might as well be an affair.
I didn’t watch the entire scene so I assumed he left before the affair. Makes sense. Vikrant is definitely cheating.
I think it's not considered EMA unless there's been a physical connection or the married person acted on their feelings.
But probably things're a bit different in India in comparison to other parts of the world since most people get in arranged marriages. If both knew they never had any kind of emotional connect too, but the spouse wants to still tie both back cos Marriage is supposed to be 7 janams....it gets pretty tangled😲
I don't know... I'm rambling now I guess🤦🏻♀️
I didn’t watch the entire scene so I assumed he left before the affair. Makes sense. Vikrant is definitely cheating.
I watched the scene and Girija referred to Naina as a lover or girlfriend, that's why I assumed the relationship had progressed outside the marriage. But then again I don't know, because now they are showing that what Girija said and what happened are different. Abhay referred to Naina as using charm to advance in her profession... whose words are those.
Vikrant ka full affair ka mood hai... whatever he thinks, he is cheating Aditi.
I hope Abhay's words shake some sense into Deepika before it's too late.
I want to know what are you supposed to do if you fall in love with someone as a married person? You can’t control your feelings obviously so what are you supposed to do? What Abhay did? Definitely not what Vikrant did and he was always in love so screw him🤢 What vinayak did? Or smth else?
Is it EMA if you tell your partner you love smb else and leave them?
It is as if you read my mind.... I was going to post something similar but was torn whether to post it as another topic or just continue in EDT as this is quite a strong and more or less controversial topic.
Here are my 2 cents on the topic. Whoever all will read it, please read it with an open mind!
Feelings can be suppressed but not controlled fully because at one point or the other the suppressed feelings are going to explode and a lot of people will suffer deep hurt, especially those who were living in ignorance. People can fall out of love just as they fell into it. It is not wrong! What makes it wrong is not telling the affected party soon enough and pretending that everything is fine. Marriage is not a guarantee paper that if one is married to another, they will love each other forever. Times change, people change and so does our feelings towards them. In the case of Vinayak if what he has told Abhay is true, then I think he was trying to do things amicably. He fell in love with someone else, told Girja, continuously wanted to be part of his son's life and so forth. Justified. On the other hand, Girja the affected party, is also not wrong She was in love with her husband who unfortunately fell out of love with her. So her anger and hurt are also justified EXCEPT separating a father and son. that was very wrong of her. AGAIN THIS IS ON THE BASIS THAT WHAT VINAYAK TOLD ABHAY IS TRUE.
On the other hand, what Vikrant is doing is completely wrong. He has his own realizations regarding love but being a coward he is, he is continuously lying to Aditi instead of coming out straight and putting her out of misery. Their marriage is already a sham that Vikrant has made both of them live for 10 years.
There is simply no comparison between Vinayak and Vikrant. Vinayak was upfront about his relationship while Vikrant continues to play cat and mouse games. The point at the end of the day when it comes to marriage or any relationship is not how much love is there but how much respect one gives to their partner. After investing so much time, effort energy and at one point in time, love, does one respect their partner enough to tell them the truth. yes, it will break hearts but won't it be better to do it in the very beginning than when everything becomes a mess. It is always much more respectful when the partner himself/herself shares this information with the affected partner rather than the affected partner discovering it from the outsiders. The breaks a person's self-respect to the core.
If ever, I happen to be in such a relationship (hopefully never✌️), I'd rather have my partner tell me this upfront and we separate amicably than have a lousy husband like Vikrant who avoids communication. Yes, hearts will be broken because of emotions and memories and sometimes even children are involved but that is life. We just learn to live better in the end. If children are involved I would always prefer to give my child two happy homes than one everlasting unhappy one.
Feel free to disagree, but please share your points in a decent manner.
Not proofread, may contain typos.
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