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Posted: 3 years ago

I agree! He’s just going to go with it and humour her. I hope we get a bit of lightness from him as well.


It’s unhealthy how much I love these two. But how can you not, like you said - they’re SO cute!!

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Charishma

It's an annoying synopsis near the end for sure. But it'll just be another opportunity for Aryan to be there for her. And I would like to see how Imlie behaves around Aditya now.

@bold: definitely.

I would definitely like to see AKT and Imlie's interactions from now on too! I think there will less of those scenes as he is not on the set for too long.

But mostly my focus is going to be on how she moves on with her life and how she replaces those bad memories of her past at the Tripathi's and with Adi.

Her strong motivation to move on for the sake of herself, her mother, and her dadda is what I would definitely like to see.

There is something called the "Stages of Behavior Change" used in Psychiatry and medicine in general and it also fits perfectly for Imlie's situation.

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She has so far reached the Preparation stage, there were many hurdles along the way but she has finally got to this stage. Now we have to watch for the next two stages - Action and Maintenance.

The action phase will be tough for her and Aryan will be her pillar of strength, a mentor, and a therapist who will give her the right advice to stay strong. If he sees her falling back he will also give her the support that she needs. But he will let her choose her own battles and fight them headstrong and will never hold her back.

Maintenance phase can be tricky and there are chances for relapse even when in that stage. What we can hopefully get to see is how Aryan and Narmada+Arpita😊 will give her strength, guide her, support her and provide her with unconditional love and care so that she doesn't divert from that path and doesn't relapse into the hell of AKT. 😎

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Posted: 3 years ago

Thanks for sharing the stages of behaviour change Pavilion!


I think what’ll help Imlie in this stage is, as you mentioned, the support system she has. Aryan, Narmada, and Arpita will each provide a different type of support for her which will be helpful to her journey.

This is exactly why I’m not bothered by her being back at the T’s. She needs to come up with some coping strategies and some of these strategies will need to be developed based on recognizing what triggers she does have.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Waiting for an epic verbal flaying of Anu Chaturvedi by Imlie some day soon. I will be in the front seat bajaaoing seeti. Will happily abuse replay button for that scene.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Pavilion_way

@bold: definitely.

I would definitely like to see AKT and Imlie's interactions from now on too! I think there will less of those scenes as he is not on the set for too long.

But mostly my focus is going to be on how she moves on with her life and how she replaces those bad memories of her past at the Tripathi's and with Adi.

Her strong motivation to move on for the sake of herself, her mother, and her dadda is what I would definitely like to see.

There is something called the "Stages of Behavior Change" used in Psychiatry and medicine in general and it also fits perfectly for Imlie's situation.

Image

She has so far reached the Preparation stage, there were many hurdles along the way but she has finally got to this stage. Now we have to watch for the next two stages - Action and Maintenance.

The action phase will be tough for her and Aryan will be her pillar of strength, a mentor, and a therapist who will give her the right advice to stay strong. If he sees her falling back he will also give her the support that she needs. But he will let her choose her own battles and fight them headstrong and will never hold her back.

Maintenance phase can be tricky and there are chances for relapse even when in that stage. What we can hopefully get to see is how Aryan and Narmada+Arpita😊 will give her strength, guide her, support her and provide her with unconditional love and care so that she doesn't divert from that path and doesn't relapse into the hell of AKT. 😎

I love this! Thanks for sharing it. I get it, it's a process right. I hope they do justice to her process instead of just flipping a switch all of a sudden. I'm really not as annoyed with her "back and forth" because you can still see some development. I find it difficult to watch her go through it, but it all kind of flows. So I prefer it be this than it's all of a sudden Aditya out and a new guy in. That would disingenuous.
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Charishma

I love this! Thanks for sharing it. I get it, it's a process right. I hope they do justice to her process instead of just flipping a switch all of a sudden. I'm really not as annoyed with her "back and forth" because you can still see some development. I find it difficult to watch her go through it, but it all kind of flows. So I prefer it be this than it's all of a sudden Aditya out and a new guy in. That would disingenuous.


I find that the back and forth is also somewhat realistic. She takes a few steps forward and then stumbles back a few. Every time though she learns something new, gains more insight/knowledge that she applies to continue moving forward. Speaking personally, it’s only now in my advanced years (lol) that I’m better able to process change and emotions with less back and forth. But I can’t even imagine what a mess my 19 year old self would’ve been.


Imlie is strong, she’s a survivor. She’s going to get through this. I hope that like you said, it isn’t just Aditya out and new guy in. I’m totally okay with waiting a bit before romance begins to bloom here. As long as they show progress in Imlie’s journey of growth.


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Posted: 3 years ago

Aru is total love today ❤️

So I was right... Pyaz ko role wahi hai jo Aryan ka role h in adi...lie seperation 😆

Imlie ki Pehli rasoi successful.... Sabse pehle khana taste bhi aruji ne kiya wo bhi chhup ke.... Aww this guy is total partner goals ❤️


I don't even want to talk about othe people today n diminish my joy ... Hoping to read your versions.. ❤️



Edit to add ..

Forgot to mention the role played by his eyebrows today ... Lol😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

Chya maari, when did he taste the food? I totally missed it! 🤓

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Posted: 3 years ago

My Imlie ia ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

it wasn't Aru or Arylir today but IMLIE to outshine everyone..

that 19 year old girl has some real nuggets of knowledge abt life that everyone else should learn from.

and some Aru like moments... dipping the finger in kadhi just to lick it later...

and yes he cried for her, her sad story and her hardships but blamed it on onion...

some absolute epic eye roll for Malini.... by Aru.....

great episode...👌

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mltr16

Chya maari, when did he taste the food? I totally missed it!


Dipped his finger in kadi and put in his mouth after coming out of kitchen!!

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