Originally posted by: Indira1211
exactly..I think fateh needed time to get over Jasmine and see her true colors…and once he got her out of his life he could realise his feelings for tejo….because he always appreciated her goodness and kindness..and he must have been attracted to her physically as he went to bed with her…so it was just the ‘in love ‘ connection that was missing…but now he realises that he does love tejo…it may not be the crazy obsessive love he had for jasmine where it was all about him..this is a more mature love where he wants what is best for tejo…it’s the kind of love where the other persons happiness matters more ,..and they say that is true love…so maybe this is where the show is heading. But I’m glad they didn’t get him married to jasmine or let them get physically intimate,…then it would have been hard to accept fatejo again.l..🤷🏻♀️
While Love is a subjective idea irl, we all mean different things when we say we love someone, and what our expectations are. But in a show where they're trying to show it as perfect as it can be, as something almost divine, or 'ibadati ishq', it's very clear what love means. Love means loving someone with your entire being and still maintaining yourself. In Jasfa case it's more like an obsession addiction (and never underestimate these, people ruin themselves because of them, throw acid, kill others and then themselves), JF was a transaction. She literally was marrying him because of his job, and once it went away, J dropped him like a hot potato. when you love someone you are supposed to stand by them in good and bad times, esp bad. Despite his raga F too never loved her, it's an obsession of getting her. He doesn't think about her reputation, or what she might have to face as consequences as a mistress. F**k it, once he 'gets' her he barely gives any f about her. Best example, motel. They're in a cheap red light kinda motel where the situations are really bad. F's reaction to her issues is ignoring her. LAter when cops arrive, J isn't there anymore, means she's alone in a shady motel yet his entire being is focused towards protecting Tejo. And this happens at a point where he's the most obsessive about his 'love' for Jasmine.
At his core, Fateh always inclined towards Tejo, he had always loved her. However by the time he became aware of his own person, and his love, it's all over. however like a true lover, he didn't mess anything up just so he could get Tejo. He recognizes how bad he's for her, and does everything in his power to let her have a happy life, even if he's alone with her memories.
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