Originally posted by: maanarsh
Aaj kal aisa lag ra hai EDT bhi war zone ban gaya and ppl are not able to share their views openly...though I am not active and somewhat detached to this show but I observed some ppl are getting triggered and getting mocked...this is not done.EDT was a peaceful place where we used to share our views openly and we used to accept and respect each and everyone's views here unlike Twitter....anyways not done and acceptable
The problem comes two ways.
One
the person who writes the post
Two
The person who reads and misinterpretes it.
What i mean is a member could be writing smtg in general but others misinterpret and start pointing out unnecessarily.
This has happened to me a few weeks back.
I usually refrain from interferring to save my mental sanity but there was one that i did repliy becoz i was annoyed with the writing style.
when one member quotes the other , a third person shouldn't interfere. Don't be too emotional and start jumping in. Just ignore it's only fiction.
If u dislike a particular member just dont quote them and even if he or she quotes u , just ignore. Simple as that. Don't need to be emotional
The problem is members get too emotional thinking others are picking on them when that person is just writing a general post hinting no one in particular just giving their honest opinion.
There might have been personal attacks before . I do not go through all posts .
But in general this is what i see
Members are too emotional . Misinterpreting posts . Jumping in unnecessarily. Pointing out for no reason.
So much so that before writing a post now in the forum, one needs to think ten times. Afraid others may misinterpret and get offended.
This is the main reason why discussions are becoming conflicts.
The main issue lies in the understanding and interpreting the posts not just writing.
I personally have seen some members writing general post but others jump at them still.
The problem comes both way
The writer and the reader as well
It's not solely the writer alone
This is my pov
Edited by Aniash - 3 years ago