This is the the 2nd time I have watched a video of James Vasanthan's analyse of yesterday's episode. He managed to give some clarity to me.
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Pavni is manipulator and will be considered as liar in some places. But her intention in this matter is not wrong but the way she handled Abhinay didn't go well. Pavni feels suffocated when some people overload them with care and affection. People like Pavni, will sometimes doubt them in terms of why they like you so much. She feels she doesn't deserve it as she can't give the same amount of care and affection. She has build a wall to protect herself. So she wants Abhinay to tune down his attention on her. Abhinay tells Amir he talks to Pavni, because she is alone. If I was Pavni, I don't want people to pity me. Abhinay needs to accept that he can't expect every person to accept his overload affection. If he can't tune down, then he has to back off when Pavni tells him that she feels uncomfortable with the way he behaves towards her. Also she gets effected by what other says. They made her feel uncomfortable with Abhinay. They kept poking and she had to push Abhinay away after the political debate.
Annachi said Iykki craves for love, people like her would love to get that kind of attention Abhinay is giving.
Thamarai says if you feel uncomfortable you should avoid them. In reality it's easy, but not in BB house. You have to face them everyday. It's hard to tell a person who cares for you, that you should stop do that. And Pavni is mostly saying it because people like Thamarai talks ugly about your character and relationship. Abhinay is not willing to change either. Where Pavni is he will be seen as well. It is bloody annoying. When she is cooking he is there, when she talks with Amir he is there too.
Raju doesn't have any good attention in talking about this in a task. The way Akshara is laughing and Raju's expression while the KP was showing it clearly shows they want to point out how Pavni manipulates things.
I feel sorry for women gets into a situation where they are forced her to cut off people because other show too much attention to her relationship and confusion.
Edited by bahi. - 3 years ago