Bigg Boss Season 5 Week 9 Discussion Thread - Page 93

Originally posted by: mirun

Washing vessels is not difficult job . What they will do whole day ? Like soak in soap , kaluvi uthifying . Ninnu 10 perukku samaikuruthu kashtam plate andha sink vessels wash panrathu enna problem

This task was not even physical task . Ithukku why they can’t wash

Annachi Raju priyanka Niroop and Sanjiv finals pona yaaru samaippa ?

Priyanka. She is a good cook.

This not the first time Pri highlited Raju vessel issue, that has been going on for long time.

Lotus trying to be in good books for all men in BB.

Originally posted by: ZEESXY

This not the first time Pri highlited Raju vessel issue, that has been going on for long time.

Lotus trying to be in good books for all men in BB.

Cooking, sweeping, cleaning, washing vessels are life skills which everyone should know irrespective of their interest. I didn't mean they should excel in these but atleast know to manage. You cannot say I don't like and escape. If a married couple/single is supposed live alone for work and both don't know to Cook what will happen. Both are supposed to learn but we expect the woman alone to do household. This is because of inborn patriarchal mindset in the society. I don't blame men alone here as mostly children are raised and taught by the parents it is their duty to teach both son and daughter to do household chores equally but mothers teach only daughter to do this. The problem starts here. Similarly the way fathers behaves in home greatly influence children. If the father limits himself to outside work and not engage in household work the children sees it and take it in a way that male are not supposed to work at home.

Originally posted by: bahi.

Cooking, sweeping, cleaning, washing vessels are life skills which everyone should know irrespective of their interest. I didn't mean they should excel in these but atleast know to manage. You cannot say I don't like and escape. If a married couple/single is supposed live alone for work and both don't know to Cook what will happen. Both are supposed to learn but we expect the woman alone to cook. This is because of inborn patriarchal mindset in the society. I don't blame men alone here as mostly children are raised and taught by mother it is her duty to teach both son and daughter to do household chores equally but mothers teach only daughter to do this. The problem starts here. Similarly the way fathers behaves in home greatly influence children. If the father limits himself to outside work and not engage in household work the children sees it and take it in a way that male are not supposed to work at home.

Not only these, in general when women are given control they don’t have much authority as men. They are not taken seriously by both men and other women. This is the general mindset of the society and without realizing that it is wrong they carry on.

In BB house itself we saw when Isai,pavni had the aalumai they were not taken seriously and when they tried to force it , they were tagged as arrogant etc . But when Niroop,varun were there everyone followed the orders ( except Niroop ) .. Isai was not even authoritative or arrogant and didn’t even give any tough punishment or task still they tagged her as arrogant and didn’t support ( especially Lotus & Imman) . Girls orders were always overlooked and they had troubles to get everyone to abide . This cannot be dismissed as one’s personality ..

This kind of societal norm has made women to be loud to be heard ( ex, vanitha, archana , priyanka )

When Niroop and Pavni both the coin holders were in jail, someone could have tried to steal the coin ..

Another example of how women are treated in BB.

When Pavni gave punishment to Lotus , Raju and even lotus raised their voice saying everyone are tired , how it could be done .

But yday it was daily chores , but since it was Raju turn to do it , Lotus did it without any fuss and Raju didn’t feel that Lotus would be tired after all the cooking and task.

In unseen, annachi was outrightly denying to do Cleaning work .. he even says I cannot do the work . Raju,Niroop and lotus agreeing and lotus says u only clean the table , I will do the rest ..

Originally posted by: goldiesif

Raju looks bad on screen, can connect with him. Priyanka looks good on screen, not able to connect with her.

There isn't any easy formula in BB.

Going against evil works, Raju inspite of his his short coming will not be considered evil.

If someone try Aari formula, it may not help in this season.

Originally posted by: silverfox

When Niroop and Pavni both the coin holders were in jail, someone could have tried to steal the coin ..

Am I watching Tamil BB or English?? Niroop dassu bussu

How did you all watch yesterday's episode!!??😔

I'm getting headache listening to their fight😵