Originally posted by: Coveter_Sy
Yes that’s the point. Dhara had no say in this situation coz she was not told about it; she had no idea about it. It’s supposed to be a mutual decision between to be parents. I’m sure she would have taken the same decision what Gautam took. But the issue is lack of communication in such sensitive matter. She had every right to know about it and Gautam did her dirty by not sharing this and not taking any second opinion. He couldn’t share with Dhara due to stress? okay. He could have shared it to someone else who could give him good suggestions like his mom or hardik.
On a different note, there is so much discussion going on this world about abortion and autonomy of women to keep or terminate the pregnancy even in developed countries like US. I too believe that women should be given only right to take decisions about their body.
This still doesn't explain how is gombi the killer of dharas baby It's a very big accusation . It dhara has to blame someone , blame the doctor , file a case on her. But what will change? All through her pregnancy she had been running, jumping , drugged , and care for everyone and everything when the doctor was asking her again and again to not stress. How did she react when spotting happened? Like a mature sensible woman who shouldn't stress ? How on earth could gombi speculate how dhara would react ? Life and death is not in the hands of humans. The lady who went berserk with the idea of her husband having an affair coz she is pregnant , jiska koi head or tail nai tha , will take the news of her baby not developing well?
How did she think she would make the baby start growing ? She had some super powers or what
I disagree that the decision should be mutual. In this case it couldn't be mutual. It wasn't an abortion ... Even if gombi wanted the baby and dhara too, they couldn't keep the baby. The pregnancy was terminated on medical grounds to save the mother . The doctor asking for gombis advice was insane... I don't know much about the medical profession and the line of action in emergency cases like dharas , but the doctor has to save the mother first. I don't think suman was a good person to share the news with ...she is a crazy woman who also thinks by doing some magic the baby could have survived.
Gombi Confiding in Anita is a completely different issue unrelated to dharas pregnancy.