Pakhi was right 😂😂 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Nja91

She was not thinking about only being lifelong friends. When she says we will forever see be friends does not mean she doesn't also want to be wife. But she does not want to lose their special friendship. Even before DIG revelation, Sai waa looking at virats rose and putt6 it in her baal. In the flow of snapping at pp she did say why can't i hug my own husband. So i dont think she was intending on just friendship n nothing else.

What if Ashwini's plan had backfired and Sai never realised love and only wanted friendship?

She would have realized it independently irrespective of Ashwini or anyones meddling.. And if Sai decided she didnt like the idea of "love" , eventually she'd have left.. she only went ahead with friendship because she knew it lets her say things to virat that she cant otherwise. Its a start to getting back on track as a couple. She is not one to string virat along.

Right from her marriage Sai has repeatedly done/said things that show she wants to be his wife. But she gets pushed back by all the roadblocks making her retreat in a shell and make her talk about the deal n wanting to leave in 5 years.

• I do feel by bringing Shruti some early .. in the track the cvs will have to do a lot of plot building .. as the major pain in the Shruti track was Rono cheating on emon .. who was pregnant.. and later on mistreating his pregnant wife ..

• if Sai n virat are still good friends then good na virat showed his colors before Sai can get trapped .. she can easily shrug off

The last two points that you have made 👌. What a perceptive way to think 👏. I am curious as what they are going to show 😅.

Originally posted by: msin

Yes Hindi tv is strangely hypocritical… they take out the vitality from the male characters and make them insipid .. t am finding bangla tv more real .. and interesting .. how can physical relationship be omitted in a marriage .. and just because hubby wife have been having se…. It does not mean things are hunky dory .. issues abd MU can crop up .. and just because hubby wife are fighting that does not mean they don’t have physical desire.. some moments they will give in to their needs .. that’s what emon told her madhuparna .. that I fell weak .. I gave in to him though I had not forgiven him ..Ghum will lose its sting ..if virat and sai don’t have a real marriage .. because the fight in KD was between a real couple ..who knew each other in and out ..

well said!! I always wonder why all serials are like this!!! Because a man and woman who are in prime of their age and gotten license of marriage can stay apart for so long!! 😂 initially I understand because of some strange setup they get married but when they started knowing and feeling for each other it is impossible that they don’t come physically close.

but it is very poetic to weave a story around their guarded feelings. If you think deeply from narration point of view, it gives viewers a high that even being in love, they are waiting for the confession and suppressing their desires. It gives much needed ‘angst’ and ‘sacrifice’ feelings to their love. It satisfies the viewers ‘idealistic’ definition of love which is beyond physical and materialistic… almost divine. We know that is not possible in real life so we enjoy it on screen. 👍🏼

Ps: for me, sai and virat were completely ready to take their next step after Ladakh fight. Sai was most vulnerable in her feelings and virat could have easily broken through her! It would have been more natural if they had become man and wife then…

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Shruti track will definitely be different in ghum. As no confession happened, no sai pregnancy like kd so it may be different. Must be a track to bring angst before confession.

I too think this will be handled differently. Virat will not disclose about shruthi due to protocol issues not because he will protect her.

Also they are not making pakhi fall too low… so there might be samrakhi track. But not sure how they progress in the story without roadblocks 😳. But for once the suspense is good in ghum, even though it

scares us 😂

Originally posted by: Nja91

She would have realized it independently irrespective of Ashwini or anyones meddling.. And if Sai decided she didnt like the idea of "love" , eventually she'd have left.. she only went ahead with friendship because she knew it lets her say things to virat that she cant otherwise. Its a start to getting back on track as a couple. She is not one to string virat along.

Right from her marriage Sai has repeatedly done/said things that show she wants to be his wife. But she gets pushed back by all the roadblocks making her retreat in a shell and make her talk about the deal n wanting to leave in 5 years.

If at all virat has to realize something, it is this!!

she was always his wife, meant to be one 😔. But whenever she regained her position something of his behavior, even though unintentional has pushed her away.

In that way, she tried more to be in this relationship than virat. Virat had no roadblocks. Sai had only roadblocks and still she is with him. 👍

Whenever Virat introspects he either kind of blames Sai for not understanding him or he is doing this mix of self pity + guilt where he feels bad for abusive behavior but in his head/heart he still thinks his reaction is justified, just the magnitude or expression wasnt. Not once does he kind of switch pov entirely to think why does Sai do or say the things she does. Sai does- although she comes to the "wrong" conclusion but she makes the effort to try and see his pov. When he was mad at her post anniversary she tried to understand why- she even said- ya it must be hard to live with a short tempered person like me, it nust be hard to see your love with your brother, it must be annoying to have me interfere in your work.....so atleast she tries to see a justification for his anger/reaction. Whereas Virat always just brushes her off. He thinks Sai is childish, silly, immature. Never does he give weightage to her reactions or think WHY! He did the same with when Sai raised the issue of pp still being interested in him.

Sai has so much of his baggage to get over. Virat ke liye toh clean slate hai.

My disappointment is that even after ajinkya track neither him nor anyone else presented the fact that- agar tum ek college friend ko lekar itnaa possessive huye toh Sai ko kaisa lagta hoga to have your ex gf in vicinity 24x7.

I want a complete episode where they will address these issues. I was waiting for the night after confession more than anything. But lo we are in for more drama. 😳

It needs more than 1 episode...1 saal ke insecurities/conflicts ko address karne liye 1 hafta toh banta hai.nbut ya ghkkpm is giving us 1 more kaand. Dunno how long it'll last. Ye Shruti track kab tak hoga? 🤔😢

Originally posted by: Nja91

It needs more than 1 episode...1 saal ke insecurities/conflicts ko address karne liye 1 hafta toh banta hai.nbut ya ghkkpm is giving us 1 more kaand. Dunno how long it'll last. Ye Shruti track kab tak hoga? 🤔😢

Expecting a short one but not sure 😏