This is not love. This is BS. - Page 11

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Posted: 4 years ago

TBH, I had a feeling this would happen. Anything to avoid intimacy between Sai and Virat. Who wants confession ? At least two days of staying together with no mirchi Modak talk and some adult talk..aisa hota to kaisa hota?? 🤪

Nahi...Nini jitna bhi close scenes nahi diye. 🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

The sole reason why Sai fell in love with virat is she is orphan and gratitude from her part turned into love since she has no one in the world....

Love is that pure feeling that you can break your own heart into pieces but have best wishes for loved one even if he/she doesn't love you.....

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Posted: 4 years ago

Word 👏👏

Its just so frustrating to see them stretch this track introducing new characters without even resolving old conflicts. They are so averse to logic. They are also averse to showing us romance, the life of a modern couple. Just keep on throwing 3rd angles n MU all the frickin time because tv soap mein FL should never be happy. Only tortured, abused and yet be forgiving.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

The sole reason why Sai fell in love with virat is she is orphan and gratitude from her part turned into love since she has no one in the world....

Love is that pure feeling that you can break your own heart into pieces but have best wishes for loved one even if he/she doesn't love you.....

And the people around her everytime guilt tripping her for not understanding virat feelings & telling how much he cares for her. When she tries to move away again emotional manipulation & false promises. I so wish she has a family of her own😒.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

And the people around her everytime guilt tripping her for not understanding virat feelings & telling how much she cares for her. When she tries to move away again emotional manipulation & false promises. I so wish she has a family of her own😒.

If she had family, SaiRat wouldn't exist, no one will take so much BS in their life, if they have a chance to move out.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nikita05

If she had family, SaiRat wouldn't exist, no one will take so much BS in their life, if they have a chance to move out.

Literally. Even if sai wanted,her family wouldn't have let her stay with a person like virat. The reason why family is so important. When we are told to believe something again & again we would believe it. That's what happening with sai. There is no one in her life who can wary her about virat toxity except our dear patralekha who cares so much for sai 😪.
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Literally. Even if sai wanted,her family wouldn't have let her stay with a person like virat. The reason why family is so important. When we are told to believe something again & again we would believe it. That's what happening with sai. There is no one in her life who can wary her about virat toxity except our dear patralekha who cares so much for sai 😪.

Pakhi didi loves sai so much, sacrificing her self respect and dignity to keep sai away from viru baby.😂

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: laksh

Controlled myself not to comment but here I come 😂.

I would have been happy if he had never expected anything out of Sai and just stuck to his deal. He turned it into a deal marriage, set the terms and conditions of the marriage, then broke those conditions since he started to feel something for her, started to develop expectations from her, and now when she has started to have expectations from him, he is going to abandon her. It doesn’t matter whether he has feelings for any other woman or not but if he continues to act protective towards other women and keep taking his relationship and Sai for granted, I wouldn’t be able to call this love. This is torture for Sai and she will be better off without a guy like him in her life. For that matter anyone would be better off without him. One cannot try to do social service by abandoning their own people. Promises made to Sai should be kept above all. I would have understood if he fought for the country or to protect the public, not like this.

Whom does he think himself to be? Some mahaan aatma? He will be one insensitive guy if he drowns in his own misery/guilt again due to which he takes up another responsibility or gives a promise to a guy abandoning Sai. He had issues when Sai wasn’t reciprocating his feelings or when he couldn’t see her accepting his relationship and what does he do everytime? It is either Pakhi or someone else and he gives the name of farz. What farz? Where did it go when he broke the promise made to Kamal every time he misbehaved with Sai or whenever he deprived her of food and shelter? The word farz from his mouth is a joke. The guy ousted Sai from his house saying she will learn only if she doesn’t have a roof on her head is now giving a roof to another woman out of guilt despite him being married. His family is talking about him giving them a heir, he had convinced Sai to move into his room and is now going to act so irresponsible? He is the most dumb, irresponsible, insensitive, self centred guy who also doesn’t know how and when to draw lines.

Whatever he has for Sai is not love if he cannot understand her pain or if he continues to take her for granted. I could anyway never believe that what he has for Sai is love after the previous track where he locked her up without any remorse and after he attacked her over and over ganging up with his ex and others in his family who hates Sai.

If you look at it, ultimately he decides everything in their life. Be it deal marriage, be it him expecting her to accept him as her husband, or now when he has decided to maintain distance from her or take responsibility of another woman despite being a married man.

What a creativity btw. They chose to advance this track so that they could divert the hatred of the audience towards the new character? What is it that they thought they are doing when they decided to bring in such kind of a regressive track? The original promo is a joke. Sadly, I started to watch the show after I watched the promo. Farz and all are too big words and Virat portrayed like that is a sham. First let him fulfill his promise made to Kamal and also to Sai when they got married. He is the most unreliable person. Doesn’t matter whether he has feelings for the other woman or not when he is acting like a single guy and not a married guy without paying heed to how Sai would be feeling due to all this. I really really wish that makers show Sai having a good friend or a new guy in her life who will make her forget him and the whole of chavans. It is not that she needs a guy in her life for her to be happy but Virat should get a taste of his own medicine. I hope they show Sai moving out of this mad house and never trust/fall in love with a person like Virat who is going to keep prioritising others over her and who would not be treating her as a partner to consult with her before taking decisions.


Your posts are always spot on, glad to read your comments alwayssmiley27

Every word & sentence you stringed in there💯

An emotionally weak person needs understanding to wake up from their cycle of abuse sometimes, here so called people who claim to love her keep deluding her that it's not abuse but love. Say what we want to say about this show, this is a very sad and typical example of people who go through abuse. They don't realise that it's abuse to beginwith and once the cycle starts it's difficult to break away from it. Sai is stuck in this loop. The pattern Virat and Sai have sounds pretty close to a syndrome called BWS(I discovered this through an FF on the forum by @Potterhead3009).


I so wish Sai could break away and find her own happiness, it'll not be easy at all but what she's facing at this point in age with the academic potential she has drains her completely emotionally, mentally and physically. Even without her potential, she did not ask for all this. All she came for was a dream & dreams can change but she needs to realise what she wants in life. This life and this family can be alluring but with the amount of abuse they dish out to her, she doesn't get the space to introspect or live life in the age she is in.


Sadly, the way ahead looks like she'll always compete for Virat's love over and over again, she doesn't deserve that at all. Nobody deserves to compete for the love of their husband, it's either there or not there & if Virat cannot draw these boundaries he doesn't deserve her love or a marriage to begin with. He should stick to being responsible for people with his duty and not get emotionally involved with them to complicate all their lives. And yes this is not love, it is not a switch to turn on and off per his convenience and priorities.


Why am I writing essays on this forum again🙆, I decided after the anniversary track to watch this show on and off as my mind please very objectively till I can. And I am doing that but your comment was very tempting and here I have blabbered away 🙈

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

It's like alternating two months - 2 happy Sairat months, then 2 angsty... The loop never ends

I think the angsty will be more than 2 months this time if they copy KD. Shruti related track in KD lasted about 4 months! Ghum timeline that is probably a whole year...

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

Let's get back to business then🤣

I have plans for bedsheets, chilli, vase, candy floss, MS 🤣

haha... Chalo add karthe , we will make proper picture wc wala🤣

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