Pasting what I said on another thread:
Itās funny - Iām appalled, but not really surprised that the uproar and sympathy is for the doer - Pratik, and not the one at the receiving end - Rajiv.
Itās an unfortunate staple on this show - jiske zyaada fans - usko zyaada sympathy. No matter what. And as I said - itās appalling.
And the comparisons are utterly juvenile - nothing anyone has engaged in there - jokes, camaraderie, provocation, property destruction, violence in tasks - is comparable to homophobic mocking and harassment. Because the latter are not friendly, and neither are they spur of the moment things that come out as a result of provocation and or a heated situation - theyāre intentional. Brought about by a mindset.
And it pissed me off to no end when he wouldnāt even accept initially the shit he did - only jumping to apologising when he realized Sallu was not going to let it go. And when the likes of Pratik, Vishal and Nishant (and then later Karan and Shamita as well) - kept trying to dilute the issue by stressing ke Pratik ka āintentionā nahi tha. Trying to make it seem ke it came across wrong but wasnāt meant to be. Wtf? Iād like someone to ask these people - how on earth does one make fun of anotherās sexuality like this - without intention?
And Iād be grateful if Pratik would therefore STFU with his whole āāmera tumhe hurt karne ka intention genuinely nahi tha, mera woh meaning genuinely nahi tha, blah blah blahā. Because Pratik has been an adult for quite some time now - and if he doesnāt know by now that homophobic harassment is hurtful, then I donāt know what to say. And then he has the nerve to contend that others donāt own up to their own shit.
What this has done, more than anything else - is shown viewers that Pratik isnāt the sweet little innocent that can be annoying but never truly shitty. Viewers other than his fans of course.