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ok I am sleepy now..😆

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

You forgot one thing....maybe he loves Madhuri and sacrificed for her happiness...right?? Its a marriage...not a business deal....

So what's wrong with sacrificing for your partner's happiness if you're not forced to do it? Women have been doing it for CENTURIES. What's wrong if a man does the same? It's not like Madhuri held him at gun-point and brought him here. He could've easily stayed back if he wanted to.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

I still can't believe that this selfish woman uprooted Dr Nene and the 2 kids from their life so that she can judge reality shows and make vlogs with Dr Nene......and this is my opinion..😳..

Yes BI.

Normal middle class people dream to go to US or any other country abroad so that they can give better education, life to their kids..

I guess, its different for celebrities..

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

If you read my first comment...I said....she is selfish and that is my opinion.....Did I present it as a fact?.....from my perspective...from all that is visible to me with the naked eye....I feel that she is selfish.....

Yes, you clarified it was your opinion and I noted it. I would have accused you of slander and defamation otherwise. 😆

But perception is reality. Our opinions of people impact many things like how we treat them or make them feel. Granted Madhuri is a celebrity and doesn't need anyone to defend her. But I'm merely requesting you to reconsider and temper your opinion because sometimes we don't know. In the real world it could impact people more.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

just because Dr Nene seems cheerful doesn't mean that he didn't feel the pain of giving up his way of life....what is he supposed to do.....give up living....he adapted to his new life......Just because he made a decision.....to support his wife in her career and her dreams....makes him a nice person....doesn't mean that Madhuri is not selfish....that is how the marriages work.....people give up things they like to make the marriage work.....Dr Nene sacrificed here ...

So just to clarify.

Anyone who makes a sacrifice in a relationship is being nice. Anyone who benefits from a partner's sacrifice is selfish.

Another reason to revel in the single life. 😎

This marriage and relationship bullshit is complicated, man! I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul. Don't need no one assuming me or my loved ones as selfish.

Originally posted by: Swetha-Sai

Normal middle class people dream to go to US

I guess the key is "normal middle class", as you've put.

Otherwise living in the US is no great shakes, I fail to see what's so special about the US. Probably those who live there project it as some sort of haven, and the be all and end all, otherwise Canada, UK, Australia, NZ are much better places to migrate to.

Plus, why wouldn't she want to be chauffeured around and fawned upon even if it's to relive nostalgia. Beats doing grocery shopping in Denver.

Is Madhuri really earning more money in India being a judge on flop reality shows ? More than her husband would make in the USA being a doctor ?

If she is. Please let me know because if this true, I need to rethink my life.

There have been rumours about nene having been sued for malpractice in the us. Moreover i consider it my opinion that if millions of women uproot their careers to follow their husbands around, why can't a husband do it for once. So are all men selfish but no that can be masked by saying it is a tradition. Moreover is anyone stopping him for working, he can right?! maybe he is also enjoying being in India where he is a relatively a celebrity.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Yes, you clarified it was your opinion and I noted it. I would have accused you of slander and defamation otherwise. 😆

But perception is reality. Our opinions of people impact many things like how we treat them or make them feel. Granted Madhuri is a celebrity and doesn't need anyone to defend her. But I'm merely requesting you to reconsider and temper your opinion because sometimes we don't know. In the real world it could impact people more.

So just to clarify.

Anyone who makes a sacrifice in a relationship is being nice. Anyone who benefits from a partner's sacrifice is selfish.

Another reason to revel in the single life. 😎

This marriage and relationship bullshit is complicated, man! I am the master of my fate, I am the captain of my soul. Don't need no one assuming me or my loved ones as selfish.

The only way my opinion is changing is if I find out that Dr Nene left USA because he was not allowed to practice there any more...until then we can keep paying gilli danda...like we have been doing all along.....anyone else wants to change my OPINION be my guest...khana kha kar jaana...❤️😆

Originally posted by: Mrignaini

I guess the key is "normal middle class", as you've put.

Otherwise living in the US is no great shakes, I fail to see what's so special about the US. Probably those who live there project it as some sort of haven, and the be all and end all, otherwise Canada, UK, Australia, NZ are much better places to migrate to.

Plus, why wouldn't she want to be chauffeured around and fawned upon even if it's to relive nostalgia. Beats doing grocery shopping in Denver.

Originally posted by: Mrignaini

Plus, why wouldn't she want to be chauffeured around and fawned upon even if it's to relive nostalgia. Beats doing grocery shopping in Denver.

And ever since DST ended shyam ko 4 baje, raat hoti hain, subah koh 6 bhaje bhi raat hoti hai

Taking the BEST bus in monsoon potholes beats going grocery shopping in -23F windchill (-30 C) and blizzard.