*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 109

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Amma isn't ur traditional saas Sharada. She abandoned her own child so she won't tell RR to accept Esha. Not when she knows that R and P love each other and how wrong a person E is.

Ru and Lee, when is RR not OTT yaar. Yeh nai kart meko doubt aata ispe.

@bold, same here! This stuff is right up his alley! 😆

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

ACP actress has left the show. Don't know through whom or which thing raghav or pallavi will get hint

In precap I felt like Pallavi got the hint that Esha is planning something and I felt Pallavi is just playing around.

Originally posted by: PSharada

It is because as a mom she knows what Pallavi means to Raghav and she now knows that the ONS might mean Raghav and Pallavi might never reconcile. As a parent we are always partial to our children - yes you know they have erred but you just can not stop being their support system. That is why they say the love of Parents towards their children is unconditional. We might have n number of conditions but when it comes to our kids every thing takes a back seat because at that point all you are concerned about is how to reduce your child's sufferings. Doesn't make Amma Rao bad or unjust - it just is the way it is in real too.

Also, after Jaya resolved to never repeat what she did many years ago - leaving him when he needed her support most - I expect her to do the same as she did during the Mandaar track in standing by him. It would be easy to be angry with him and kick him out of the house or leave him, but the right thing would be for her as a parent to guide him and show him where he is wrong, how to fix things, etc.

I want to see her scene with Pallavi too after she finds out the truth. I don't expect her to condone or support Raghav at all. She's always been more on Pallavi's side so I expect the same here.

Originally posted by: PSharada

We do not have the same expectations from everyone - Similarly we do not feel the pain of others as much as we feel the pain of our children. Amma knows what Pallavi means to Raghav and yes with the ONS truth out she knows that Raghav might never get Pallavi back in his life. At that point as a mother what should she do ? Abandon him again to his own fate ? or stand with him and console him? She can see that Raghav is truly repenting and whatever happened was a genuine mistake as she knows that Raghav does not love Esha. And none of them know that in the drunken unconsciousness Raghav kept on calling out to Pallavi - I really want that part to also come out. That Raghav was calling out to Pallavi but Esha still went ahead and took advantage of him.

I feel Amma will say to Pallavi that it is up to you whether you want to accept Raghav or not and that is why Raghav is crying. Pallavi will go away to D house and Raghav is like totally lost and Amma might be consoling him. I don't think Amma is going to force Pallavi to be with Raghav after the ONS is out that is because she loves Pallavi and Raghav both equally and she knows that she can't force Pallavi to be with Raghav after this kaand.

And yes, I'm expecting Amma to say what you've mentioned here.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Regarding emotional blackmail, I understand Fria how him just pestering Pallavi can come across as not giving her a chance to decide what she wants to do but you know who gives up on their relationship. Raghav hasn't been able to tell her the whole truth, how sorry he is, how difficult it was for him to lie and why he lied, his insecurities and fears that are deeply ingrained in the deepest corners of his heart, he needs to bare his soul open to her. She needs to hear all that - not to forgive him but to understand him.

Yes, Pallavi knows she won't return but I don't think she'll ever think of going as far as asking for a divorce. She's not impulsive like Raghav. She will take her time to come to terms and only then decide what she wants to do.

I have a little hope that him bearing his soul is a scene that they have written in, going by the Pallavi scenes of late. He needs closure too and it's essential for his character arc to be complete so that they can move forward together.

Originally posted by: PSharada

@bold:- This is the reason why Raghav is following Pallavi. I don't see it as Emotional blackmail. I see it as his desperation to get his Pallavi to hear his viewpoint. Yes he messed up by not telling the truth before hand but he does not want to give up on the beautiful relationship he had with Pallavi and wants to give all his efforts to have her hear him once.

Do I agree with what Raghav is doing? I do and that is because I personally am like that. If I made a mistake and for some reason I could not confess it to my loved one for some reason or other, I will make every effort to have them listen to me once. I just can't give up and not try my level best to have things work out between us. Would that come under emotional blackmail. I am not sure. According to me if a relationship is worth fighting for, I would be disappointed if someone just gives it up because the other person said in anger to leave them alone. If the relationship is worth fighting for then fight for that once where you can put your point across. However even after your explanation if the other person chooses to walk out then honor that choice.

Right now Raghav is trying to get Pallavi to hear him out once - If Pallavi says that she is choosing to walk out then Raghav will accept that and he will wait for her to come back to him but he will remain forever Pallavi's husband.

Yes, he needs to say his piece so that her decision can be better informed. There's a reason why we say 'fighting for a relationship' - if it's precious you give it everything you've got in order to salvage it because it means so much to you. If the other person truly wants to move on, then you give them that space but these two haven't reached that point yet.

I also feel that if she chose to leave him, he would always remain her husband officially or not. He would never be another woman's till his last breath.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

R won't survive being away from her. She's the air he breathes in. Woh either pagal ho jayega ya mar jayega. She will be a zinda lash herself.

Which is why a love so great needs and deserves to be complete. They belong with each other. Period.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Yes we love him with all his flaws, ghamand and drama, don't we?

He's so adorbs when he goes all extreme.

Dude has been extreme from day 1. I expect nothing less from him. If he didn't do all this, then I'd find him weird.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'll be so mad if Sunny's real intentions aren't exposed and if he isn't kicked out by Keerti herself. 😡

He's getting a 180 degree nirma dhulai 🤣

Originally posted by: joliefemme

He's getting a 180 degree nirma dhulai 🤣

Sure? I don't want only dhulai but I want him out of RR mansion + in jail.