PS|Episode Discussion #118 Dil Aaya Gadhi Pe toh Pari Kya Cheez Hai - Page 44

Originally posted by: _charu_

Yes..I was mad on Shiva for a long long time..at times I was frustrated ..then I let it go...my views also changed at times as I was able to see a diff perspective ...the long and short of it is , these characters r not worth the analysis ..like dhara has been established perfectly well .now if makers experiment with her , it doesn't matter..same with others..

@bold. Absolutely..100%

I am mad at shiva on some days, I love him like crazy on other days.

As you said it's all in the hands of makers, they can experiment with the characters as they like and that will give rise to variable opinions and perspectives.

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

Man I can’t bargain… for people like me … Sarojini is useless… I absolute adore kamla nagar market though… well part of the reason…when I was a student I shopped mostly there…

I can’t either- would always take my best bud along to haggle.

Would always be amazed when he STARTed bargaining at half the price they quoted 😳

Based on the script once shared by ankitha..there.is a scene where ravi keeps takes shivas check shirt and wonders if he dressed up for her..so that is probably going to be after thel kaandh..if the stupid editors hasn't already edited it out..🤪 .I really want her to adore those check shirts without her realising shiva is watching.. and speak to herself that she used to like him the way he was ..😒

Originally posted by: Iamlikethisonly

To balance ALL insecurities we have ultra creepy confident Deesu. (Shivers).

@bold...That's her 200% sanskaar🤣

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

I am mad at shiva on some days, I love him like crazy on other days.

As you said it's all in the hands of makers, they can experiment with the characters as they like and that will give rise to variable opinions and perspectives.

I agree with this..except one word..experimenting with the character is too.good a word to be done by makers..they r actually playing with the characters.. 😆

Originally posted by: Khoobsurat123

Uspe Suman maa ka aashirwaad hai that's why she is confident😉

True. But there is also a uniquely creepy forwardness to her. Like she didn’t need anyone’s support to kiss Shiva the first opportunity she got 🤢

Originally posted by: jennylover1

I can't believe the amount of negativity on this place.

After coming from Twitter/insta it used to give me so much joy to read comments and discusions here. But now everything people say here is bashing, taunting, mocking. Except for few people who only make positive posts everyone else is negative.

Some People saying they won't say anything negative but indirectly continue to bash and mock. The environment of this place has been ruined.

Neither are they happy watching nor will they let other people be happy after watching. So many people I know aren't active here any more, no wonder🙂🙂

Hey,

I would try to put forward a neutral pov as I hear you, and I am probably one of those few people who thoroughly enjoy the track.

This world is a democratic place with freedom of speech; anyone has the right to say anything or feel anything. Anger, joy, angst, disgust, everyone is entitled to their opinions.

In fiction, an opinion is an opinion and can never be a fact. Entertainment, morality, situations and other facets in any relationship are incredibly subjective, and hence any piece of fiction is bound to have polarised and diversified reactions.

The problem occurs when:

1. Name-calling and bashing extends to the actors behind these fictional characters.

2. Indirect jabs are taken at people who enjoy the show or don’t enjoy it.

3. Anyone with an informed pov is looked down upon.

The problem isn’t the negativity, but the problem has a sane and open mind to hear what other people have to say. The challenge with negative emotions is that they have a domino effect. For instance, I find an episode terrible, and I rant; there is a high possibility that many people who haven’t watched the show might see a narrative through my opinionated lens and form another opinion based on my opinion. The result, mass anger and hysterical outburst even without watching and forming an opinion.

The problem isn’t people expressing angst, and the challenge is people fleeing if their opinion doesn’t match the mass sentiments. I dread coming to the EDT mostly because I have a very different viewpoint, but that doesn’t refrain me from speaking.

I need my opinion piece to be heard, and the same goes for people who have left. Express it if you disagree. The ugly spat isn’t a solution.

The conversations appear more meaningful when you keep an open mind, express freely and view it as a piece of fiction.

Also, you never know what’s triggering people. Maybe, someone expressing negatively might be facing such challenges that are starting them in real life.

We never know what battles people fight every day in a patriarchal world.
Instead of choosing not to share, we can let our thoughts flow. If you love the show, express it. Let the world know.
It’s a free forum.

I wouldn't say I like name-calling actors behind characters and shall continue to do so. For me, human beings are essential.

Human beings are selectively hypocritical! We all exist in shades of grey. And, that’s what makes us humans.
Adultery, correct, wrong, morality in fiction are highly subjective matters. Diabolical paradoxes exist in every character. We celebrate patriarchy, patrilocality in the name of marriage. Marriage in itself is a highly patriarchal institution (that’s a debate for later :) ) But, we do guard the institution of marriage with fierce loyalty too.
Anyway, I shall avoid digressing from the topic.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. One can choose what they want to say. Negative or positive hardly matters. Authentic depth and maturity lie in listening to what others have to say., politely disagreeing if you don’t agree and putting forward your viewpoint!

We all have our loops of heaven and hell. Let everyone take the journey of their choice. You take yours!

Please do express your feelings in details. 🤗
Life is too short to be thinking about how people will judge you based on your opinion on a mere TV show.


I do agree; there's a cycle of negativity that has started, but I always tell people, watch with a neutral lens rather than reading the EDT and forming opinions that others have to say.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Based on the script once shared by ankitha..there.is a scene where ravi keeps takes shivas check shirt and wonders if he dressed up for her..so that is probably going to be after thel kaandh..if the stupid editors hasn't already edited it out..🤪 .I really want her to adore those check shirts without her realising shiva is watching.. and speak to herself that she used to like him the way he was ..😒

Deeps but in all the latest BTS Shiva is still in the Shiva 2.0 look. I doubt makers will go back now. I have a feeling the scene you are mentioning might have hit the chopping table just like Shiva-Disha hug.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

You know there are two characters that I can't imagine being played by anyone else.

Shiva and maami.

😂😂😂

Agree.. these two characters are the most unique in PS.. baaki sab bohot common hai 😆

Originally posted by: Priyal_10

Imagine maami asking Shiva-

Ayee jungleee🤪tune mere NRI daamad ho bhaga diya...aur uski car mein khud aagaya🤣

Shiva can show his sickle to her at this point, maami apne aap 1 2 ka 4 ho jayegi 🤣