Originally posted by: joliefemme
Fria I understand and respect your opinions and they are right to an extent. Here it all falls down to your own tolerance levels.
I am someone who drinks casually a lot and know from past experiences what being drunk out of senses can do to you (been there done that several times). But when you are surrounded by people who are good, nothing untoward will happen (I'm not saying you should be irresponsible).
So he made mistakes but I don't feel it was over the top or super wrong to drink with an ex. She was his friend and he trusted her. Again, my tolerance levels are high and I would probably trust my spouse to stay within limits even if he had to share a room with an ex during riots. I agree there were lots of red flags which born smart Raghav blatantly ignored but despite that I don't hold him fully accountable. I know it's unfair to Pallavi and for that I want him to naak ragdo till he gets to realise his mistakes.
Again, like I told earlier, I was discussing with Soni and probably I would have forgiven my partner for a ONS in similar circumstances (drunk out of senses and hallucinates,, super guilty who came clean to me). It would take time to forget but I think I would just because I can see the guilt and the genuine repentance. Yes I don't have any self-respect and no I don't care being judged.