From Bondita point of view she does j of know arc is baruk and she is having her mind and her heart in a big turmoil where one hand she is seeing her husband behaviour with her not like before as a wife -like him being aloof with her and she is slowly getting distant from the person
Now as a wife Bon is perplexed but as a student to her shikshak babu and sakhi to her sakha babu the 2 relations that Bon held as a sign of respect to him is still there
A wife is perplexed and disappointed with her husband behaviour as right now anirudb is her husband and if our spouse behaves with us in different way then not everytime a perosn can know truth
Many people blamed Bondita does not love ani as even by touching batuk she does not get it
Ek baat batao mujhe the fee in g of touch is often brushed because her mind is seeing 2 situations one point ani as baruk showing hatred and another side baruk pretending to care and love her
So how can she decide which one is correct
Saying is easy but seeing ur loved one lookalike is different
Aagr bon ko sach pehle se pata hota it is batuk toh bhi ek point tak we could have seen her trying to see ani and baruk as different nahi hota
Like ash pointed out aagr bon batuk ko dekhti and uske ek close aati she could have attracted to him as it is biological process
So makers have brought such a beautiful concept of lookalike and u know guys for ani dridh Bondita their relation is gentle , and based on understanding as it is more of shikshak shishya and two sakha sakhi relation which. Choti Bon and anirudb carried out and that is why no misunderstandings,no fight and even no arguments can come between them and that ego clash
Bon trust on the man who did everything to get a woman educated and be indepdent is not of a wife or of a lover but on her shikshak like she said in precap and also on the feminist arc she looked up from childhood
And this is foundation of rudhita