Originally posted by: YoungHeart
I didn't like how beeji and gurpreet commented on Fatejo's kismat connection and rab ne banayi hai jodi, tutegi nahi..
Like pls stop fcking preaching this shit. I am sorry but if Fateh as a partner/husband is not able to love, care for Tejo, not able to be there with her 100%, if he's not able to stand by her and is always stuck with jasmine's drama, kismat connection and rab ne banayi jodi ka kya karenge.. achar dalenge?? Seriously like stfu.. esp now that Angad is in the picture, can they pls stop this nonsense. I am freaking tired. Fateh kept fast for jasmine, not Tejo, doesn't matter that he broke his fast with Tejo courtesy kismat 🤪
Tejo needs a real man who will stand by her, love her, care for her, take her pareshani away which Fateh will not be able to provide lets face it. Even if he has his redemption, whats the guarantee that jasmine wont be able to manipulate him again. Should Tejo always be in this uncertainty.
. Tejo cares for Fateh and loves him too i get it, but Fateh is not in the same league as Tejo.. at least before ema, he was somewhat worthy of her cuz of their bonding/friendship but not anymore. I want Tejo to realize she deserves better even if she is in love with Fateh, doesn't mean he deserves her.
the kismat connection thing was over the top, but if you consider the generation they represent, then it kinda makes sense. cause older generation doesnt think of relations the same as the younger generation these days. had this happened in my family, my dadi and the elders would have asked the couple to compromise, specially if kids were involved.
assuming somewhere tejo, fateh and jasmine exist:
what tejo needs is what she wants. whether it is fateh or someone else, or no one at all. that should be her decision. and if her decision goes wrong then that is on her.
even when she was marrying fateh she knew fateh loved jasmine. lets say that there was no ema, but life long fateh ould not love tejo the way she deserved, then?
just the way tejo chose marriage, she will choose what she wants.
ANd in real life, no one is there for anyone 100% of the time. This is life, things happen, stiuations change, relations change. even those who love each other a lot, sometimes do things which are not acceptable to the partner, but they are still together.
Life is not black and white, but exists between the shades of grey.