Well I've missed a lot of discussion about ITV shows, and how they portray relationships, and I'd say most of them get everything wrong about every aspect of everything.
First, sex is such a taboo, that it's ridiculous.Apparently men are seduced by the evil women while good women never seek it. They let the men initiate always, and apparently prior to wedding are completely asexual. Now, I don't even watch Anupama, but I saw a scene where Anuj is talking to anupama about his relationships, and I loved it. I loved how he's so respectful about his casual flings, one night stands, and that's the healthy attitude. Though I don't know when ITV will have the same perspective towards women.
Second, men being the ultimate morons generally. Honestly if they are such idiots then it really doesn't make any sense for them to go outside and work. They really use less brains than gopibahu and then pretend to be the 'man'.
Third, yeah, we get it, it's ITV. People love stupid drama, but can you make any head or tail of story? UD has f*cked common sense and story worse than Vlad the dracula screwed his victims. Someone explain me why could not they make jasfa a bit likeable if they're the endgame?