Originally posted by: laughingmonkey
I agree with every word you said. I agree with what you said
Them saying he is the worst husband and nobody deserves to be stuck with someone like him. đ¤ˇđťââď¸
I was watching the same yesterday. Raghav Rao, the one we saw in the first 50-55 episodes is now willingly washing someoneâs feet, someone that he also hates for someone who he has not fallen in love with yet. Compare that with how humiliating he knows this act is when he speaks of what his father had to go through. That act that he saw changed everything for him and he is ready to go through the same for Pallavi. And then heâs fighting with her for not letting him do thatđ Bewakoof hai yeh Aadmi. I swear Liyah. This is the same ghamandi rao who literally has the whole city at his feet. He wanted to do the unthinkable just to gain her forgiveness. He would have never gotten over this humiliation had she not come in time to stop him. How can you cancel Raghav like that I don't understand.
That crying scene soon after when Pallavi tells him that tum ban gaye ab meri priority. And that same night, he comes and cries because he was letting her go.
Bring that into perspective and you can understand why heâs terrified of telling the truth even though itâs utter foolishness to hide. And Pallaviâs hardcore dialogues are not helping either. Yes he's so scared because he knows he won't be able to survive this without her. He's so lost Liyah that I cry for him. I also cry for Pals but she's stronger than him. I know it's not her fault but she has to go through this pain. I really want Esha ka truth to be out soon so that her pain is lessened and Raghav's guilt too.
And he is never saying that he is right. He is not making excuses for it. Yes he didn't make any excuse and I like that about him. He just needs some courage to come clean. It's not easy to do that.
He himself knows that by hiding he is going to screw up his relationship because he wonât be able to face her. Even in todayâs convo with Keerthi, it was that hyper state where heâs grasping at straws to find a solution when he is seeing Pallavi in that state. Doesnât make it right but I can understand where he is coming from. I understand him too Liyah and that's why my heart breaks for them. Both aren't perfect but thne who is.
I sometimes wonder at what point will he give up and be ready for Pallavi to leave him. Because itâs only at that point, heâll tell the truth. He may never be able to give her up and that's why I feel she's going to know from someone else. Dig a little deeper hole you moron Raghav.
When he went to tell her earlier, he must have had some hope of her staying back even though he knew his truth would destroy her. But now, seeing all her reactions, he is sure that revelation of truth means losing Pallavi. So I wonder when will we finally give up on his relationship but canât betray Pallavi anymore? Because thatâs the day heâll tell the truth. Yes her extreme stance on cheating has thrown him off. But the situations are different. It's easy to take a moralistic stand when your life isn't at stake.
This eediot Aadmi has not realised that when it comes to Raghav, Pallavi has a whole different yardstick and I donât fault her for that. She clearly knows whatâs important for her. Her priority has not changed. Yes she compromised her morals in the idealogy track and I know she'll do it too this time. This isn't about self respect, this is about how much you can love a person who runs in your very blood.
Love doesnât make us perfect. It makes us want to be perfect. But we fall short. In a real relationship, the maximum power to hurt lies in the husband and wife - to hurt each other. Itâs not because thereâs no love. Itâs because you are that involved in each other that the slightest issue will look magnified. We are different people, with different ways of handling things, reactions, thought processes, so itâs gonna clash. We are not going to be understanding all the time. But what matters is what happens after that. Do we realise our mistake? Do we want to set it right? Can we keep aside our egos and apologise and accept apologies?
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