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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

OMG. Anindita you made my Sunday..thank you

Vankar definitely made our Sunday

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Don’t generalise by saying Ghum FD twitter. Just because some of them teamed up you can’t consider all against Neil. There are many Neil fans on twitter. His birthday trend is one of the most successful trends of twitter. So is the trend after his dance Muqabla. So many are calling them out for this nasty thing they did, you can’t just say Ghum FD.

And don’t compare other FDs . Not every one will behave the same way. No 3 show inner things are known to our twitter senior members and they are calling them out.

Lakshmi,

Mostly I see bashing when I go to twitter so I do not go there anymore. I was talking from MY experience on twitter.

I don't want to know about trends because I can also say that the 1 year of fierce Sai Joshi trend was done but why didn't anyone do a trend for 1 year of ACP Virat Chavan or something similar. If there was such a trend then I missed it.

Muqabla dance was a different time and this is a different time.

I am also free to express my opinion Lakshmi.

There is a reason why this happened on twitter and the divide amongst this FD is clear for everyone to see.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

This thread is mainly made for expressing views on GHKPM episodes since forum has become one sided and intolerant . As far as I remember Nitu and me discussed this aspect only before she opened the chat club. Yes there is no restriction to talk about other shows and you are doing it also.

Other than that Your comment that it should be named Neilsha AT or Sairat AT ,I consider unhealthy.

I don’t watch other shows. I talk only about GHKPM . Others are participating with you in your other show discussions. I think you shouldn’t have a problem since this is GHKPM forum first anything else next.

You might be bored of Sairat,I am not and may be others also but I talk only about me. So I can do my Sairat thing and you are free to discuss other shows.

When Neetu approached me, she said we could discuss everything and anything because this a chat thread in the chat club forum and not in the GHKPM forum. This is NOT the Ghum forum, I repeat. Its the Chat club forum.

That comment was a generalised comment Lakshmi. Other shows have ATs for their jodis. Why can't this be an AT? You are specifying that it is Ghum forum first and everything next. So why not make it clear that this thread might be in the CC forum but it's only a Ghum thread.

I gave my reason for being bored. I am not here to argue Lakshmi and I tend to not engage much in SaiRat discussions unless I am tagged or quoted for this reason.

I have also discussed this point with Nitu and so if this CC is only for Ghum first and everything else later then please make that clear so we are able to decide whether we want to remain here or leave.

Originally posted by: AninditaB

I want vishesh tippani of Social distancing managers 🤭

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1449638664233893889?t=-asKSE4M5PbwDPI5m3st6w&s=19

I have a vishesh tipni.

Social distancing managers on twitter be like " But Sai's head is tilted and there is a gap there and it looks awkward so no one is comfortable"

Originally posted by: Stardust91

When Neetu approached me, she said we could discuss everything and anything because this a chat thread in the chat club forum and not in the GHKPM forum. This is NOT the Ghum forum, I repeat. Its the Chat club forum.

That comment was a generalised comment Lakshmi. Other shows have ATs for their jodis. Why can't this be an AT? You are specifying that it is Ghum forum first and everything next. So why not make it clear that this thread might be in the CC forum but it's only a Ghum thread.

I gave my reason for being bored. I am not here to argue Lakshmi and I tend to not engage much in SaiRat discussions unless I am tagged or quoted for this reason.

I have also discussed this point with Nitu and so if this CC is only for Ghum first and everything else later then please make that clear so we are able to decide whether we want to remain here or leave.

I repeat when the idea happened I discussed with Nitu about only GHKPM thread and nothing else. The motivation happened and it came into existence. When it is a chat club the topic could be anything under the sun that can be discussed ..there won’t be restriction.And you are doing the same!

About AT there are Neilsha AT Sairat AT Neil AT Ayesha AT. So your comment about making it an AT for the leads won’t fit here. It won’t.

So you are conveniently avoiding the trend for his dance and taking only Ayeshu trend into consideration! Why! I didn’t understand. Even now so many Neil fans are there on twitter . They may not come on tag but they are devoted fans of him. They will rise up in defence of him when needed. Today also they did.

Request to you to stay away from Neilsha or Sairat pictures and information if you are not interested but don’t call this AT..

Nothing more to say..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

If you are not interested in chatting about Sairat or Ghum no one will force you to do so. I never tagged you since I know you are not interested in Sairat discussion or GHKPM discussion.

I repeat when the idea happened I discussed with Nitu about only GHKPM thread and nothing else. The motivation happened and it came into existence. When it is a chat club the topic could be anything under the sun that can be discussed ..there won’t be restriction.And you are doing the same!

About AT there are Neilsha AT Sairat AT Neil AT Ayesha AT. So your comment about making it an AT for the leads won’t fit here. It won’t.

So you are conveniently avoiding the trend for his dance and taking only Ayeshu trend into consideration! Why! I didn’t understand. Even now so many Neil fans are there on twitter . They may not come on tag but they are devoted fans of him. They will rise up in defence of him when needed. Today also they did.

Request to you to stay away from Neilsha or Sairat pictures and information if you are not interested but don’t call this AT..

Nothing more to say..

If you have noted my posts then you will see that I do talk about SaiRat and Ghum but it is limited because I am not liking the current story and I am not a crazy fan.

Lakshmi I have never ever tagged you in any of my posts because I have always felt from the first day that it is better if we do not interact much because I didn’t want to engage much, I am afraid. I also do not respond to.your posts and will continue to do that if I stay on this CC and I request that you do not tag me or engage with my posts. I am happy to continue chatting with others who I have things I common with. Even the NeilSha picture I just commented on was posted by Anandita and not by you.

When Muqabla happened, a LOT of things were different. There were a lot more people on Neil's side at that time compared to what there are now at this point of time. If you cannot see this then I don't even know what to say.

As for Nitu then I know that when I spoke to her, she told me this was a CC and I coukd talk about anything I wanted. Please go through my posts and see what I discuss with Fatema and Nitu if you wish. There are discuss about SaiRat and Ghum. I don't gush over them but I do express my opinions. If Nitu had specified that this was ONLY a Ghum discussion CC then I would have had my reservations.

When I said I was bored, I meant I was bored of the stretching and the last of realisation and introspection.

Also if you ask Nitu, I am on Neil's side and Virat's side. I don't know why you think I am not.

I used to think this CC was for everyone to express whatever they wanted freely. I was wrong.

Originally posted by: Stardust91

If you have noted my posts then you will see that I do talk about SaiRat and Ghum but it is limited because I am not liking the current story and I am not a crazy fan.

Lakshmi I have never ever tagged you in any of my posts because I have always felt from the first day that it is better if we do not interact much because I didn’t want to engage much, I am afraid. I also do not respond to.your posts and will continue to do that if I stay on this CC and I request that you do not tag me or engage with my posts. I am happy to continue chatting with others who I have things I common with. Even the NeilSha picture I just commented on was posted by Anandita and not by you.

When Muqabla happened, a LOT of things were different. There were a lot more people on Neil's side at that time compared to what there are now at this point of time. If you cannot see this then I don't even know what to say.

As for Nitu then I know that when I spoke to her, she told me this was a CC and I coukd talk about anything I wanted. Please go through my posts and see what I discuss with Fatema and Nitu if you wish. There are discuss about SaiRat and Ghum. I don't gush over them but I do express my opinions. If Nitu had specified that this was ONLY a Ghum discussion CC then I would have had my reservations.

When I said I was bored, I meant I was bored of the stretching and the last of realisation and introspection.

Also if you ask Nitu, I am on Neil's side and Virat's side. I don't know why you think I am not.

I used to think this CC was for everyone to express whatever they wanted freely. I was wrong.

I agree things changed on twitter and the reason is the just ended track that showed Neil in a bad light. Many chose to bash him and hate him but there are others who stood by him through out.

Separate trend did not happen because Neil fans are not particular about it and supported Sairat trend. Ayesha fans wanted to prove their supremacy since they are definitely large in number and could make the trend break the record.

I would have felt good if you explained why this should be called AT at all. Anyway..I rest my point. I objected only that comment and nothing else.

This thread never have any restrictions as per Nitu’s admission. So I don’t think you should have a problem anytime.

Neil fans are so innovative and friendly on twitter. This is how they engaged fans yesterday.

https://twitter.com/NeilBhattFans/status/1449578667538096129?s=20

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Again you are saying the same. Who restricted you to say your thing? I entered into discussion because you said this should be named Neilsha AT or Sairat AT. What made you comment so despite the fact that all the other members actively discussed with you on other shows apart from this show.

I agree things changed on twitter and the reason is the just ended track that showed Neil in a bad light. Many chose to bash him and hate him but there are others who stood by him through out.

Separate trend did not happen because Neil fans are not particular about it and supported Sairat trend. Ayesha fans wanted to prove their supremacy since they are definitely large in number and could make the trend break the record.

I would have felt good if you explained why this should be called AT at all. Anyway..I rest my point. I objected only that comment and nothing else.

This thread never have any restrictions as per Nitu’s admission. So I don’t think you should have a problem anytime.

Lakshmi, the reason I did not want to go into detail of why I think this should be called an AT is because I do not want to hurt your feelings. However, just a hint - you have made it clear that you aren't interested in anything other than SaiRat and NeilSha many times. However, when people are discussing other things does it make sense to always keep writing that. I get the point, Lakshmi. I got it the first time. Thats why I never tag you even in my NeilSha discussions. The conversation will eventually get back to NeilSha or SaiRat or Ghum but trying to redirect every conversation to them isn't always the best way to go about it. So when it keeps happening over and over, it gives the impression that nothing else is wanted here. Just something I have noticed but didn't want to say because I didn't want you to take it personally. If you want me to give examples, then there are examples from page 1. So if you are OK with others discussing other things then writing about how NeilSha and Ghum and SaiRat are all you care about seems like no other discussions will be tolerated.

All I am saying is it doesn't sound like anything else can be discussed because you always try and redirect the discussions so I get dejected and leave.

Neil might have fans on twitter but they are nothing like fans of other MLs. Let any other FD try bashing Shaheer and the Shaheer FD and ShaRica FD and any other FDs will come together and create havoc for the people who even bashed Shaheer. There is no unity in the Neil or SaiRat or NeilSha fans. None at all and that can be clearly seen.

Anyways as always, it might be best if we don't tag each other or respond to each other's posts.

I responded to Nitu's post about that picture where Neil was sitting on the road and then to Anandita's post. You engaged me and wanted a response so here it is.

We can all co-exist but I don't see the need to redirect conversations to NeilSha or SaiRat all the time because even inevitably when comparisons with Anuj or Raghav or Fateh happen, Virat is part of those conversations. If people gush over Anuj or Raghav doesn't mean it diminishes Virat. Perhaps those people aren't that attached to Virat so trying to say how Virat is still the best for you every time isn't fair. Not because you can't state that but because it comes across like Virat only should be appreciated.

I always find that characters are written by writers and different characters will have different qualities that can be accepted. Doesn't mean it diminishes the first character; just gives others the chance to appreciate qualities in other characters, which is the whole point of a CC according to me.

I would like to leave this discussion here because I have nothing more to add.

I have nothing personal against you but you seem to think I don’t like Neil or Virat. I might not spend hours gushing over him but he is the only reason I am watching this show or else I don't even need this CC.

Again, I hope you won't mind the honesty.

Not because you can't state that but because it comes across like Virat only should be appreciated.

Bold... Who am I to set rules here? If I again and again stressed that I watch Virat only or appreciate him only that indicates my present choice which should be taken as a separate post and not connected to anything You people discussed.

The comparison with Raghav happened on twitter that day and I posted my take on that there and reposted it here. So how could my twitter post be the cause of concern here?

Frankly speaking I don’t even read what you people are discussing about other shows since I don’t watch them. If I repeatedly said so it is to tell why I am not participating in any of those discussions not to prove anything.

Whether you love Virat or not none of my business. This is a stage for me to put forth my views on only GHKPM. I didn’t join here to talk about other shows..my choice.

Infact in Kuch Rang forum we used to have a separate thread to discuss episodes me,Nitu and others ,very few..people.

The idea is to have something like that and then this came into existence for specific reasons.

Re Direct conversation? When I am not at all a part of your conversation how could I redirect it?

Again you did not answer why you said this should be termed as AT. That too when I did not even meddle with anything you said or posted. I just posted Neilsha and Sairat pictures and your reaction is that it should be called AT? Any answer?

I think there is no use duscussing further. Have a good day.