Its the very first time shiva is relying on raavi.
I mean he has been the rock solid character always. He always had upper hand in this relationship as far as decisiveness is concerned.
But he is giving reigns to raavi without even knowing it. He is doing a lot of things without thinking too much. His dreams are a mixture of dominance and submission. In one of his dreams, he wanted to stop raavi. In another one he wants raavi to stop him. He has become a pendulum indeed. He is going to elope with raavi for sure as suman indeed wants him to marry dishu baby. He is gonna do exactly those things which he would never, had he not been love that too with raavi ofcourse.
He has not considered raavi second marriage. This particular thing contains such a triggering reaction due to shiva being shiva. He can actually kiss or say make out with raavi in hate, frustration of losing her to someone else. Raavi being jealous is cute, shiva being jealous will be anything but cute.
They really gonna be one hell of an iconic pair if writers dont phack up their story.