ASMB CC #4 STRICTLY I/O - Page 111

Originally posted by: Rdigest

I was ok with the episode yaar. I am forgetting all the past month just like the show characters🤣. Once in a while the scenes are coming back but I am pushing them aside and watching the episode🤣

That’s the only way to watch Ghum and retain our sanity👍🏼

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Omg.. ppl get notifications like that.. then guys.. I am so sorry I most often click on other’s profile by mistake.. 🙈

It happens to me all the time 🙈. I didn't know this angle.....that people would think I'm stalking them 🙊

Nethra another answer to your question. Please watch this clipping if you already haven’t 😂.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CU80iHYhoTl/?utm_medium=copy_link

Virat :

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Omg.. ppl get notifications like that.. then guys.. I am so sorry I most often click on other’s profile by mistake.. 🙈

They don’t get notifications but one can check their profile to see who visited their profile.

I too accidentally click on many people’s profile when I am on a page 😂🤦‍♀️.

Ayesha was fabulous! Neil suddenly raised his bar and how! Might be his best performance in the show till date. Both of them were too good today & yesterday.

How I wish this was not KD remake... sigh!

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ayesha was fabulous! Neil suddenly raised his bar and how! Might be his best performance in the show till date. Both of them were too good today & yesterday.

How I wish this was not KD remake... sigh!

The both of them were so good today, Sai with no dialogues and Virat was muahhh after a long time 😍. I liked Neil yesterday also, but today he was amazing👏

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ayesha was fabulous! Neil suddenly raised his bar and how! Might be his best performance in the show till date. Both of them were too good today & yesterday.

How I wish this was not KD remake... sigh!

I loved Ayesha’s performance and she looked cute too today. I am not too sure about Neil. I feel that he was being himself. His acting does go down once in a while and he also does OTT but it was in control today.

But there is one thing that I am still confused about his reaction. He has been acting like he is shocked when Sunny woke him up, then when Samrat tried to speak to him, then looking at the nurse and today at the nariyal pani too. What’s with that same reaction being given to all? To Sunny, I understand, but others and especially looking at nariyal paani too .

Answer to your how is your next statement. I am sorry to say but when he wants to perform, wants to show the craft 😂 that he has learnt in his 13+ years, he will do it.

Okay, so that’s enough of me being mean. It could be that he enjoyed the scene of him having to enact as both Virat and Kamal.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Ayesha was fabulous! Neil suddenly raised his bar and how! Might be his best performance in the show till date. Both of them were too good today & yesterday.

How I wish this was not KD remake... sigh!

I loved his expressions when he was trying to read Sai's expressions. He is capable of so much more than he has been doing.

I wonder how it would've been if Neil and Aishwarya were normal costars. I had to rewrite this sentence 10 times because I wish well for then as a couple and I don't want to sound obsessed with a show!

I feel he is trying to balance his professional and personal life, and if he drops the ball on one, the other gets affected.

I read a few posts where people said that at the core, Virat is a nice man. That both Sai & Virat lose their boundaries when it comes to each other - she with her words and him with his actions. But I am not able to look at it like that.

I understand that we cannot view things from our PoV since everyone's expectations, reactions in a relationship might be different. For example, my friend and her husband had a heated argument, he slapped her out of frustration. She slapped him back again and he started crying out of hurt 😆. A few hours later, they were fine. Also, SaiRat marriage is very unusual - there is no anchor to steady the ship when the sea is rocky. Many couple's relationship goes through a toxic phase - where they say mean things to each other, deliberately try to hurt the other person (verbally) and take pleasure when the other person sheds tears. But everything happens within the confines of their bedroom. There is never public humiliation, no crushing of self-respect involved. And definitely no ex or emotional connection with an ex. Sometimes, when a spouse is too emotionally attached to a friend of opposite gender, it can cause problems. They then learn to maintain boundaries.

For most part, Virat's self-absorption doesn't surprise me. I've seen a few emotionally disturbed people who are very very self-absorbed in a relationship. Nightmare for the partners but they stick around (for more than decades even) because the other person is essentially good at heart - the core is good. I'm beginning to even disbelieve that about Virat - that his core is good. I used to believe that he is in essence a good person (despite his huge flaws), he is not inherently selfish or egoistic (although he does gets bouts of both at times) or dishonest or shallow. But now I can no longer vouch for his character - his core. My mind is seeing all his previous behaviour in a negative light - I see him variously as a dishonest, shallow, selfish, patriarchal, manipulating person.

Tagging a few. Don't have to answer. I'm just venting. And no, I'm not analysing. 😆

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I read a few posts where people said that at the core, Virat is a nice man. That both Sai & Virat lose their boundaries when it comes to each other - she with her words and him with his actions. But I am not able to look at it like that.

I understand that we cannot view things from our PoV since everyone's expectations, reactions in a relationship might be different. For example, my friend and her husband had a heated argument, he slapped her out of frustration. She slapped him back again and he started crying out of hurt 😆. A few hours later, they were fine. Also, SaiRat marriage is very unusual - there is no anchor to steady the ship when the sea is rocky. Many couple's relationship goes through a toxic phase - where they say mean things to each other, deliberately try to hurt the other person (verbally) and take pleasure when the other person sheds tears. But everything happens within the confines of their bedroom. There is never public humiliation, no crushing of self-respect involved. And definitely no ex or emotional connection with an ex. Sometimes, when a spouse is too emotionally attached to a friend of opposite gender, it can cause problems. They then learn to maintain boundaries.

For most part, Virat's self-absorption doesn't surprise me. I've seen a few emotionally disturbed people who are very very self-absorbed in a relationship. Nightmare for the partners but they stick around (for more than decades even) because the other person is essentially good at heart - the core is good. I'm beginning to even disbelieve that about Virat - that his core is good. I used to believe that he is in essence a good person (despite his huge flaws), he is not inherently selfish or egoistic (although he does gets bouts of both at times) or dishonest or shallow. But now I can no longer vouch for his character - his core. My mind is seeing all his previous behaviour in a negative light - I see him variously as a dishonest, shallow, selfish, patriarchal, manipulating person.

Tagging a few. Don't have to answer. I'm just venting. And no, I'm not analysing. 😆

Forgot to tag you