No need to get pissed off!! We all knew the end. - Page 2

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

Kudos to you girl 😊

I am happy being single ☺️ no tention 😂

Originally posted by: sushups

I m single too ......was in an abusive n toxic marriage n now divorced

Great we should always be in environment where we can grow and be our best 🤗👍

Originally posted by: mithilalovesksg

Great we should always be in environment where we can grow and be our best 🤗👍

That's why this show triggers me so much sometimes.

She has friends to guide her n give her truth bombs ..I had none

Originally posted by: sushups

yup.....filhal grow toh dur ki baat hai ...I m still struggling with aftermath...healing my self .dealing with anxiety n depression ...it's not easy,I might not be the best now but I am atleast no longer suffering in that hell

That's why this show triggers me so much sometimes.

She has friends to guide her n give her truth bombs ..I had none

that is what the makers are trying to show ki is 26 year ki toxicity se bahar nikalane ke liye waqt lagega.

Originally posted by: JRocks

that is what the makers are trying to show ki is 26 year ki toxicity se bahar nikalane ke liye waqt lagega.

She is neither out of the toxic environment

Nor is she taking therapy

Upar se she is again subjected to insults n she is hurt everyday

How is she supposed to heal

N if makers r trying to say anuj....I m sorry but in reality it is never love intrest responsibility to heal the person...yes they can help by being a support system...but they can never heal u

I have heard this many times ,people tell me that beta let a new guy come into ur life he will heal u...such dangerous suggestion.... because in all this mess the new guy will end up breaking into pieces with no fault of his n there is no guarantee that his sacrifice will completely heal me ...

So if makers r trying to say anuj will heal anu....that is completely far from what is ground reality n a very wrong message

N if they r not trying to show this ....then question still remains the same how will she heal ....yes the healing takes a lot of time but only if the treatment starts without treatment it will only make the person more sick

Originally posted by: sushups

plzz makers r just creating drama....because u can never heal being in the same toxic environment which made u sick...

She is neither out of the toxic environment

Nor is she taking therapy

Upar se she is again subjected to insults n she is hurt everyday

How is she supposed to heal

N if makers r trying to say anuj....I m sorry but in reality it is never love intrest responsibility to heal the person...yes they can help by being a support system...but they can never heal u

I have heard this many times ,people tell me that beta let a new guy come into ur life he will heal u...such dangerous suggestion.... because in all this mess the new guy will end up breaking into pieces with no fault of his n there is no guarantee that his sacrifice will completely heal me ...

So if makers r trying to say anuj will heal anu....that is completely far from what is ground reality n a very wrong message

N if they r not trying to show this ....then question still remains the same how will she heal ....yes the healing takes a lot of time but only if the treatment starts without treatment it will only make the person more sick

Very very true! What they have shown is clearly impossible for human standards. I won't talk about new relationships in such cases that is far fetched dream - to be in a happy relationship.

Since when the victim hasn't even started the journey of healing. TBH, this is the topic they never even touched in this serial but they should have.

You don't magically forget all those years of trauma, I have read many saying that she got used it - that such vitcims can't find courage to do so.

May be she can get used that maid treatment but how you get used to cheating, heartbreak, that horrible betrayal. When your whole life just stares back at you like a big lie. How do you get over it?

And here, madam is making him a 'Friend' - like what couple of months after EMA revealed? In the same two months - that man threatened her, physically abused her, shamed and blamed her? Makers had made a big joke of this sensitive topic.

First she needs to start her journey of self healing and self loving to even talk normally to her abusers. And these makers - they are making them all live under same roof. Phir bolte he reallife issues cover kr rhe

Sush my friend ye dard heal hone mai time lagega but positivity ko mat chodna aur khud pe gussa mat nikalna

For Anupama wo itne bhayanak abusive environment mai 26 years se hai usko iss se heal hone mai bhi time lagega fir wo kuch aur soch sakti hai abhi wo Anuj ke pyaar ko kaise accept karegi? Possible hi nahi hai Anuj ne pehla kadam bharosa ka jata ye bhi bahot badi victory hai mai to 19 years ho gaye kisi pe bhi like lady pe bhi bharosa karne se darti hu...abusive relationship bahot genre ghav deta hai jise ye Saha hai wohi jante hai dubara bharosa kitna mushkil hai..

Yeah I dont know why people are disappointed. Anupama said 'Aaj ka quota khatam', didn't say lifetime ka quota. Next day the meter is reset to 0 na. Get set go. 😊

There was another show like this, actually 2. Jaane Kya Baat Huyi and Kuch Toh Log Kahenge. Just hope this show doesnt end with happy reunion of Vanar-raj and Anupama. 🤪

I do want Anupama to move out of this madhouse but not now.it would have been fine right after divorce or after Vanya's marriage. Now if she will move out now it will raise more questions about her character and Anuj(which I agree is not right or why should it matter). right now her main focus should be her partnership with Anuj and her dance Acadmey. she should stay in the house and give a befitting reply to Vanraj & Baa gang, and not succumb to their taunts. she can leave the house later after proving her mantel. If she will leave the house now it will look as if she is leaving because she got Anuj on her side.

Originally posted by: sushups

yup.....filhal grow toh dur ki baat hai ...I m still struggling with aftermath...healing my self .dealing with anxiety n depression ...it's not easy,I might not be the best now but I am atleast no longer suffering in that hell

That's why this show triggers me so much sometimes.

She has friends to guide her n give her truth bombs ..I had none

You have taken first step which is achknowleging the problem and accepting it that is also a big task in such things ya these things take time I hope you find peace and happiness soon. You have already started growing growth just don't mean monetory and professional growth that very short description it's to take steps towards yourself making yourself better happy and in peace . Hopefully you will achieve what you want take care .....