The Baby Games are on - Page 14

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If Adi was able to set boundaries with Malini at the right time, this mess wouldn’t be there to begin with. That’s his mistake, everyone agrees. But again, that still doesn’t mean he deserves rape and trauma like this 😕….he is a victim of a horrible situation here which no one deserves no matter what mistakes they have made in the past. Making the mistake of bigamy also doesn’t justify Malini raping and extracting a baby from him like this.

As for the divorce, no one will bring up divorce in such a situation, but that again does not mean Adi considers Malini his wife. He has again been coerced into silence because of the convoluted situation but he will still draw a line on the point of who he considers his wife - only Imlie. It was established a while back that the divorce is a technicality to him since he already considers Malini irrelevant in his life. She is the one who refuses to see how irrelevant she is to Adi no matter what she tries…..so it is not Imlie but Malini who will face long term humiliation hanging out in a house where she will never get the status of Adi’s wife. Adi-Imlie’s love for each other has already risen above the trappings of societal acceptance so they will prevail regardless. That is what Malini isn’t getting…so she can drag out her heinous schemes as long as she wants. She will ultimately be the other woman who is hanging around on a technicality but has no actual relationship with anyone.

AY I completely agree with your point that Malini is just hanging with Adi because of her dilusions. You have provided a broader and correct scenario which makers need to show viewers , but at least this type of simple monologues which u have written were missing currently when it comes to execution. As a viewer we should not imagine all , if it s the case it becomes fan fiction according to me. Makers should take some correct take at this point of story when they were handling this sensitive issue and I'm so sorry to say but in a very puke worthy and troll worthy way they were showing up. May be Adi - Imlie's talk in coming episodes may provide us exact insight , but till then it remains the same , cringy!(for me atleast)

I would also add that I don’t think Adi is being “normal” around Malini. The execution is a bit disjointed but I think the sense is being conveyed of Adi having repressed his trauma and trying to be STOIC about the whole situation.

He may not have been able to cut off from M totally but he no longer calls her “dost” or makes any extra effort to ask about her. His first reaction to anything she asks for is usually to recoil a bit or show reluctance before giving in over being coerced/guilt tripped over the baby.

He keeps looking for Imlie all the time as if that’s his only window to sanity but otherwise he looks quite miserable and suffocated. That sense is conveyed that this is all a nightmare for him and these “mild” reactions he is giving are his way of repressing the trauma of what was done to him vis a vis the drugging/raping cuz he doesn’t want to deal with that.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Of course it is not. And it’s not about a physical relationship…AM already had that before when Adi considered his marriage with M valid and they had a regular husband-wife relationship at that time. Simply being physical with someone is no reason to stay in a marriage.

The issue here is about consent. Adi no longer wants to have any relationship with M - physical or otherwise. On top of that she has drugged and raped him🤢….so why on earth should they stay “married on paper” over this technicality of a physical relationship being coerced like this? 😕

The baby is complicating things but bottom line remains that no marriage can stand without consent. That is why there is nothing for the AM marriage to exist over.

I am totally with you, that is what I was leading to 👌🏻

My question is for those who are ready to ship Adini now just because they spent a night and it result in a baby!

Adini done it before or not, it still a mystery 😂 but logically there were married for months so how that does not affect their divorce by then?

A lot of couples get divorce after 25+years with grownup kids!

So as kalini said once ( get REAL! )

Originally posted by: HappyChamper

AY I completely agree with your point that Malini is just hanging with Adi because of her dilusions. You have provided a broader and correct scenario which makers need to show viewers , but at least this type of simple monologues which u have written were missing currently when it comes to execution. As a viewer we should not imagine all , if it s the case it becomes fan fiction according to me. Makers should take some correct take at this point of story when they were handling this sensitive issue and I'm so sorry to say but in a very puke worthy and troll worthy way they were showing up. May be Adi - Imlie's talk in coming episodes may provide us exact insight , but till then it remains the same , cringy!(for me atleast)

I don’t personally feel I’m imagining things ….this is my deduction based on what’s shown in the epis only. It is factual that Adi has shown Imlie to still be his priority and he has constantly reiterated M’s irrelevancy in his life….

The execution of this track being messy is something to take up with the makers. My point was simply about asking why Adi is being blamed when he is the victim of rape here. Baaki him trying to find normalcy with Imlie is also not that far fetched given that people process trauma in different ways and this seems to be the way Adi and Imlie do it. I’m not happy with all the scenes either and would prefer that Imlie isn’t shown doing comedy with Rapist Malini🤔….but in the larger scheme of things, I still feel the core of Adi-Imlie is holding so I disagree with those blaming Adi right now for everything. He was wrong to delete the video and Imlie is expressing that to him. But I don’t agree with people blaming Adi for wanting to talk to Imlie at this point. Why is he not allowed to talk to his own wife? 😕

Originally posted by: AreYaar

If Adi was able to set boundaries with Malini at the right time, this mess wouldn’t be there to begin with. That’s his mistake, everyone agrees. But again, that still doesn’t mean he deserves rape and trauma like this 😕….he is a victim of a horrible situation here which no one deserves no matter what mistakes they have made in the past. Making the mistake of bigamy also doesn’t justify Malini raping and extracting a baby from him like this.

As for the divorce, no one will bring up divorce in such a situation, but that again does not mean Adi considers Malini his wife. He has again been coerced into silence because of the convoluted situation but he will still draw a line on the point of who he considers his wife - only Imlie. It was established a while back that the divorce is a technicality to him since he already considers Malini irrelevant in his life. She is the one who refuses to see how irrelevant she is to Adi no matter what she tries…..so it is not Imlie but Malini who will face long term humiliation hanging out in a house where she will never get the status of Adi’s wife. Adi-Imlie’s love for each other has already risen above the trappings of societal acceptance so they will prevail regardless. That is what Malini isn’t getting…so she can drag out her heinous schemes as long as she wants. She will ultimately be the other woman who is hanging around on a technicality but has no actual relationship with anyone.

@bold is the core and thus Imlie staying there is not going to hit her self respect but till Imlie is there Malini is not going to get any right... she is just going to hang around while family talk about Baby and Imlie... as we see 2 factors are only prevailing.. Malini is just tagging here as baccha kee maa.. Iski Izzat ker kaun raha hai.. People like PT Nishu and Rupi are openly insulting her indirectly directly and she is listening shamelessly... she can keep planning and can get chita chota win by getting regular insult which is coming as people are openly ignoring her.

I really hate Radha and BK for talking so friendly to M the other day after knowing what she did.. Appu is not being shown talking to M these days... but we don't know on that front.

Originally posted by: Guiltyo0o

I am totally with you, that is what I was leading to 👌🏻

My question is for those who are ready to ship Adini now just because they spent a night and it result in a baby!

Adini done it before or not, it still a mystery 😂 but logically there were married for months so how that does not affect their divorce by then?

A lot of couples get divorce after 25+years with grownup kids!

So as kalini said once ( get REAL! )

Lol at people wanting to ship Adini over this 😆….if that’s the childish understanding people want to operate on regarding marriage, that’s their choice 🤷‍♀️

But a marriage doesn’t hinge on a physical relationship…by that logic people would be married to everyone they date, no? 😕

AM already had a physical relationship before so that’s hardly the “red line” here as far as I’m concerned. Imlie already knew that marriage had been consummated too and she still doesn’t see that as something to hold against Adi because he showed commitment and loyalty to the marriage he believed in at a given point.

What they are trying to show currently is that Malini tried to force a physical relationship with Adi against his will to portray as if he “betrayed” Imlie but it got proven that he didn’t and infact he was raped by Malini. So he is a victim here…and the physical act being forced on him hardly is cause to claim that this means he’s “spoilt goods” for Imlie now 😕😆….

They’ve made it all unnecessarily gross and cringe by going this route of the rape but the physical relationship angle is not some new thing to claim AM got physical only now 😕….Adi has been committed to Imlie from the moment he realized his love for her. Malini is the one trying to translate her lust into license for marriage again 🤔.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I didn’t get the sense that Adi has some plan 😆….he just wants to talk to Imlie without interruptions and distractions around them. He’s feeling that emotional distance between them and he wants to repair it.

Baaki yeah he may just repeat his usual points about M’s fragile emotional and mental state also making him avoid confronting her…but that’s a long shot. Makers want to avoid discussing this topic in detail as of now I guess. Adi will likely only keep talking about the baby and reiterate that he sees no future for himself without Imlie. He probably wants to talk to Imlie about how to plan their future beyond the complication of this baby.

Jab tak clear nahi hota kyali pulao banane me kya jata hai...😆 but i am actually on the zone of No expectation

Originally posted by: GaramTawa

I will be least surprised that Rapist Didi can fall to such lows if the pregnancy is real, but I’m still unable to believe that the writers can indeed plan to go this route🤢

If it’s real I’m conflicted on what this means in terms of Adi-Imlie…on the one hand the writers went to such pains to show that SM was watching that night and Imlie’s vishwaas that SM wouldn’t let anything bad happen to Adi….and SM has guided her through terrorists and cliffs to save Adi and literally resuscitate him..toh yeh kaise? yeh toh horrible and heinous crime hai bhai....for a show that centred on Imlie’s vishwaas and how SM sambhaaloes everything, Im finding it hard to believe....on the other hand, this is literal BLACKEST OF THE BLACK keechad…and if its true then despite ALL of this Adi-Imlie still survive and thrive…Imlie’s wholeheartedly accepting the kid is stems from her love for Adi only....like she said the kid is precious because it’s connected to Adi..and Adi yes he isn’t using his dimaag, yes he broke Imlie’s trust in impulse by deleting the evidence..…but still any focus or attention he can muster from his current state is only to do with Imlie..Imlie ko kaise manaaye..kaise uski smile waapis laaye…..these two will always and in any circumstance find a way back to each other even with the ugliest of forces trying to rip them apart....and it’s really something else to witness that despite EVERYTHING they go back to hum...humaara rishta....bas❤️

TRP wise I don’t watch much ITV but she’s not the typical vamp? As in the story requires she’s forever there as an eternal ghost of ours and Adi-Imlie’s life….so if true and after pardafaash how so ever will the writers justify her presence on the screen for an additional second lol…..the last time the TRP audience gave their verdict on their “sympathy” by bestowing the lowest TRPs when she was playing dress-up suicide drowning in a pool of her blood…and now the writers expect that they’ll tolerate her roaming around with ZERO accountability for rape and most likely a deliberate miscarriage..LOL OKAY

Guess end mein what am I saying is hum abhi bhi sadme mein hain and humein thos saboot chahiye before believing the pregnancy is real😆

PS - Apologies MM and RD for the wrong posts in the written updates thread on what I gravely misheard lol..…lagta hai kuch real ho ya fake..Im really turning deaf🤔

I honestly think the writers themselves don’t know what to do with Didi post pardafash.. or even the whole c family ? Well dev will try to ghuasso in as the sperm doner resulting in imlie.. cos as a father he is an insult.. what big big lines they give him that he will support imlie , he bought her a flat , he will giver her her rights.. rubbish.. what was the point of tainting imlie by calling her his daughter on front page news? .. bakhwas…

That could be why they are dragging it .. they still thinking what to do with those three hero’s 🤔

Originally posted by: tellyme

Beautifully put👏. and so much agree to the points you have put here.

@bold is the core and thus Imlie staying there is not going to hit her self respect but till Imlie is there Malini is not going to get any right... she is just going to hang around while family talk about Baby and Imlie... as we see 2 factors are only prevailing.. Malini is just tagging here as baccha kee maa.. Iski Izzat ker kaun raha hai.. People like PT Nishu and Rupi are openly insulting her indirectly directly and she is listening shamelessly... she can keep planning and can get chita chota win by getting regular insult which is coming as people are openly ignoring her.

I really hate Radha and BK for talking so friendly to M the other day after knowing what she did.. Appu is not being shown talking to M these days... but we don't know on that front.

Exactly. That theme is being shown emerging pretty consistently these days. Malini is shamelessly hanging around their lives with the tag of bacche ki Maa but they are all still going about their normal lives talking more about Imlie and the baby..,,only time M is brought up is like an obligation or a bojh.

She is only solidifying her title as a pity project in the house and if she’s too delusional to get that, it’s her problem 🤷‍♀️. Again, point is when Imlie had the emotional strength to give away her husband and see him with another woman before, she has the emotional strength to prevail in this situation also and Adi bhi iska haath thaam ke sab paar kar lega. Malini will be the one left standing alone wanting attention but not having any real status or relationship in that house even after all this 🤷‍♀️

And the rate at which her impatience with the “inconvenient baby” is increasing, she won’t have that very long to use too. So she will be back to begging to stay in T house over “fragile health” but still won’t be able to get Adi in anyway 🤷‍♀️…..dragging this out will only drag out her own beizzati in proving her irrelevancy over and over again. The family will still respect and sympathize more with Imlie. And Adi will always love only Imlie 🤷‍♀️

Even I feel there is no plan from Adi’s side. he just want to tell the same rinse and repeat dialogues. There is no need to worry now as there is only 2 options left. Either it is Malini’s truth coming out or Adi and Imlie’s much waited long separation. The maximum they can go uto

300 or they want to complete one year anniversary and will give a beautiful Adi Imlie’s separation or reunion.