Originally posted by: Rollingdeep
unpopular opinion so read with caution;
For me.. I think that the build up has started …I know some ppl are not happy that apu told imlie to build her place in the baby life but I thought it made sense… she knows imlie won’t leave so feeling her to leave is no use plus I feel apu has accepted Imlie place in adI life and she also knows her son is struggling right now.. she is not saying Didi should not be punished :. The fact that apu didn’t push Didi out herself is also wrong but this is apy lately:, : I think that day will come but she is also telling imlie not to let herself be pushed out of her husbands life. Why imlie should sacrifice for Didi so apu is finding Didi despicable .. Do I want to see imlie journey as a woman of strength ? Yes I do. But it’s proven these two cannot live without each other. TheIr dreams soar or fail with or without each other’. Apu like mithi in her own way is asking imlie to now fight back, I know ppl will bash me for this comparison and what apu did is really despicable and she will pay so don’t bash cos I agree apu is just beyond words and she is in no way like mitti and I don’t know if she can ever be redeemed .. but this is in context of what she said today to imlie.., of course the fact that everyone is ignoring that the woman who sexually assaulted their son is calmly walking around like a queen and giving birth to their heir., for that they need to pay a heavy price for not standing by their true dil and throwing out the scum that is Didi .. but let’s focus on adi and imlie. These two will put up a United fight now for the child and Didi will really get irritated and close her own game
I think they might start making it more obvious this week on.. dusshera will be the dhamaka .. I don’t think Didi wining streak will continue unchallenged for next two weeks … I hope no NDe cos the pregnancy has to be addressed and they really need to have a good promo soon and hype this up .. last week trp I am concerned has dipped further but position is a big concern.. so they need to build for next two weeks now
How many more epi till 300? 20 plus? I think dusshera will be the dhamaka .. it’s symbolic.
I agree with you this is going to be unpopular opinion but like your perspective I believe the wheel has been set in motion for Maline flaws to be revealed. I think a few weeks ago Aps mentioned this well in her post these two were always opposite in there ideals as one walked a path of faith and the other approaches his stances through the eye of logic.
Today when we view the episodes from the abuse to the pregnancy reveal one can home in on the hope they are trying to home in on. Imlie is upset because he has not come to her and talked through the decision to delete the video and in reality he has also not explained why he feels he needs to take responsibility of the child. She wants to understand why he did what he did and that has to be communicated. She sees him in pain and knows he wounded within. She has dealt a with these insecurities al her life because she was a child born without a father and the stigma that comes with it.
I can see why she supported Aditya but I also see her wishing that in all he wanted him to come and talk with her. So they could have taken the decision of how to move forward together. He knows she has been punished by him as he has pushed her out without realising that is one of worst things he could have done.
Just because he has taken the liberty of looking after the welfare of the child and the woman whom carries it doesn’t mean it doesn’t remind him of all the abuse he has been through. Emotionally one can see he can longer be the friend he was to Maline before this event happened. He is distant and he walking on eggshells when around her and only stops when she takes the name of the baby. The simple fact that he cannot have a conversation with his own mother or family shows of that struggle. There are many rape victims that give birth to a child and raise them. Some struggle to love them and some struggle to tell them how they came about. Imlie offering the child a home with a complete family was to protect the child from that stigma and something that a lot of viewers failed to see was also Aditya stand. In a way they both have supported the other in this decision and mutually came to this path on there own.
But that doesn’t mean that the burden of this truth ends here and that is what aparna tried to home on on imlie. She offered her a way back to her son and help her find her hope to clear his confusion to then support him as he needs both physically and mentally and we can see that when he tells imlie he misses her and them. In a way she is trying to clear the toxic path that is being laid by anu and Maline because if we see the family never has said that they believe there are innocent. Since that day she has not gone to Maline and sad she is innocent of the harm she has caused her son. The guilt in aparna has homed in because of the fact that her son has seen yen truth and learned of the faul play that has happened. She knows the family has been a victim by both of them but is not willing to own in on it.
The acceptance of her toward imlie is a start to the change of mind that will happen in the family as Mithi said before filth on the outside can be cleaned but one that lays within cannot be washed away. The truth can never be hidden for too long. The fact that each of imlie statements on Maline were handed across without proof made of hard for the family to believe. For them to accept they have to see the act happen or self and accept it then for what it is. Imlie case when ever something goes wrong they are there and see it happen.
Aditya said it well imlie when it comes to making her decision moving forward will have to take the logical approach then rather one of the heart and this is what aparna told her in a round about way as well. She ha started to see what we see in imlie and will surely tell Maline of her flaws when the time comes.
So as imlie has started today she will have to voice out her concerns, worries and hurt and support for him as the event happen rather then deal with them on her own and come to him at a later date. He has to do the same on return.
As for Aditya he knows the choice of imlie staying is the love she holds for him and the faith she carries in them. This is why she was hurt when he didn’t come because in a way she hoped he would and he knew she would be waiting too. That is why his eyes were looking for her because his mind was not at peace.
He is still struggling with this internally a battle of how the fulfil both his responsibilities of a son, friend, husband and becoming a father to a child he was not planning to have as of yet. Aditya knows he needs to have these conversations but how he approaches these is the denial he needs to cross and when he has to then he will be able to make the choices he needs for himself and them. With this baby he is not denying he is a victim he is just trying to move forward as he did when Maline played the suicide card. He will need to make hard choices.
That is the battle I feel he will win in the end because he will be set free and the truth shall allow him to redeem whom he was and become whole again.