Originally posted by: fria319
Sigh 😔 I wish I could tell you people don’t forget. But they do. You have to. Life is long. Relationships can be for lifetimes.
That’s what love and commitment does to someone. It’s one thing when these fights happen pre marriage, it’s another happens it happens post. The need/drive/desire to make a relationship work IMO is much stronger when you’ve made that commitment to someone.
If there was no love between them - that’s when people tend to give up on their relationship or when that love becomes tainted. Even the things you don’t think you’d tolerate pre marriage, once you’re in that bond with someone - you’ll see yourself being a lot more forgiving than you ever thought.
This is exactly why Pallavi is so lenient with him. When you find that person, you’re going to want to push through all the bad to keep that person bc being without them is worse.
Trust me , I’ve counseled friends [all my friends come to me for relationship advice. I’ve even thought about running my own podcast 🤣] who’ve found out their so had secret love child. They’re still making their relationship work. Because despite the hurt he caused my friend, the hurt of having to live life without him was worse. She owed it to herself to try and make it work again.
Pallavi by nature is already very forgiving. I would not expect her to hold a grudge against the love her life. Be mad, upset, sad, disappointed- yes.
Edit : thank you for coming to my Ted talk everyone. 🤣
Also just want to say obviously people have different tolerances. Just trying to explain why people who love each other go back to each other even when the whole world may think they shouldn’t.