I want anupama in some trendy clothes - Page 6

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Shivao2 stop moral polcing me. I Dont need ur permission whar to talk or not e so keep ur moral polcing to ur self

excuse me if it appeared like I am moral policing you. I was just stating the rules of forum in turn to avoid getting this thread closed.

Of course you dont need anyone's permission to talk.

Afterall we celebrated 75th independance day this year

Yes u r moral polcing me

I m from Lucknow up .

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I want her these looks in show .

I beg to differ here. On one side, you are saying that you are progressive but on the other hand you are wanting her to change her looks just to show her so called progressive nature and to make vanraj jealous.

Should'nt clothes be more about comfort and personal choice, more than just blindly following the fashion?

And comparing her dressing sense with your maids is taking matters a notch too far.

Cotton sarees are worn by many people in government jobs or otherwise as well. Doesn't mean that they aren't progressive or still stuck in age-old norms. Maybe they find it comfortable just like some find leggings, shorts, suits, jeans, etc as comfortable.

Simplicity is also elegance.

If Anupaama was wearing her night dresses or pyajamas to office, I would have still understood because different occassions ask for an unspoken dress code. But sarees are just as formal as trousers or coats.

Plus, exploring is also a personal choice. You dont find a character relatable or like the character only by the dress they wear, but from their behaviour and attitude.

Some people love dressing up in all kinds of dresses, some just believe in basic and simple clothing. Neither is wrong. Its all about personal choice.

I don't think we will see Anu in more western looks cause that's not her style...altho just one epi I'd like to see her in fusion wear

My understanding is that Rupali herself doesn't want to change the characters look much...she wants to keep the character in saris which is fine

Just would like to see Anu is a more 'business' sari look as she is a partner now. Rakhi also wears saris but hers are styled so well for a rich upper class woman

Anu was a middle class houswife so I get why her character was styled the way it was but this no longer applies to her

As audience we keep getting the impression that Anu dresses the way she does to please her inlaws...constantly looking for their approval. Her outfit / clothing is also a way to show the character as modest because she is a divorcee & now embarking on a new career as a single woman, who hopefully will get a second chance at love. So writers are keeping her appearance as traditional as possible to offset any negativity...it's obvious when she gives the whole jeans vs sari bhashan then looks at Baapu ji for approval by talking about sanskruti. I got the impression that Anu feels that if left her hair open or didn't cover herself in a sari she would be seen as woman who is immoral (like Kavya) or someone who is less sanskari. She dresses to approve and appease her family more than herself

Originally posted by: Shake_d_spear

I m from Lucknow up .

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I want her these looks in show .

Anu can do hair half up & down here n there or have the side swept pony. Both are very pretty & classy
The green sari is nice but don’t think we will see Anu explore new dressing styles or looks

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I don't think we will see Anu in more western looks cause that's not her style...altho just one epi I'd like to see her in fusion wear

My understanding is that Rupali herself doesn't want to change the characters look much...she wants to keep the character in saris which is fine

Just would like to see Anu is a more 'business' sari look as she is a partner now. Rakhi also wears saris but hers are styled so well for a rich upper class woman

Anu was a middle class houswife so I get why her character was styled the way it was but this no longer applies to her

As audience we keep getting the impression that Anu dresses the way she does to please her inlaws...constantly looking for their approval. Her outfit / clothing is also a way to show the character as modest because she is a divorcee & now embarking on a new career as a single woman, who hopefully will get a second chance at love. So writers are keeping her appearance as traditional as possible to offset any negativity...it's obvious when she gives the whole jeans vs sari bhashan then looks at Baapu ji for approval by talking about sanskruti. I got the impression that Anu feels that if left her hair open or didn't cover herself in a sari she would be seen as woman who is immoral (like Kavya) or someone who is less sanskari. She dresses to approve and appease her family more than herself

@bold : Exactly! I got the same impression when she gives bhashan on saree then looks at baapuji for approval ! I feel like these people/family has moulded her psychology in a way that sanskari people are only those who never evolves in life with time in anything from mind, look to career everything!

The way she looked at Bapuji for approval, it looks like she dresses to approve and appease shah family !

25 saal Leela type regressive mother in law ke sath rehne ke baad I can understand psychology aise mould ho sakti hai!

In precap seems like regressive Leela showed her fake concern about anupama’s security! Jab uska beta and nayi bahu itne saal resort main rasleela karne jate the tab toh Leela ko kisi security ka khayal tak nahi aya !

Free ki maid ek din ke liye mumbai ja rahi hai hai yeh dekh kar Leela ke toh josh he udd gaye hai! 😆

Yup I agree she needs wardrobe change.

About being her personal choice, bachpan se shadi tak toh saree nahi hi paheni hogi. I am sure most women starts after they get married. So it is more of a culture influence and as years pass by it is translated to habit.

And sarees also have lots of variety as like any other clothing.

Agree with abhilasha jub tuk koi ache kapde ka dikhava na karein aur jub tuk woh stylish na ho yeh na dikhaye ki mere paas yrh yrh kapde hai woh progessve nahin hai?.

If see pic of old poetess and female politician kiinhone kaun sa designer saree pehni . Kaun sa make over kiya.sub intelligent they yet simple.all these beieve in simple Living and high thinking Yeh sub apne kaam ki wajah se yaad kiye jaaye hai na ki kapdon ki wajah se

Is tarah anupama ka character bhi anupama ki character wajah se yaad kiya jaayega na ki uske kapde ki wajah se

Originally posted by: piyu008

Yup I agree she needs wardrobe change.

About being her personal choice, bachpan se shadi tak toh saree nahi hi paheni hogi. I am sure most women starts after they get married. So it is more of a culture influence and as years pass by it is translated to habit.

And sarees also have lots of variety as like any other clothing.

Totally agree! In anupama’s case it is more of culture influence which is translated to habit as years pass!

Lol the way she took approval of Bapuji , I knew it she is people pleasure personality or should I say specifically “Shah family pleasure “ personality!

You have correctly pointed out about personal choice that bachpan se shaddi tak toh saree nahi pehnaya hogi ! 😆😆 It’s like aurat bachpan se shaddi tak he evolve hoti hai and shaddi ke baad kisi family ki representative bann kar cultural influence vise comfort zone fix kar diya jata hai! 😆

It’s all about evolving and regressive mind sets mostly kuve ke mendak jaise hote hai ! Inka kuva he inka comfort zone bhi hota hai and sanskar parameter bhi kuve ke hisab se he decide hote hai ! 😆

Yesterday poor TM’s post was diverted in the direction of fancy cloths, jeans , tops , off shoulder, cold shoulder, expensive clothes etc ! That was never about any show off stuffs .