What does the hand holding mean to Sai? - Page 7

The hand holding came on top of the anniversary yoga teacher meeting and Virat’s changed attitude. Sai thinks Virat isn’t happy to see Samrat back with Pakhi, at the cafe she doesn’t know it was Pakhi holding onto Virats hands.

She should have accepted Virat’s account of the cafe meeting to the family but that would lessen the drama that needs to be built up. She also sees through Pakhi’s act of happiness with Samrat which Virat is oblivious to, think it all adds up for her 🥺

Originally posted by: _charu_

This...prioritize..does he really prioritize pakhi over sai? I don't think so..that's why I wrote that pakhi strokes his ego and he enjoys it coz he wants to win against sai , sometimes frustrate her or instigate her to speak the truth that she is affected . I may be wrong though.

I couldn't find better words to describe virat supporting pakhi or not being able to take a stand for sai ..or even prioritize.. he intends to do none but he ends up speaking in favour of pakhi coz sai is talking against him. I am not talking abt the past coz in the past he supported pakhi over sai ..

I agree with the rest of the post completely 👏

I agree that he sides with Pakhi to get back to Sai. But the truth is that it is not always because he wants Sai to instigate her to speak the truth but it is also because when he is hurt, he can side with anyone who is against Sai.

I see what you mean when you feel that he isn’t prioritising Pakhi over Sai. But from whatever has happened so far, I have come to a conclusion or should I say it looks like Virat is more protective about Pakhi than even Sai. If you look at the episode where these three were taking when Pakhi had come to their room to gift them kurta and saree, Virat didn’t like Sai speaking against Pakhi at all. He always jumps to correct or stop Sai from talking against Pakhi but we have never seen him doing that for Sai even when Sai and him don’t have any issues between them. Even when things were going on fine, if Sai talks against Pakhi, Virat would jump to protect Pakhi and also would ask Sai to not speak anything against her. It hasn’t just been about their relationship, anything that Sai speaks against Pakhi, I have found Virat to be doing it. His protective instinct, care and concern for Pakhi has always been high. It could be because Pakhi has always boosted his ego. It could be because she has always been nice to him. It could be that he feels sorry for Pakhi. It could also be that he feels that Sai can stand up for herself but not Pakhi. Whatever it is, his care for Pakhi doesn’t seem right to me. In the latest fire drama that Pakhi did, Samrat was there to protect her and Virat was as usual lost in his own misery. Didn’t he stop Mohit from speaking against Pakhi during ousting too? Anyway, just my observations and I have started to feel this more so recently. I will be happy if I am proved wrong.

ANNIVERSARY TRIP

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Sai was taught about new

Definition of chemistry

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Sai blasts Virat at the anniversary venue which hurts virat

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Samrat was found by sai and he gives. more details about the 2 days love story

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Sai blasts Virat again & V asks her stay away from his matter and promises her to show another side of him 👇

samrat confronts Virat wants to divorce P

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V overhears S talking to Samrat that she never can love V because it's deal marriage

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V gets fever and declares about his transfer

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Sai takes care of V wanted him to stay home

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Sai goes to coffee shop finds two BFF holding hands. 👇

V reveals the family about their meeting & tells they are JUST FRIENDS 👇

S asks about their Hand holding but no answers

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Sai goes to cancel transfer saying her hubby is mentaly and physically unfit

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Janmashthami pooja happens S gets flowers as boon. 👇

V eavesdrops Sai talking to Shivani and Sunny and learns about his transfer cancellation

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ZA Sai is confronted by all including The BFF

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BFF presents Saree for S which she denies and both friends joins hands insulting her

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Sai denies to attend pooja but dutiful husband locks her forcefully. 👇

Sai escapes through the window and V is blasted by Samrat. 👇

Sai applies for transfer and comes back to CN then she is again confronted by all especially BFF and Samrat blasts all. 👇

SaiRat fights and S asks him about the hand holding but V doesn't say anything

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BFF invites SaiRat for breakfast but comments about their sleeping arrangements.

Originally posted by: Shaome

ANNIVERSARY TRIP

👇

Sai was taught about new

Definition of chemistry

👇

Sai blasts Virat at the anniversary venue which hurts virat

👇

Samrat was found by sai and he gives. more details about the 2 days love story

👇

Sai blasts Virat again & V asks her stay away from his matter and promises her to show another side of him 👇

samrat confronts Virat wants to divorce P

👇

V overhears S talking to Samrat that she never can love V because it's deal marriage

👇

V gets fever and declares about his transfer

👇

Sai takes care of V wanted him to stay home

👇

Sai goes to coffee shop finds two BFF holding hands. 👇

V reveals the family about their meeting & tells they are JUST FRIENDS 👇

S asks about their Hand holding but no answers

👇

Sai goes to cancel transfer saying her hubby is mentaly and physically unfit

👇

Janmashthami pooja happens S gets flowers as boon. 👇

V eavesdrops Sai talking to Shivani and Sunny and learns about his transfer cancellation

👇

ZA Sai is confronted by all including The BFF

👇

BFF presents Saree for S which she denies and both friends joins hands insulting her

👇

Sai denies to attend pooja but dutiful husband locks her forcefully. 👇

Sai escapes through the window and V is blasted by Samrat. 👇

Sai applies for transfer and comes back to CN then she is again confronted by all especially BFF and Samrat blasts all. 👇

SaiRat fights and S asks him about the hand holding but V doesn't say anything

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BFF invites SaiRat for breakfast but comments about their sleeping arrangements.

flow chart of how MU can happen 👏

Originally posted by: laksh

Sai is so disturbed by the coffee meet, the hand holding and is not even able to stop herself from bringing it. Why?

She is fighting with him because she has never imagined he would do that. She thinks he might have feelings for Pakhi but wouldn’t have imagined them to be this close that they will hold hands so comfortably. That is why she keeps bringing it up.

“Aapke dil mein Pakhi Didi hain”, “aap apne dil mein dabake rakhthe hain”, she says these so often which shows that she has been thinking it all to be his wish but really never expected him to show it out by meeting her outside the house, in a cafe and also by letting himself to hold her hands to comfort her. She has thought that he has always buried his feelings in his heart, never imagined it would be shown by him this way.

She has never imagined or thought that they could be physically close in some way. She has always thought that he is a guy with morals and wouldn’t cross his lines/limits but this incident has disturbed her. She is not able to accept that Virat would do it since this means that they can be this close too and she is not even able to imagine it.

That is why she is making a big deal about it from my understanding.

To her, this meet is like Virat has finally accepted that he too has feelings for Pakhi. This all has happened only after Samrat returned. So she has assumed that after Samrat had returned, Virat couldn’t even control whatever he has kept buried within him so long and he met Pakhi outside the house. It is as if this time he couldn’t even stop himself from comforting her by holding her hands which she has never seen him doing before or never imagined he would ever do. It is as if Virat had finally brought out his feelings without stopping himself. That is how Sai perceive it as and that is why it is bothering her so much that she keeps bringing it often.

Beautiful Laksh🤩.

I completely agree and this is the 1st instance infact she isn't willing to let go and Virat isn't clarifying anything other than saying you are understanding it all wrong. If he would have explained I am sure she would be still upset but would have eventually let it go like all the other past things and Harini birthday party incident.

This reminds me of her conversation with Samrat where she was quick to clear to Samrat that Virat has always maintained his distance from Pakhi and the very next day she had to witness this . Can't imagine what she must have felt and Virat dismissing it like it was just friends holding hands was bothering her further. And to top it all she also sees Pakhi is pretending to make Virat jealous and Virat is mad at her. She is attributing all these incidents to what she has seen from day 1 of marriage and I don't blame her entirely. The onus is on Virat since he was so clear during the wedding but never has he been that clear that he has nothing to do with Pakhi anymore.

Cant end without this😆, dialogues of both Sai and Virat have been supremely irritating and I feel like kicking the daylights out of them 🧘‍♀️🤣

Originally posted by: _charu_

If its honesty...Cafe truth is not the only truth .....Howcome sai judge that pakhi is pretending to be happy with samrat ? when pakhi started shouting virat virat instead of samrat samrat in dahi handi. Toh sai must share this with virat and samrat ? Sai saw pakhi looking at virat during pooja , not anyone else..she can also do the honors and share everything wth samrat. Her senses work perfectly fine with pakhi but not with virat ? 😆 the best judge that she is , of right and wrong , she must be able to judge virat correctly.

Sai noticed it on the day Pakhi looked at Virat while asking Samrat to take her for shopping to try to make Virat feel jealous.

I am talking mainly between the couple. If Virat wants her to stop thinking that he has something for Pakhi, he should come clean about his past and also be honest with whatever happened in the cafe. Sai can share this with Virat but isn’t she already doing it? She has been trying to tell why she doesn’t want to attend the Pooja and so many times, even yesterday that Pakhi is only pretending to be happy. The problem is that she will not be believed and I think that is why she didn’t tell him what she noticed. Of course the fight is another reason I think because of which these are not spoken.

Virat asked her to stay out of his family matters? May be that is why she didn’t talk to Samrat about this.

The old Sai who didn’t develop feelings for Virat would have just gone and told Samrat but now after seeing his changed behaviour, I don’t think she even thinks it is her place to share it with Samrat. Also, is it her place to tell Samrat when she knows that Virat is hiding the truth about Pakhi? She wants Virat to disclose it to Samrat.

Her senses work with Pakhi because Pakhi’s intentions aren’t hidden from her after she moved to CN. Virat had already told her that he has a past, she could see an underlying current between the two from the start and she also heard their conversation at the terrace. Pakhi has always showed her love for Virat openly and she heard it from her at the pool too. She noticed Pakhi eyeing Virat as if she wants to make him jealous.

Sai has noticed Virat looking at her, she has been noticing his advances towards her, the care he has shown for her, the liberty he was giving her when he was at the hospital but after the pool incident, she her confusion started. She herself said that she had forgotten, that’s why she moved close to him. Then she wanted answers from him. It is not like she didn’t let him in her life but she took steps back only because of what she heard near the pool. The last straw was the trip where he shared some stupid story and the yoga instructor’s words which Virat didn’t even refute. She asked him questions which he failed to answer. Even though I want her to try to listen to what Virat says and think about it than dismissing it off , I do understand why she keeps getting confused or why she is failing to accept that there is nothing between him and Pakhi. Virat also messes up things.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Maybe she thinks if Pakhi is able to manipulate him, he must have some residual feeling that he himself is not admitting to.

What you said about her scolding him as a wife, it reminded me of the other night, when she asked what was the need to go to their room that late at night?? After that she did say he is going to repent it.

If he saw things from her perspective .. especially about Pakhi, he should be able to see that their behaviour would look odd to a third person..like her friends at the coffee shop.

I actually liked today's episode. Virat showed his displeasure at Pakhi's insinuations. But he is so maddeningly polite to her, I feel like shaking him.

That is the problem with Virat. He doesn’t really think that it wouldn’t look good or right if he behaves or moves with Pakhi in a few ways. Why can’t he think before going to Pakhi’s room that late in the night? Why can’t he think he just cannot enter their room like that? When will he learn to stay in limits? When will he realise that he can’t act friendly with her after knowing her intentions, after hearing whatever she spoke at the cafe.

You first paragraph - Yes. Isn’t it true? If he has soft corner for Pakhi like this, if he keeps melting whenever Pakhi cries, how is Sai supposed to understand it as? As emotional kissa, like how she had said. One can’t blame her for her to be thinking this way because Virat makes her feel this way, he feeds such thoughts into her by not drawing lines with Pakhi. When Samrat can see how the two team up, when he had told Pakhi not to try to look for Virat in him, wouldn’t Sai feel that Virat us trying to look for Pakhi in her?

He is definitely too polite to Pakhi for my liking. This has getting too much now.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

she will see the other side when something moves her mental block aside. Virat leaving her will move it! Till then she will not realize it.

This anyway means that she would do her part but Virat will fail to do his part.

Originally posted by: laksh

This anyway means that she would do her part but Virat will fail to do his part.

Yes..I think Virat decided to not come clean at this point. He gave up. 😭

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes..I think Virat decided to not come clean at this point. He gave up. 😭

Only if he can come out of his misery or should I say his self pity mode will he be able to do anything else right? It is not just that he has given up, he can’t look at things from others perspective and hence he hasn’t tried to come clean too.