Just followed through bits of your conversation (totally not creepy š) and you both have such wonderful take on love and romance. Media and pop culture does play a part in giving us that larger than life notion of what ideal love is 'supposed to look like' but it's so relative isn't it? What's a lovely gesture to someone could be completely meaningless to someone else. I know years back I used to be the 'give me flowers' kind of person but now I'm simply the 'give me plants and things that have some actual use' kind of person. I guess life does that to you lol. It does contradict the traditional view of romance in so many ways but if someone loves me/has feelings or even cares for me, he should be able to read my actions not necessarily just my words.