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Posted: 4 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion



Virat, oh boy, stop fighting with your wife in front of that woman who enjoys your fights.
Don't entertain her. 🥱 Sai is brattish, she likes the things to go her way, she loves drama... but she doesn't deserve such rudeness in front of that Pattarlekha. 😳


One thing I liked about what Virat said was Sai shouldn't interfere in family matters if she doesn't consider herself a family member. 👏 She can't become a bahu and then a no one according to her wishes and mood. 😳



Ditto ! She can't call herself an outsider and very next moment fight for samrats cause and call it "farz". Just decide lady !



Virat is full of shit and so is pakhi. 🤢 I dunno why they don't get together, thy r so made for each other. This is the hindi version..unite virat and pakhi , show something different 😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: nutmeg7

True. It works both ways. If you cannot touch a woman without her consent, it should be same for men also.

Yes,true. But, this beizzatilekha will never understand.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17


At this point I feel like virat could do pakhi's literal beizzati over her hovering over him and trying to get close to him, and the woman still won't sudharo her cheap antics and just cry beizzati. The amount of shows I've seen where a male lead has been drugged by vamp to sleep with him, vamp trying to get close and touchy with male lead and it not being addressed as harassment is infuriating.


No wonder people don't take sexual assault and sexual abuse against men and young boys seriously; movies and tv shows display such acts but don't address it as sexual harassment.


But at the same time the serials don't show the men voicing their discomfort and calling out vamps for such antics. That's why Virat at least needs to call pakhi out for this and tell her he finds her such behaviour very inappropriate to at least call it out to this cheap woman's attention that he can see what she is doing and he does not find it acceptable.

Very true. There are many shows where the vamp has tried to drug the male lead to seduce him and then blaming him for raping her. But, noone adresses it as sexual harassment. And, the worst part is they are forced to accept such women.

Maroon - Yes, Virat should voice out her behaviour.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion


We have seen Virat jerking away his hands, shoulder, entire body in anger whenever she tried to touch him. But now it's not enough anymore because Pakhi is besharam. She doesn't take this as discomfortable. So Virat needs to speak up. Tell her that she has to stop touching him.

Yes, you're right. Sometimes when actions don't work we have to use some other means to show the person their correct place. Virat has to speak up loud and clear instead of jerking her hand or pushing her away.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Yes, you're right. Sometimes when actions don't work we have to use some other means to show the person their correct place. Virat has to speak up loud and clear instead of jerking her hand or pushing her away.

You are right but I doubt it will have an effect on her . In the hospital and when she tried touching him when he was asleep on the sofa he asked her to stay away and be in her limits but it didn’t have much effect . Yesterday he should have confronted her and should have threatened to call Samrat if this happens in future . I think he is scared to make it public because he feels no one will trust him and might make him the scapegoat. When Samrat came back , he was angry on Virat but he was normal with Pakhi which makes me feel she will walk away with sympathy while he will be crucified
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

You are right but I doubt it will have an effect on her . In the hospital and when she tried touching him when he was asleep on the sofa he asked her to stay away and be in her limits but it didn’t have much effect . Yesterday he should have confronted her and should have threatened to call Samrat if this happens in future . I think he is scared to make it public because he feels no one will trust him and might make him the scapegoat. When Samrat came back , he was angry on Virat but he was normal with Pakhi which makes me feel she will walk away with sympathy while he will be crucified

Forget Samrat even Sai doesn't trust him. So, I guess this is the reason he might not be voicing out the truth. The fact is people will immediately believe a woman's words because usually they are the victims. Here, Virat is the victim and the culprit is Paapilekha but, still the family will stand by Paapilekha and not Virat.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Forget Samrat even Sai doesn't trust him. So, I guess this is the reason he might not be voicing out the truth. The fact is people will immediately believe a woman's words because usually they are the victims. Here, Virat is the victim and the culprit is Paapilekha but, still the family will stand by Paapilekha and not Virat.

That’s so true that’s why men are hesitant to open up that they are harassed . The judgment will be passed that he might have led her so he deserves it . Will they say the same thing when a women is involved .


I don’t think anyone in the family tries to understand him including his mom . Openly confronting her will create more issues in the family and Samrat might walk away blaming Virat and Sai will not support him either . It’s his loss . If there a women involved there would be huge uproar

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

That’s so true that’s why men are hesitant to open up that they are harassed . The judgment will be passed that he might have led her so he deserves it . Will they say the same thing when a women is involved .


I don’t think anyone in the family tries to understand him including his mom . Openly confronting her will create more issues in the family and Samrat might walk away blaming Virat and Sai will not support him either . It’s his loss . If there a women involved there would be huge uproar

That's the sad part. A man inspite of being innocent can't prove his innocence and a woman who not being innocent can be easily proved a victim. He's cornered from everywhere.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

That's the sad part. A man inspite of being innocent can't prove his innocence and a woman who not being innocent can be easily proved a victim. He's cornered from everywhere.

That’s the sad reality of today’s society . We call ourselves progressive but the fact is that man abuse is ignored . Virat is a victim of abuse but he will be blamed at the end of the day . Seeing all this I feel Virat decision was right . Getting transfer was the right thing but he doesn’t even have the rights to make decisions related to his career .
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

That’s the sad reality of today’s society . We call ourselves progressive but the fact is that man abuse is ignored . Virat is a victim of abuse but he will be blamed at the end of the day . Seeing all this I feel Virat decision was right . Getting transfer was the right thing but he doesn’t even have the rights to make decisions related to his career .

Yes and his anger, his frustration and his behaviour is also justified. When your own wife doesn't care about your feelings, always doubts you how is a man supposed to behave? There's a limit for everything. Why do we always expect a man to have patience and not a woman? Why this double standards? If Sai had not interfered he would have got his transfer but Sai had to interfere and stopped his transfer. Now, he has to bear the consequences.

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