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Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Contact the police lol

I live in West Bengal, Kolkata maroon,😆

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

I live in West Bengal, Kolkata maroon,😆

Do you want me top contact the police ? Blink once for no and twice for yes lol

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Once a guy was following me and the look I gave him, he mouthed “ I’m sorry” and ran away 🤣

omg, what is with Indian men? Why are they so weird?! 🤣 I had a stalker in college who used to follow me around. Once he convinced my friend to let him come inside our apartment. Valentines day was coming up so he introduces himself and 5 minutes later asks me to go to a Valentines Day party with him. I didn't want to be mean so I declined and said I had too much work and would be too tired. Next day he finds a way to get inside our apt again with my friend and wait for it...brings me a bottle of ginseng and says it's for energy since I feel so tired. 🤪This is the 2nd time I had ever seen his face.

After that he started following me around campus. I come out of class - there he is. I eat in the cafeteria - there he is. He would stand there and smile as I was was supposed to be thrilled he was there. He did this for a whole YEAR. I knew he was a harmless fool so I didn't report it or anything. But Indian guys seriously deserve the bad reputation they have. 🤣

Originally posted by: hotchoco

omg, what is with Indian men? Why are they so weird?! 🤣 I had a stalker in college who used to follow me around. Once he convinced my friend to let him come inside our apartment. Valentines day was coming up so he introduces himself and 5 minutes later asks me to go to a Valentines Day party with him. I didn't want to be mean so I declined and said I had too much work and would be too tired. Next day he finds a way to get inside our apt again with my friend and wait for it...brings me a bottle of ginseng and says it's for energy since I feel so tired. 🤪This is the 2nd time I had ever seen his face.

After that he started following me around campus. I come out of class - there he is. I eat in the cafeteria - there he is. He would stand there and smile as I was was supposed to be thrilled he was there. He did this for a whole YEAR. I knew he was a harmless fool so I didn't report it or anything. But Indian guys seriously deserve the bad reputation they have. 🤣

well...go on. Was it Indian ginseng or Chinese ginseng ?

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

lmao WTF!!!

The whole thing was so funny that I didn't know how to react. We had some mutual friends even though we didn't know each other. So he would ask various friends if they needed rides as an excuse to visit my apartment. He would drop them off and use it as an excuse to come inside. They started taking advantage of it and would tell him I'm going to be in various places and they were using that to be driven around all over the city. It must have been the first time that a stalker was being taken advantage of. 🤣

I still don't know what he thought he was going to get out of following me around. In that whole year, I must have talked to him for 10 minutes in total. 99% of his time was wasted on hanging out with my friends to try to track me down.

Indian guys need social skills badly.

Originally posted by: hotchoco

The whole thing was so funny that I didn't know how to react. We had some mutual friends even though we didn't know each other. So he would ask various friends if they needed rides as an excuse to visit my apartment. He would drop them off and use it as an excuse to come inside. They started taking advantage of it and would tell him I'm going to be in various places and they were using that to be driven around all over the city. It must have been the first time that a stalker was being taken advantage of. 🤣

I still don't know what he thought he was going to get out of following me around. In that whole year, I must have talked to him for 10 minutes in total. 99% of his time was wasted on hanging out with my friends to try to track me down.

Indian guys need social skills badly.

This reminded me of another incident.. but I don’t know the nationality of the guy - some middle eastern country for sure though.

I was in school at the time, was going back home and this guy gets inside the lift with me. Total stranger.

Guy: Hello

Me: hello

Guy: will you do friendship with me.

Me: Huh, what?

Guy: pls

Me: what?

Guy:pls be my friend

The lift opens, I’m leaving and he suddenly holds my wrist and starts begging.. l get a a bit scared… I push him and runaway.

To this day, I never take the lift if there are only guys inside … yikes

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

The lift opens, I’m leaving and he suddenly holds my wrist and starts begging.. l get a a bit scared… I push him and runaway.

To this day, I never take the lift if there are only guys inside … yikes

That is so scary. Omg.

Thankfully, all the weirdos I've met were just funny and not actually harmful.

Originally posted by: Chameli_billi

well...go on. Was it Indian ginseng or Chinese ginseng ?

lmao. You think I took the bottle? 😭

I would like to know what "wrong signals" you THINK you're giving out.

I'll say if it's just a regular guy friend or classmate, turn him down nicely the first time.

Second time if he tries to flirt, tell him off sternly.

Third time just block him out of your life.

Also don't feel guilty. Take it in a positive way that everyone loves you.😆

As for stalkers, they just need to be reported to the police.

Not that it concerns me, but why don't you think of dating any of the guys proposing you?

Originally posted by: hotchoco

The whole thing was so funny that I didn't know how to react. We had some mutual friends even though we didn't know each other. So he would ask various friends if they needed rides as an excuse to visit my apartment. He would drop them off and use it as an excuse to come inside. They started taking advantage of it and would tell him I'm going to be in various places and they were using that to be driven around all over the city. It must have been the first time that a stalker was being taken advantage of. 🤣

I still don't know what he thought he was going to get out of following me around. In that whole year, I must have talked to him for 10 minutes in total. 99% of his time was wasted on hanging out with my friends to try to track me down.

Indian guys need social skills badly.

lmao, I give up trying to understand the logic 😆

All of these stories are reminding me of this video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPqjNdt7yFI

Yahan toh ulta hi hai. Mujhpe toh koi ghaas hi nahi daalta. Kaash main bhi tumhari tarah itni khoobsurat hoti. Tum kitni khush naseeb ho yaar.