Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #85|Farq Nahi Padta - Page 92

Originally posted by: manny136

This happens in all shows across channels even when couple is divorcing the gal never removes them till the last minute lol its like hold on to last hope to save marriage lol only when it's a plot point do they mention it otherwise no one questions it unless to create drama or cause reflection. Ps is following typical itv writing nothing new here.

Atleast once they can be different and show something new. Nope! It’s the same regressive shit😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Then what was the need for the dialogue and the scene where she will remove his nishani😕 again I blame bad writing.

I dunno why thy copied flying sindoor from a flop show..like , yahi scene mila copy karne ko🤢 Removing nishani won't make her unmarried...I hate this abt itv heroines..they fight , they argue , they leave their husband, even for the most shitty men they continue to wear mangalsutra and when someone asks them to remove it they are like ..hein🙄what me why how🤢 tumhe pata nai mangalsutra hota kya hai🤪

Originally posted by: mpks1

Then what was the need for the dialogue and the scene where she will remove his nishani😕 again I blame bad writing.

Yes...inconsistent writing...none of the characters really follow what they say..look at dhara..within hrs she changed her plan to break all relation with shiva..minutes after she said she won't advice him ever she started advising again..😆..not just dhara. Literally everyone in pandya family dnt follow what they preach .🤪

Originally posted by: _charu_

I dunno why thy copied flying sindoor from a flop show..like , yahi scene mila copy karne ko🤢 Removing nishani won't make her unmarried...I hate this abt itv heroines..they fight , they argue , they leave their husband, even for the most shitty men they continue to wear mangalsutra and when someone asks them to remove it they are like ..hein🙄what me why how🤢 tumhe pata nai mangalsutra hota kya hai🤪

Agreed! When two people don’t want to be together, these nishanis will not help at any cost, In real life it doesn’t happen like this.

If only Raavi didn’t wear her sindoor until they got back together I would have really liked. It is like sending a message that nishanis are important for her when the marriage truly works based on love and happiness.

But the writers pea sized brain doesn’t work like that😕

Originally posted by: _charu_

She may not apologize per se but I am sure these things will automatically change with shivas good behavior.... She will evolve on her own. While Shiva needs a proper redemption and major realization ..about everything literally 🤯

My dearest forum member.

When u see fault on one side what else can anyone say?

She needs to change her own behaviour too just like he does. If he apologises she needs to apologise too. To move forward with a clean slate the past atrocities from both the sides need to be erased. Balance is important in a relationship. And an apology cause no wounds..,

I have always been taught that in a storm the tree which stays straight and refuse to bow, breaks. And the grass that adjusts tides over. Just like that in a marriage, adjustments r necessary from both the ends.

As much as hurt she has received, that much hurt she has leashed out. Erasing it only for her while he works on his own self after apology is too heartless.

Why does her change need to depend on his? She needs her own realisation where she sees her fault as clearly as his.

His insecurity isn’t her fault but both their heartbreaks are each other’s fault.

When u see faults on one side, try to search fault on the others too. To see the picture clearly. When u give benefits of doubt to one try it with the others too. Because otherwise the picture is incomplete.

For me, I hope the apology from both the ends and erase the misgivings of the past from both the ends.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Agreed! When two people don’t want to be together, these nishanis will not help at any cost, In real life it doesn’t happen like this.

If only Raavi didn’t wear her sindoor until they hit back together I would have really liked. It is like sending a message that nishanis are important for her when the marriage truly works based on love and happiness.

But the writers pea sized brain doesn’t work like that😕

But that would anger trp people.. trust me..they may go thru anything , but show her opting out of sindoor becz she doesn't value it when the marrg has no value right now..done for them..they might promote banning the show..😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

Agreed! When two people don’t want to be together, these nishanis will not help at any cost, In real life it doesn’t happen like this.

If only Raavi didn’t wear her sindoor until they got back together I would have really liked. It is like sending a message that nishanis are important for her when the marriage truly works based on love and happiness.

But the writers pea sized brain doesn’t work like that😕

This is ITV land lol maybe mami will be take it off shiva and his marriage symbols don't matter blah blah and raavi is reluctant all of a sudden or she does take them off and shiva has an accident lol raavi hears about it and freaks out lol this is the plot point these marriage symbols can be used for lol they only matter to hit the point that these two are destiny blah blah lol it's the case in every show lol

Originally posted by: deeps07

But that would anger trp people.. trust me..they may go thru anything , but show her opting out of sindoor becz she doesn't value it when the marrg has no value right now..done for them..they might promote banning the show..😆

Can you please who these TRP audience are, would like to smack their heads? No wonder there is still marital abuse, regressive behavior and women are still suppressed in India.

Don’t ask me if it’s not in the Western World, yes it is but Women have the guts to leave the marriage and they move forward with life. I myself have couple of Single mom friends, White Americans raising the kids on their own with just visitation rights and some child support from their exes. They couldn’t be happier. The first thing both took of as soon as divorce was filed were their wedding rings and the actual divorce actually took another 6 months to be finalized.

at the moment i hate Dhara mata her hubby Dev ND KRISH as well as Ravi ,i think Shiva have to move out of this house and concentrate on him self and Ravi only loves the Pandya family let her live happily with them as a servant .

Originally posted by: manny136

This is ITV land lol maybe mami will be take it off shiva and his marriage symbols don't matter blah blah and raavi is reluctant all of a sudden or she does take them off and shiva has an accident lol raavi hears about it and freaks out lol this is the plot point these marriage symbols can be used for lol they only matter to hit the point that these two are destiny blah blah lol it's the case in every show lol

Now you are giving more ideas to the writers to stretch this damn thing😕