Barrister Babau Episode Discussion Thread - Page 43

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So makers were extremely careful about how they handled this pre-leap due to wanting to avoid any controversies, but there were three scenes jisme the fact that there was something, or the beginnings of something there was highlighted.

1. The scene where Ani gifts Bon the mirror (Epi 212): It is a short scene, but the crux there is that Bon has dressed up for Ani (she specifically asks 'Mai achhi lag rahi hu aapko?') and he notices. There are two shots where he is looking at her when she preens in the mirror and he is lost. He comes back to reality when she childishly says that 'aap bahut bahut achhe hai'. He is reminded that she is a child and he suddenly feels conscious and runs out.
2. The inkpot scene (Epi 253): This is the most obvious scene pre-leap. Both Ani and Bon were hyperaware of each other. Each eyelock, each contact was felt. I can't describe this scene, better to see it only.
3. Padosi Babu (Epi 269): In this scene the awareness is purely from Bon's side. Bon is in a sadu mood because she is afraid that she will never see Ani again. But she is surprised to see Ani still there. She first pinches herself to check that she isn't dreaming and immediately extends her hands to make contact, probably hug him. However, yahan pe she doesn't do so, instead she blushes and looks away.

The progression here is that Bon was a beautiful child who would grow into an attractive woman. There were ample men who lusted after her at age 12. Ani too was attracted, but what set him apart was his moral compass, which clearly told him that any physical relationship with a child Bon was wrong. So throughout the Mano track he tried to push those feelings away by convincing himself that Bon was a zimmedari and that he loved Mano. Then after pahadi (Epi 222) Ani tried pushing Bon away and put some distance between them. He truly came to terms with it by the end of the Mano track, where he acknowledged that there are feelings but that he wasn't going to act on them till Bon was older and ready for it. So in the entire time between Mano's exit and Bon going to London, Ani kept any 'romance' strictly age-appropriate for Bon, and actually kept Bon in the driver's seat giving her all possible opportunities to choose her own path if she wanted to.

This was why I wasn't surprised that Ani realised his 'love' so fast. Because for Ani it was a foregone conclusion that man-woman waala love was definitely going to happen when Bon became a woman. It was just the last piece of the puzzle for him.

@Saffi I have tagged you for your insights.

Excellent explation....I loved it to the core.....you write so lucidity....can you please elaborate on the present intense love which Ani feels for Bondita....I am often curious by some dualogues which undermine an almost dangerous passion which Ani has for her....if possible pls do write what you feel about the present track

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So makers were extremely careful about how they handled this pre-leap due to wanting to avoid any controversies, but there were three scenes jisme the fact that there was something, or the beginnings of something there was highlighted.

1. The scene where Ani gifts Bon the mirror (Epi 212): It is a short scene, but the crux there is that Bon has dressed up for Ani (she specifically asks 'Mai achhi lag rahi hu aapko?') and he notices. There are two shots where he is looking at her when she preens in the mirror and he is lost. He comes back to reality when she childishly says that 'aap bahut bahut achhe hai'. He is reminded that she is a child and he suddenly feels conscious and runs out.
2. The inkpot scene (Epi 253): This is the most obvious scene pre-leap. Both Ani and Bon were hyperaware of each other. Each eyelock, each contact was felt. I can't describe this scene, better to see it only.
3. Padosi Babu (Epi 269): In this scene the awareness is purely from Bon's side. Bon is in a sadu mood because she is afraid that she will never see Ani again. But she is surprised to see Ani still there. She first pinches herself to check that she isn't dreaming and immediately extends her hands to make contact, probably hug him. However, yahan pe she doesn't do so, instead she blushes and looks away.

The progression here is that Bon was a beautiful child who would grow into an attractive woman. There were ample men who lusted after her at age 12. Ani too was attracted, but what set him apart was his moral compass, which clearly told him that any physical relationship with a child Bon was wrong. So throughout the Mano track he tried to push those feelings away by convincing himself that Bon was a zimmedari and that he loved Mano. Then after pahadi (Epi 222) Ani tried pushing Bon away and put some distance between them. He truly came to terms with it by the end of the Mano track, where he acknowledged that there are feelings but that he wasn't going to act on them till Bon was older and ready for it. So in the entire time between Mano's exit and Bon going to London, Ani kept any 'romance' strictly age-appropriate for Bon, and actually kept Bon in the driver's seat giving her all possible opportunities to choose her own path if she wanted to.

This was why I wasn't surprised that Ani realised his 'love' so fast. Because for Ani it was a foregone conclusion that man-woman waala love was definitely going to happen when Bon became a woman. It was just the last piece of the puzzle for him.

@Saffi I have tagged you for your insights.

Superb explanation I also thought anirudh was already attracted towards her as a women the reason why he didn't wanted to meet her because he knows he will romantically fall for her somehow

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So makers were extremely careful about how they handled this pre-leap due to wanting to avoid any controversies, but there were three scenes jisme the fact that there was something, or the beginnings of something there was highlighted.

1. The scene where Ani gifts Bon the mirror (Epi 212): It is a short scene, but the crux there is that Bon has dressed up for Ani (she specifically asks 'Mai achhi lag rahi hu aapko?') and he notices. There are two shots where he is looking at her when she preens in the mirror and he is lost. He comes back to reality when she childishly says that 'aap bahut bahut achhe hai'. He is reminded that she is a child and he suddenly feels conscious and runs out.
2. The inkpot scene (Epi 253): This is the most obvious scene pre-leap. Both Ani and Bon were hyperaware of each other. Each eyelock, each contact was felt. I can't describe this scene, better to see it only.
3. Padosi Babu (Epi 269): In this scene the awareness is purely from Bon's side. Bon is in a sadu mood because she is afraid that she will never see Ani again. But she is surprised to see Ani still there. She first pinches herself to check that she isn't dreaming and immediately extends her hands to make contact, probably hug him. However, yahan pe she doesn't do so, instead she blushes and looks away.

The progression here is that Bon was a beautiful child who would grow into an attractive woman. There were ample men who lusted after her at age 12. Ani too was attracted, but what set him apart was his moral compass, which clearly told him that any physical relationship with a child Bon was wrong. So throughout the Mano track he tried to push those feelings away by convincing himself that Bon was a zimmedari and that he loved Mano. Then after pahadi (Epi 222) Ani tried pushing Bon away and put some distance between them. He truly came to terms with it by the end of the Mano track, where he acknowledged that there are feelings but that he wasn't going to act on them till Bon was older and ready for it. So in the entire time between Mano's exit and Bon going to London, Ani kept any 'romance' strictly age-appropriate for Bon, and actually kept Bon in the driver's seat giving her all possible opportunities to choose her own path if she wanted to.

This was why I wasn't surprised that Ani realised his 'love' so fast. Because for Ani it was a foregone conclusion that man-woman waala love was definitely going to happen when Bon became a woman. It was just the last piece of the puzzle for him.

@Saffi I have tagged you for your insights.

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

🤣🤣🤣

Kya mast dhoye tune Pravi ko mujhe laga pehle acha aisa hai....fir pata chala tu keh kar le rahi hai....🤣

Sach mein kya Feku hai yeh....🤣

Mochee Babu....🤣🤣

Par Rin tu kya bolu.....Love u re...❤️

Prabhu ki leela aprampaar!

I love you too Ginni! 🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Unnatiiii_17

Mere Jiju ko accha ni lagega ye🤣🤣

Hum samjha denge.. unko ek aur mahaan vyakti ka example deke... understanding hona chahiye waise 😳

Originally posted by: Ashley_m

So makers were extremely careful about how they handled this pre-leap due to wanting to avoid any controversies, but there were three scenes jisme the fact that there was something, or the beginnings of something there was highlighted.

1. The scene where Ani gifts Bon the mirror (Epi 212): It is a short scene, but the crux there is that Bon has dressed up for Ani (she specifically asks 'Mai achhi lag rahi hu aapko?') and he notices. There are two shots where he is looking at her when she preens in the mirror and he is lost. He comes back to reality when she childishly says that 'aap bahut bahut achhe hai'. He is reminded that she is a child and he suddenly feels conscious and runs out.
2. The inkpot scene (Epi 253): This is the most obvious scene pre-leap. Both Ani and Bon were hyperaware of each other. Each eyelock, each contact was felt. I can't describe this scene, better to see it only.
3. Padosi Babu (Epi 269): In this scene the awareness is purely from Bon's side. Bon is in a sadu mood because she is afraid that she will never see Ani again. But she is surprised to see Ani still there. She first pinches herself to check that she isn't dreaming and immediately extends her hands to make contact, probably hug him. However, yahan pe she doesn't do so, instead she blushes and looks away.

The progression here is that Bon was a beautiful child who would grow into an attractive woman. There were ample men who lusted after her at age 12. Ani too was attracted, but what set him apart was his moral compass, which clearly told him that any physical relationship with a child Bon was wrong. So throughout the Mano track he tried to push those feelings away by convincing himself that Bon was a zimmedari and that he loved Mano. Then after pahadi (Epi 222) Ani tried pushing Bon away and put some distance between them. He truly came to terms with it by the end of the Mano track, where he acknowledged that there are feelings but that he wasn't going to act on them till Bon was older and ready for it. So in the entire time between Mano's exit and Bon going to London, Ani kept any 'romance' strictly age-appropriate for Bon, and actually kept Bon in the driver's seat giving her all possible opportunities to choose her own path if she wanted to.

This was why I wasn't surprised that Ani realised his 'love' so fast. Because for Ani it was a foregone conclusion that man-woman waala love was definitely going to happen when Bon became a woman. It was just the last piece of the puzzle for him.

@Saffi I have tagged you for your insights.

Well written post Ash 🤗

Explained the nuances of Ani and Bon's preleap relationship beautifully. I agree Ani didn't have a sudden realization of romantic love; in fact he had waited eight years to express it.

You know Nazhuk Kali the best dear ❤️

Originally posted by: Arvi_006

Sacch mein aisa hua hai Rinnie???😮😮😮

I could not see the IV ......my god mahaan aatma hai yeh...still we will stick to #BFF goals🥰

Hahaha... Inke saare IV dekh lo saathme, you will get my hints 😆

Waise main mazak kar ri hu.. pravi ko thoda lapet lapet ke marna tha mujhe bhi isliye bol di yeh sab.

Originally posted by: Unnatiiii_17

All the scenes mentioned above are very wrong step taken my makers...they romantisized it for keeping Aurra longer in the show....n people fell for it....what are you trying to say...Anirudh was attracted to a 12 year old kid....i mean for uh it's okay for a man to get attracted for a child when she is 12 and just wait for her to grow up....what kind of mentality is this?What is the difference between Ani n CC if this is the case?Both were waiting for her to grow up?Is this what u wanna convey through through whatever you wrote above?

First thing, CC did not intend to wait for Bon to grow up. If Bon had not run away, CC would have gotten his SR with a 12 year old. Ani on the other hand was not just waiting for Bon to 'grow up'. That would be grooming. He simply freed her to make her own choice, while knowing that for Ani there would be no one else. Sending her away and the no-contact clause was part of the whole thing. He wanted to put some distance so that Bon's eventual choice was not clouded. And most importantly, her choice would be accepted.

Second, as a biology graduate I will tell you, attraction is never a choice. What you choose to do about that attraction is a choice and tells you what kind of person you are. Thakur, CC, and Ani all found a 12 year old attractive on the hormonal level. But the way they behaved was different. Thakur chose to act on his lust and molest her. CC chose to marry her and gain his husbandly rights. But Ani, who actually could have acted on those emotions and no one would have objected, chose to not pursue any kind of romantic relationship with Bon until she grew up and chose him.

Because while attraction is not wrong, acting on it would be wrong.

This is just my opinion, so if yours is different, we can agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: GinniAARAFAN

Pravi ke jaisi bimari mat laga ...woh pravi hai....tu sabke samne apna kachra karwayegi.............😆

Ginni...🤗🤗

Sab Log Manaye shok

Kahein Ye Jog Hai Mere

Mann Ka Koi Rog

Par yeh toh mera pyaar hai...Mere Pravi ke liye...😆

Originally posted by: zerroo

Excellent explation....I loved it to the core.....you write so lucidity....can you please elaborate on the present intense love which Ani feels for Bondita....I am often curious by some dualogues which undermine an almost dangerous passion which Ani has for her....if possible pls do write what you feel about the present track

Ani's love for Bon has always had only one principle - Ani will always be what Bon needs him to be at any point in time. This has been the case both pre and post leap.