Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 113

Originally posted by: Beautyful_Mess

Exactly what I said in my previous post they are not mature or sensible. They are abusive and dumb. 😂 can’t figure out what’s right in front and don’t care either. All they care about is putting up fake appearance. 😕

And thinking back- it has always been the problem. Isn't thag why GauRa hid the DevTa story from Raavi in the first place- it was like why even the stir the pot- jaisa chal raha hai, chalne do.

Even after the issue blowing up in their faces they have not learnt. Worst is when they do it to their own family members- like hiding from Suman. How would Dev or Shiva ever learn to be open about their feelings. They have literally been taught timw and again that you should hide for other people's "happiness"

Did not want to say it but Maami was right( though her words had no bearing on the matter at hand- ShiVi's divorce), but Shiva and Dev had terrible upbringing from Dhara. Suman, for all her faults, might have taught them to be forthcoming and decisive.

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

So actually no fun character left in the show right 🤨

There are no longe rany light hearted moments- maybe some that Rishitha provides sometimes 😕

Wow, I thought Haveli track was bad, but in retrospect it is coming in the golden days category 🤪 Even Maami and Anita used to provide some comic relief at that time.

Now not even Krish can come up with some relief. Unless you count that horrible smothering in sleep scene as comedy

If someone told me that was the Golden Days, I wouldn't have believed them either 😆 I thought nothing could get worse than Dhara's danda... but these past 2 weeks sucked the fun and joy out of me like no other... episodes are becoming yellow only because they weren't as emotionally draining as others, not because the episode was good

I doubt if Devta are a couple at all!

their problems is whitewashed the most! Rishitha is insecure but hardly discusses it with Dev.

He was ready to marry someone else and they have no conversation about it!
Atleast with Shivi we know they dislike each other, why dont these 2 have any conversations at all!
Rishita has severe adjustment issues but Dev isn’t helping her at all!
it’s baffling

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

If someone told me that was the Golden Days, I wouldn't have believed them either 😆 I thought nothing could get worse than Dhara's danda... but these past 2 weeks sucked the fun and joy out of me like no other... episodes are becoming yellow only because they weren't as emotionally draining as others, not because the episode was good

Exactly- I feel the same 😆

I took a 2 day break from the episodes and I could visibly see the difference. There is something terribly wrong with the vibe of the show. Even with heavy emotions, the whole feeling of the episode never used to be negative.

Not sure how much actor/ PH politics behind the scenes is affecting the story progression. But the actors itself seem more in a negative space- this is purely my feeling. 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

And thinking back- it has always been the problem. Isn't thag why GauRa hid the DevTa story from Raavi in the first place- it was like why even the stir the pot- jaisa chal raha hai, chalne do.

Even after the issue blowing up in their faces they have not learnt. Worst is when they do it to their own family members- like hiding from Suman. How would Dev or Shiva ever learn to be open about their feelings. They have literally been taught timw and again that you should hide for other people's "happiness"

Did not want to say it but Maami was right( though her words had no bearing on the matter at hand- ShiVi's divorce), but Shiva and Dev had terrible upbringing from Dhara. Suman, for all her faults, might have taught them to be forthcoming and decisive.

It's still unforgiveable to me that these 3 bandhars are not independent in the slightest, but unfortunately, I have seen a few men who believe the woman has to do everything 🤢

Show would've been more trailblazing had each of the brothers had a special talent, Dev being a master cleaner, Shiva being the cook, and Krish being the caring one who joked and gave his mother medicine... but that means Dhara devi wouldn't have such talents and wouldn't be able to prove her mahan status 🙄

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Exactly- I feel the same 😆

I took a 2 day break from the episodes and I could visibly see the difference. There is something terribly wrong with the vibe of the show. Even with heavy emotions, the whole feeling of the episode never used to be negative.

Not sure how much actor/ PH politics behind the scenes is affecting the story progression. But the actors itself seem more in a negative space- this is purely my feeling. 🤷‍♀️

I think so too, everything about your post!

I took a week break at the end of July (when it was still decent), and I had a pretty solid week. Never felt emotionally drained, and it was perfect. But then I keep coming back to the forum for the people. Hence why I am still here...

Same with the actors... I feel like they know that they are not getting much, in terms of lines, or a proper story. All the stories are so segregated with GauRa being the tying thread... it should be all the couples being together, sometimes ShiVi helping DevTa, sometimes DevTa helping ShiVi, Krish helping both of them...

Originally posted by: wanderer102016

I doubt if Devta are a couple at all!

their problems is whitewashed the most! Rishitha is insecure but hardly discusses it with Dev.

He was ready to marry someone else and they have no conversation about it!
Atleast with Shivi we know they dislike each other, why dont these 2 have any conversations at all!
Rishita has severe adjustment issues but Dev isn’t helping her at all!
it’s baffling

Completely agree with this too- they don't really give off a couplw vibe.

Honestly it seems more like they are roommates living in a dorm like situation They come together and converse only to figure out logistics of their living situation 😆

Atleats in the Haveli they showed some romatic gestures, but now that they have their own room, they behave like brother sister 🤣

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

It's still unforgiveable to me that these 3 bandhars are not independent in the slightest, but unfortunately, I have seen a few men who believe the woman has to do everything 🤢

Show would've been more trailblazing had each of the brothers had a special talent, Dev being a master cleaner, Shiva being the cook, and Krish being the caring one who joked and gave his mother medicine... but that means Dhara devi wouldn't have such talents and wouldn't be able to prove her mahan status 🙄

Exactly!!

If only the guys were independent it would send such a progressive message!

It also would have helped Dhara since she worked a lot on the store and it’s debt!
only to stick to stupid patriarchial practices of bahu doing everything, they’ve made the guys so parastitic to dhara that’s it’s quite disgusting to watch!
No offense 🤢

Kadara kadara mokkai pottalum mudhiya maatingethe

( Howmuch ever nonsense I spew, it ( thread) is not getting over)

Good News for the Pandyas!

Shiva rushes to the hospital and tries to meet Dhara in her ward. Later, the Pandyas celebrate Dhara's discharge and host a party at home.

I hope this means it will be a positive episode today!