Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#80|Teri Meri Shaadi Khatam (YELLOW) - Page 99

Originally posted by: anshika5103

One thing I can't understand why every one disliked today's episode ... They are characters for obvious reasons they are not right neither shiva nor raavi...

But disliking every episode now and then makes me question ourselves what we really expect from CVS.. we want seperation we want angst we want love story. They are giving it ...

Actually PS is truly giving us proper character arc

Dhara , gautam , Rishita , dev, suman , shiva , raavi , Krish ,maami everyone is flawed but that doesn't make them bad human beings we learn from our mistakes..

Coming to raavi & shiva they are two freminies ...these things are bound to happen that's the story..

Yes cvs gave us the share of bad episode but they gave us good too

I don't want to target anyone but we can go a bit easy on CVS...

I feel for both shiva and raavi and the best thing about this storyline is we are forced to question ourself ... What would we have done...

Truly I feel PS is one of the best shows on starplus..

Just a side note- you do know that our bickering and cribbing here will not make an iota of difference to the CVs, right 🤣

For that matter, TT and Insta folk are also completely irrelevant to the actual running of the show.

As long as the TRP audience are good, the show will run- The CVs will continue to show what the TRP audience wants, irrespective of what we rant 🤷‍♀️

We are kind of doing this for kicks. We all know it is fictional- it is just nice to air out our opinions and go back and forth on something that is not real.

Take our grumblings with a pinch of salt 😆 We are all here to have fun and think different.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

You should give the episode a chance! This is certainly one of the most divisive episodes in PS history with people supporting Raavi, supporting Shiva, thinking the episode is Red, thinking the episode is Green

It definitely will spark discussion on how the family should handle issues moving forward, will make you realize that ShiVi separation is quite needed since it is unhealthy for them to stay together with their current way of thinking, and how the family is wrong about ShiVi...

All in all, the acting in today's episode was very much on point! KD really brought out the guilt and remorse on his face in those last few seconds, and you couldn't help but feel for him. At the same time, Alice had a perfect balance of anger, surprise, and shock... KDice owned the episode!

Thank you for the review! The episode sounds really ugly based on all the comments, so I don't know if I will watch it 😆

However, I am completely in favor of ShiVi separation, from the past few episodes. In fact, I want them to divorce! Raavi deserves to marry the man of her dreams she has always wished for who is a gentleman, well dressed and well educated. Shiva deserves a girl who can respect him, will not treat him as a necessary evil in her life, and will not make him feel that he is inferior to her whenever they have an argument or a disagreement 😆

Originally posted by: Mahidev

The moment you lay your hand on someone, it is assault period, it does not matter if you are provoked or not. This is the issue with society the fact that mental abuse is not taken seriously as physical abuse, since it is subtle and leaves no evidence.

Let me tell you the reason why I left the police force, it was a false molestation case, It was my 4th case as a detective. I started to look for evidence with my partner, around that time we had a male rape case (female professor raped a male student). We spent nearly 2 months on the molestation case and the other 2 in our team focused on the rape. Long story short, the girl was lying. Since our attention was divided with this case, the rape case was falling apart because male student was almost twice the size/height of the professor and nobody believed his story. By the time we find the evidence to nail the 🤬 the student committed suicide. We were late by 35 MINUTES. It was a huge blow to me and even though my boss tried to help me process it, I couldn't comprehend that everyone was ready to help with the molestation case but the rape case nobody was coming forward and many thought we were wasting our time. So since then something in me as changed immensely when it comes to male victims.

I am sorry to hear this😒

You okay?

Originally posted by: Mahidev

The moment you lay your hand on someone, it is assault period, it does not matter if you are provoked or not. This is the issue with society the fact that mental abuse is not taken seriously as physical abuse, since it is subtle and leaves no evidence.

Let me tell you the reason why I left the police force, it was a false molestation case, It was my 4th case as a detective. I started to look for evidence with my partner, around that time we had a male rape case (female professor raped a male student). We spent nearly 2 months on the molestation case and the other 2 in our team focused on the rape. Long story short, the girl was lying. Since our attention was divided with this case, the rape case was falling apart because male student was almost twice the size/height of the professor and nobody believed his story. By the time we find the evidence to nail the 🤬 the student committed suicide. We were late by 35 MINUTES. It was a huge blow to me and even though my boss tried to help me process it, I couldn't comprehend that everyone was ready to help with the molestation case but the rape case nobody was coming forward and many thought we were wasting our time. So since then something in me as changed immensely when it comes to male victims.

First , I have huge respect for u for having been in such a noble profession .

Second , i have seen many cases in around my home as well . My uncle's being lawyers , I have seen how legalities regarding such cases go up close .hence the opinion . The thing is in the entire conversation peope have presumed things I didn't even say. . I never spoke about Shiva's mental health or Raavi being supreme. But I do find his acts far worse than Raavi's . Murder done in the fit of rage or under mental trauma is still murder

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

Noo, don't. Kanta Kaki came to the rescue to even out the fields.

It doesn't look like the fields were evened out though, the whole thing still looks pretty unbalanced to me😆

but I'm glad Shiva got at least someone on his side for a minute or two 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Thank you for the review! The episode sounds really ugly based on all the comments, so I don't know if I will watch it 😆

However, I am completely in favor of ShiVi separation, from the past few episodes. In fact, I want them to divorce! Raavi deserves to marry the man of her dreams she has always wished for who is a gentleman, well dressed and well educated. Shiva deserves a girl who can respect him, will not treat him as a necessary evil in her life, and will not make him feel that he is inferior to her whenever they have an argument or a disagreement 😆

My hope is the CVs will transition both their characters into being the perfect matches for each other. I personally would've liked more subtle realization (especially since airing your dirty laundry out in public is never the way to go) like what was shown in the OG... but to give the CVs credit, Shiva and Raavi are very different from Kathir and Mullai, for one, Shiva is much more explosive while Raavi is still unsure on how to move the marriage forward....

A separation, with both of them realizing what makes a couple strong/weak would be very beneficial at the moment! But I do think after they get together, they will slowly change themselves to compromise and fit the other person's wishes/wants

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

@bold, I think it's a difference in opinion. From my understanding, today's episode has resonated with people in all different ways, which is why the opinions are so mixed. Perhaps people who voted red are the most vocal here on the EDT; however, if you see the poll ML posted on the main thread (Link here), you'll see that quite a few people loved it (57% voted Green for today's episode)

My dislike for today's episode entirely stems from the first half of the episode. The family's abrupt accusation for Shiva without hearing his side broke me. Before medical school, I worked with children, and hearing their stories of how their families didn't care for them broke me. So seeing this episode reminded me of all the conversations I had with children who were depressed... and honestly, after hearing a child say, "All I want is for my mother to hug me..." I can't help but pray for children who were abused, neglected, poorly treated... and this episode reminded me of that pain (hence why I am unable to move on from it)

Shiva has grown up in a family who has not properly appreciated him, besides Suman and Krish, unlike Raavi who was loved by Maami, Anita, and Mausa-Pa. I keep hoping for a scene where the Pandya family begins to cherish and respect Shiva, but I haven't seen it so far... maybe this will be the track where everyone respects him, but until that, I will reserve my judgement

So seeing this episode reminded me of all the conversations I had with children who were depressed... and honestly, after hearing a child say, "All I want is for my mother to hug me..." I can't help but pray for children who were abused, neglected, poorly treated... and this episode reminded me of that pain (hence why I am unable to move on from it)

that's my point it is soo realistic.. harsh but realistic I loved that cvs pointed this trait of shiva .... no matter how much your family loves you.. everybody needs that hug ...shiva seems to be strong physically and mentally and I am so happy at the same time he so vulnerable..

I loved the episode because the characters are so real..

Originally posted by: mpks1

@bold - that’s the last thing I want😕 She is the sole reason for all this calamity in their lives. Makers have ruined Dhara for me post leap. I used to root for her for her sacrifices and the abuse she took from Suman, waiting to see a change happen in her life post leap, oh boy! Instead they ruined her so much.

I didn't really want a Dhara conversation. I'm just surprised that she ganged up on him too after 2 lines from Raavi. She's the same one who called him khara sona and everything. But today, she changed teams so fast that I was blindsided lol

@bold- she is getting yelled at Raavi tomorrow. But I won't talk about it now because I don't know if they'll justify it correctly.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Of course it is

And yet her slap is justified

And his wrist twisting is not...

She have pushed him in haveli

Tried to slap him after kidnapping

held his collars

And yet all of that is okay...

Why?

U wanna justify her slap because of his question on her character?

What about the pushing pulling she did?

What about the collar holding she did?

It comes under manhandling too isn’t it?

Can u justify that?

The point was never if Shiva was wrong

Shiva is wrong, a lot. Everyone agrees.

The point is how come Raavi isn’t wrong when she have done many of the things wrong herself!

Shiva is wrong

Raavi is wrong

Both needs to grow!

So when u see his fault and think how come Raavi is being blamed

Many here sees her fault too...

Thank you for saying this! 👏

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

It doesn't look like the fields were evened out though, the whole thing still looks pretty unbalanced to me😆

but I'm glad Shiva got at least someone on his side for a minute or two 😆

Shiliya is possible now

So thats a positive 🖤🤣