Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#80|Teri Meri Shaadi Khatam (YELLOW) - Page 28

When I thought Raavi is feeling guilty of herself for slapping Shiva, and then I gotta know She's blaming Shiva for making her like this😕

Me-

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Nah, just curious!! I didn’t buy the breakdown.

But then I don’t like Raavi so anything she does pisses me off 😆

If it helps, I didn't understand Raavi's breakdown either 😆

It was supposed to be an emotional sequence where you genuinely feel bad for both of them, but Raavi's characterization has been completely ruined by the CVs... her wedding breakdown though... as a woman, even if I have never experienced what happened to her, her pain and anguish haunts me to this day. I didn't feel sympathetic for her in the slightest, rather I felt angry and mad that she had to go through all that on what should've been the happiest day of her life.

Today's breakdown was the exact opposite. I couldn't understand her emotions, and I really, really didn't like how it seemed as though she was more disappointed in the fact that she became a junglee like Shiva instead of her regret for hitting Shiva...

The bike on fire and the rain falling soon after seemed like a forced scene by the CVs of, "Hey! Don't worry! After this dumpster fire, they'll be together!"

How involved do you guys think they will make the other family members into shivi reconciliation ?

Im dreading the gyans shiva and raavi are gonna get from the family members about their situation ugh

Originally posted by: AppleOfEye

When I thought Raavi is feeling guilty of herself for slapping Shiva, and then I gotta know She's blaming Shiva for making her like this😕

Me-

this is so apt for the situation....wait what 😳 😐 😕 🤔 he tha

are we going to bash raavi on sundayy too😆 intense episode + IF bhi kaafi intense hai.... can we just take a chill- pill on sunday.

❤️

you're backkkkk 🤗

I MISSED YOU SO MUCH 🥺❤️

Originally posted by: manny136

How involved do you guys think they will make the other family members into shivi reconciliation ?

Im dreading the gyans shiva and raavi are gonna get from the family members about their situation ugh

m gonna do yalgaar if anyone....ANYONE tries to give gyan....gautam and krish are my exceptions....

agar hare dhara ya dev ne muh khola to bus khatam 💣 🌀 🌋 ho jayega

Originally posted by: Pratichi16

Hi everyone, I am Pratichi; I am usually a silent member of this forum. I love the EDT discussions and a #shivi shipper.

After going through all the posts here, however, I have a genuine question: while both Shiva and Raavi are wrong on many accounts, I am wondering why the burden of understanding Shiva's insecurity should fall on Raavi. Yes, Raavi is immature and not always perceptive, but she also has her own issues of abandonment to deal with (which of course will never be dealt with explicitly in the serial). This marriage was never an act of choice for either of them, especially for Raavi who literally faced the worst rejection possible on the day of her marriage. While Raavi may have faltered on many accounts to understand Shiva (which also develops after many trials and errors), Shiva's falling for her and consequent insecurities are not Raavi's responsibility. While Shiva's fear of rejection is understandable, but under no circumstances, can that justify Shiva's outbursts and abusive behaviors (physically) towards Raavi. At least, after their khandar and kangan misunderstanding was over, Raavi tried her best (in her own way, may not be ideal) to accept Shiva and this marriage wholeheartedly. It's difficult for Raavi to fall for Shiva rightaway given the history and the contrasting personalities; but at least she started. But Shiva's male ego and insecurity tested her attempts time and again leading to this confrontation today. I am not blaming Shiva here because one can understand from where his insecurities are coming but that again cannot justify his bad behaviour (almost borderline abusive) towards Raavi in the past few days. Both were equally wrong here (and that's the beauty of any relationship) and hope they rise from here together.

Just an honest reflection and not at all intended for hurting anyone. :)

None of us here is justifying shiva's anger and outburst. He definitely needs to control his anger and learn to manage it better. But Raavi has been responsible for triggering his insecurities, both directly by saying words like jaahil, gawar, jungli jaanwar to him, and indirectly when her friends and family says this to him over and over again, because of her. This again doesn't mean that the entire burden of taking care of his insecurities falls on her head. Shiva has to realize his worth, and gain confidence in himself for sure. But she cannot shrug off all the blame for making him feel like he doesn't deserve her, and that he is inferior to her, because she has done it. Time and again. And she needs to realize how cruel and hurtful her words are, and that she cannot bully him like this.

Originally posted by: manny136

How involved do you guys think they will make the other family members into shivi reconciliation ?

Im dreading the gyans shiva and raavi are gonna get from the family members about their situation ugh

I wish Cvs for God sake Let Shiva & Raavi solve their problems alone this time!! It doesn’t feel good to see everytime bhabimaa coming between them & being their so called *helper*!

But We can't also ignore that our ShiVi are very immature and they always misunderstood each-other most of the times!😆

So A *good* third party can help them too in this matter, but dont want it to be Dhara/Gaumbi🤡

I wouldn’t mind Suman if she gives them some actual good advice!😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

@ bold - join my bandwagon for Raavi and I will join yours for Shiva with Tapasvini🤣

I will join you 😆